Bottoming for a girthy dick

[XavierMax]

I need some advice on bottoming for a girthy dick. My bf has an average but girthy penis. I’ve always had pain every time I bottom for him. Idk if it’s his girth, his short length size that hurts, or I’m using the wrong lube. Trust me, I’ve tried all kinds. The one I haven’t tried is fisting lube. Of course I’m thinking that fisting lube would work since it’s used for bigger things than a penis. Any thoughts?

 

[17398591]

Practice with toys, butt plugs

 

[rockhardbttm]

Just what the previous person says.... practice with butt plugs because they taper and you can leave them in for awhile. Do that at least once a week and it should be a lot easier. Thick dicks tend to hurt more than long dicks.

 

[BigAl9]

About 6 months ago I decided to try bottoming. I obtained several dildoes. They ranged from insertable lengths of 4.5 inches to 8.5 inches. They also vary in girth. The largest being about 6.5 inches in girth. I practiced with them until I was able to comfortably take the largest one fully inserted. The largest cock I have had is just a bit under the size of the biggest dildoe. I have used various lubes. The favored type is silicone based. Thak your time. Best of luck.

 

[theplayerking]

I need some advice on bottoming for a girthy dick. My bf has an average but girthy penis. I’ve always had pain every time I bottom for him. Idk if it’s his girth, his short length size that hurts, or I’m using the wrong lube. Trust me, I’ve tried all kinds. The one I haven’t tried is fisting lube. Of course I’m thinking that fisting lube would work since it’s used for bigger things than a penis. Any thoughts?

Does he rim you to get you warmed up?

 

[UngodlyHour00]

Communication and oral is key.

You mentioned you've tried everything. I guess that includes toys and butt plugs. Maybe the issue is during sex. Like @theplayerking mentioned, do you guys have any foreplay?

I always make sure guys are ready to take my size. I'm about 5.5", I even reached 6" once. I spend a good 20 minutes rimming, fingering and pleasuring my bottom before any bigger insertion. If I completely bypassed this, it would definitely hurt.

 

[XavierMax]

About 6 months ago I decided to try bottoming. I obtained several dildoes. They ranged from insertable lengths of 4.5 inches to 8.5 inches. They also vary in girth. The largest being about 6.5 inches in girth. I practiced with them until I was able to comfortably take the largest one fully inserted. The largest cock I have had is just a bit under the size of the biggest dildoe. I have used various lubes. The favored type is silicone based. Thak your time. Best of luck.

I bought a butt plug and so far is has helped. I have to used it right before I bottom

 

[XavierMax]

Does he rim you to get you warmed up?

Sometimes but I think I have to do it longer.