Blow Job Etiquette

[6T8NIOU1]

Fuck that grow up if you suck dick you should expect to get cum in your mouth ... If you don't you are not doing it right and you should not be in that position. It CUMS with the territory.. NO HALF ASS HEAD JOBS SUCK IT TO COMPLETION!!!!!!

 

[Iwanthead]

6T8NIOU1 I agree completely. As OP stated the service provider took his hands and put them on his head as if he wanted some guidance. I would have held his head and blown my load down his throat too. However, I would have informed him prior to providing service that I expect to be serviced to completion.

 

[Brisler]

Man, this forum is seriously fucked up...

If someone asks you not to cum in his/her mouth, then for fucks sake don't do it. How hard is that? Whether you're at a bath house, in Japan or in the Garden of Eden doesn't matter. Just don't mistreat people. God damn...

Just because some of you are the lords of fellatio doesn't mean that this dude is. It could have been his first time for all we know. Whether he knew that he was about to cum or not doesn't really matter anyway. It's pretty clear from the OP that he was pretty much forced to receive the shitty semen... There is no way that poor man could be at fault here.

Argh... Indignation... And these opinions aren't even restricted to one user, it's the freakin' consensus. You guys fucking suck (pun or no pun intended).

 

[Mercurygirl]

I've had family visiting from out of town staying with me this week so there hasn't been any action for the last 4 days. They left yesterday so I decided to go over to Steamworks (bath house) last night in search of some relief. They have a room that I call the "suckatorium". It has a raised platform that runs along 2 walls with a railing on the inner edge. This allows the suckee to stand on the platform and face the railing. The suckor can stand on the floor and face the suckee with his mouth just about at cock level. This is really nice no sore knees or awkward positions. I was standing on the platform facing the railing with my package fully exposed making it pretty obvious what I was looking for. After a couple of minutes a guy came up and played with my dick and balls for a few seconds and asked "you won't cum in my mouth will you?" I answered "it depends on how good you are." He proceeded to go to town on my cock. He was really good. Lots of silvia drooling from his mouth. Hitting all the right spots. He even deep throated it 4 or 5 times. The last time he took my hand and put it behind his head like he wanted me to push his head down on my cock which I did a couple more times. He started to gently tug on my balls (that's my trigger). The jizz was ready to fly. I reached over with both hands and pushed his head back down hard and shot down his throat. He gagged a little ( for the first time) Looked up at me and said "you weren't supposed to cum in my mouth, ASS HOLE" then stomped out of the room. It sure seemed to me like he wanted his reward. Did I break the rules here?

Yes, and from the tone of your post, purposely.

Your pic speaks volumes of your life experience, clearly you knew you were breaking the rules and did it in some sort of warped sexual power play. Just the way you describe forcing him to swallow his "reward" reeks of you mentally and physically getting off dominating and using the guy.

Lets for argument sake say he should have made himself clear (or smarter still just walked away) after you replied, "depends on how good you are" you still must know at your age that as a courtesy you always make the blower aware you're about to come. That's day one of proper blowjob etiquette 101.

So stop being so coy and come clean. You were really horny what with the relatives in town, took this guy simply as a means, a tool, someone who you could push around, use, probably someone you felt you could beat up if things got ugly, and basically didn't care what his feeling were on the matter. You were gonna get yours and his, "you won't cum in my mouth will you?" was inconsequential.

The only question that remains is are you really looking for an answer on bj etiquette or are you just getting off again by revisiting your gross and contemptible behavior here?

 

[TheWonderBoy]

U always give a heads up before u cum if u r getting a blowjob.

Agreed. That is one of the top rules of Blow Job Etiquette.

 

[fergusonsmith]

You are an asshole. No question.

 

[nnjjock24]

I agree that especially in this situation you should have said you were about to cum. It's not that hard. I learned to do it.

 

[matelalique]

I think this is a really interesting discussion about expectations of experienced and inexperienced boys who go to bathhouses. If I were an inexperienced boy thinking about trying it out, this thread would terrify me. I have found that the question "Where do you want me to come?" when enjoying a stranger solves most of the problems rather than making assumptions. As for the OP - yeah, you''re an arsehole. If he was experienced he would know when you were going to shoot, but it sounds like he wasn't, and now has to go home and panic about AIDS for three weeks. He made it clear that he didn't want you to shoot in his mouth, and went to town on you anyway, and was apparently very good at what he did. he kept up his part of the implicit bargain - you should have kept up your end of the bargain.

 

[bighosenow]

I've had family visiting from out of town staying with me this week so there hasn't been any action for the last 4 days. They left yesterday so I decided to go over to Steamworks (bath house) last night in search of some relief. They have a room that I call the "suckatorium". It has a raised platform that runs along 2 walls with a railing on the inner edge. This allows the suckee to stand on the platform and face the railing. The suckor can stand on the floor and face the suckee with his mouth just about at cock level. This is really nice no sore knees or awkward positions. I was standing on the platform facing the railing with my package fully exposed making it pretty obvious what I was looking for. After a couple of minutes a guy came up and played with my dick and balls for a few seconds and asked "you won't cum in my mouth will you?" I answered "it depends on how good you are." He proceeded to go to town on my cock. He was really good. Lots of silvia drooling from his mouth. Hitting all the right spots. He even deep throated it 4 or 5 times. The last time he took my hand and put it behind his head like he wanted me to push his head down on my cock which I did a couple more times. He started to gently tug on my balls (that's my trigger). The jizz was ready to fly. I reached over with both hands and pushed his head back down hard and shot down his throat. He gagged a little ( for the first time) Looked up at me and said "you weren't supposed to cum in my mouth, ASS HOLE" then stomped out of the room. It sure seemed to me like he wanted his reward. Did I break the rules here?

Thanks for all your comments here. In retrospect I agree my behavior was unacceptable and that an apology was in order. The problem was I didn't even know the guys name.

I was coming out of the supermarket yesterday afternoon and who do I see coming across the parking lot but my "sucker" from last week at Steamworks. My mind started racing OMG what should I do. I decided WTF I can't make it any worse so I smiled and headed over to him. I introduced myself and said "I think I owe you a apology for my behavior at Steamworks last week" He smiled back and told me his name and said "apology accepted" We determined that we both lived in the neighborhood along with some other small talk. I noticed that during our brief conversation that his eyes kept darting down to my crotch which gave me the courage to ask if he'd like to meet up for a coffee or drink sometime. I gave him my phone number and he put it into his phone (my phone was home on the charger). We parted and I finished my errands. When I got home there was a text from the dude. We're meeting this afternoon at Starbucks. I hope this gets me off his "ass hole" list and yes I would like another chance to enjoy his oral skills. We'll see how it goes.

 

[cbxer55]

Sounds like a happy ending. Cool. As to me, when I am sucking a guy's cock, I am doing it with one goal in mind, a mouthful of cum. I like feeling the eruption in my mouth, it's what a head job is all about.

Hopefully your next meetup has a happy ending.

 

[FloridaFree]

I get the heat of the moment part of it, but if some random guy is giving you a blowjob, you really should listen to him, how is he supposed to know you don't have a disease of some kind? If he doesn't want you to cum in mouth, you shouldn't be doing it.

 

[belowaverage1]

From the words you provided the indication is that he was made aware it could happen. He did good, he got cum in his mouth. It's what happens.

I think it's a good idea to announce that you are going to cum before doing so in case they aren't okay with it and as a courtesy. Some guys shoot a lot of cum and it's good to be prepared for that.

Apparently he liked it if he wants more irregardless of his reaction to you doing it the first time.

 

[Cowboy_Jake]

My wife and I were with a guy having a threesome. They were kissing and I was sucking the guy’s cock. This was a first time for the three of us. As he was getting close to cuming, he said to me that he was about to cum. I looked at him and said that was why I was sucking him. I then went back and finished him off. :biggrin1:

It was nice of him to warn me, but in my case to make him cum was my objective. I think you should have warned him you were about to cum and let him decide what to do.

 

[blackbottom2]

A dominant man sometimes even an arsehole can be very attractive.

Some people actually enjoy the process of being taken or slightly forced to do stuff. Hence the thrill of having the top force cock suckers head down and disregarding the gag reflex somewhat.

I guess your charm in the supermarket afterwards payed dividends. Had you ignored him you would have remained just an arsehole.