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inquiringmind: Orca,
Looking at your thread about lusting after a zaftig woman, don't you think that the aesthetic of the African Diaspora is probably a bit more in favor of or forgiving of abundance? I was tickled when I heard that in some African countries brides were "fattened up" for the wedding day. Lends a whole new view of "love handles", huh? Does it have to do with the fact that in the face of starvation, fleshiness is a sign of health and wealth? In the West, the figure of the ingenue seems to be favored more... I wonder if this is a hold over from each culture's archetypal example of the fertile female?

Inquiring mind

 

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[quote author=inquiringmind link=board=women;num=1063249951;start=20#36 date=10/21/03 at 06:05:27] I do have a question for the men that like large breasts... Do you think you were influenced by family, porn, liking the way they move when touched or shaken or the fact that as men who are generously endowed they are a good alternative site for nestling your magnificent member?
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I've kinda answered this question before in various posts, I know I was influence by my mom, she is VERY busty, 40G, being breastfed spoiled me for life We joke saying she either breastfed me for way to long, or not long enough. ;D Also, when I was 14, the first girl I was with, my gf at the time, was packin FF's! Which also helped in spoiling me!
As for being hung like I am, did it effect my tastes? I'm sure it effected it somewhat, but how much, not much I guess, im sure if I wasnt as big, i'd still love huge breasts.

 

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ORCABOMBER: [quote author=inquiringmind link=board=women;num=1063249951;start=40#40 date=10/22/03 at 15:46:32]Orca,
Looking at your thread about lusting after a zaftig woman, don't you think that the aesthetic of the African Diaspora is probably a bit more in favor of or forgiving of abundance? I was tickled when I heard that in some African countries brides were "fattened up" for the wedding day. Lends a whole new view of "love handles", huh? Does it have to do with the fact that in the face of starvation, fleshiness is a sign of health and wealth? In the West, the figure of the ingenue seems to be favored more... I wonder if this is a hold over from each culture's archetypal example of the fertile female?
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See your point InquiringMind. Altough since my parents were African Carribean/Asian Carribean descended, that's going way way way back and I don't want to go into "is culture genetic?" argument. But onto your last statement, it is pretty fascinating that the appeal of women varies so much between cultures. I think onto your question of "fat=wealth?" I think it's probably more along the lines of fertility, more than anything. If you've got the build of a little girl, or are pretty skinny, what's the chance of successfully carrying to term? Pretty low, so maybe that's involved, at least subconsciously.

Personally, I just think that people on the whole shouldn't be ashamed of their size if it's not damaging to health.

The sex hormones are fat based, after all...

 

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gicast: ok I did some research once on weight and fertility. I found that women who were overweight had problems with getting pregnant, the same applied to underweight women. Then of course to test (not purposely) when I lost weight to my ideal size I got pregnant. Then when I lost all the baby weight and got to my ideal size again, I got pregnant again!!! I'm not going to prove it right a third time, though.

 

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jerkin4-10: ok, ok, ok...breasts get my attention...BUT if thats all thats going on there...i just move one...i prefer to look at woman as a 'column of numbers' hair is first...assign a number to how you like her hair, then face, shoulders, breasts, stomach, hips, butt and legs...[we're just talking visual here]...a woman can be weak in the face...but have a smokin body...and you have a winnah...
same for other body parts...or be stunningly beautiful and have an average body....and be a winnah...a perfect example for me is...gwyneth paltrow...shes not just stunning...but her column of numbers ads up, because there are no negative features...not real big breasts...but nice...flat stomach...nice legs...my theory...

 

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Vincentr1: Why are women so insecure about this issue? ??? :
Thank goodness men don't worry about the size issue

I for one have a serious weakness for the female form. Women have got to be the most beautiful beings God ever created. I get just as turned on when I see large breasts with the right amount of cleavage and bounce as whe I see small breast with perky nipples and no bra. I believe men like beautiful images. but they don't get attached to images. They get attached to sources of pleasure. Breasts can provide a pleasurable image but not pleasure itself. I takes a certain kind of woman to do that.

That said, the big ones are more fun to play with. I absolutely love it when my wife shows her's off. It's fun to watch men act stupid in public when she wears push-up bras and shows a little cleavage. I think she likes the attention too.

 

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sketcher: Vincent, I am with you on the pleasure center thing -- very articulate. well put.

For me, there is also a conveyance of power in the silhouette of a buxom woman. I know my busty women friends--many of them, anyway--say their breasts are very useful in a variety of socio-political situations where power becomes an issue. Too bad the well-hung among us can't use our endowment to similar ends

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NikkiSixx: I realise here that I shall be chided by many of the users, especially female users, in this group.

"I like big BOOBS and I cannnot lie..."
(apologies to Sir Mix-A-Lot)

Seriously, VERY few C cups will do (mostly if the woman is also slim and short), and many D's will not do...DD-G is ideal, but NO size will work on a woman who is larger than approximately 38-28-40.