Bottom needs advice

Better than a dildo is an inflatable dildo. I use those when I want to train to take even bigger/thicker than I already can (and I can take a lot). An inflatable allows you to transition from size to size to size as you expand it. Gettign dildoes of varying sizes doesn't wholly prepare you for the next size up.
 
one other thing.. the thin lubes like Astroglide and KY liquid didn't work for me, I went back to the old Dr.'s office thick KY jelly in a tube and it helped me greatly.

Also, if you're anal passage was tight as hell like mine, get that dildo in slowly, bear the pain from stretching for a few minutes and it WILL loosen up. After mine loosened up I was fucking my hole like a cunt.
 
I remember using a Doc Johnson 8 inch dildo that was about 1.25 inches in diameter and I thought it was HUGE! I used to use a thick lube called Spike, I think it came in a squeeze like accordion looking container, really thick and not super greasy and no need to keep reapplying. Anyway, I graduated to alot bigger and I found that if you really want it, you can put a pretty big penis or dildo in you. My favorite lube is the top's spit...
 
And you get these inflatables, where????


Better than a dildo is an inflatable dildo. I use those when I want to train to take even bigger/thicker than I already can (and I can take a lot). An inflatable allows you to transition from size to size to size as you expand it. Gettign dildoes of varying sizes doesn't wholly prepare you for the next size up.