Bottoming For Large Penises

[10996171]

Hi, I'm new to the forum and newly out of the closet.
Recently, I bottomed for a guy with huge and thick cock.
Afterwards, for days, I felt tearing and a sensation of shit coming out constantly (excuse my expression).
I'd like to hear from other guys who have had similar experiences, anything I could do in the future to lessen the impact. so to speak, apart from lube which I used.
Also, any of you with large cocks experienced any problem topping a bottom with tight hole?
appreciate your responses

 

[Wooly Mammoth]

Following... I'm interested in this from both the bottom and the top's point of view. One of my friends ended up in the hospital from a bottoming experience gone wrong (I wasn't there, but I have no reason to doubt him) but I don't think my own particular dick is long enough to cause serious damage.

 

[Tight_End_SC]

I have a question... is he new at topping? Taking the big one requires that you start out very slowly. His girth can cause that ripping feeling if he is too quick to slide it in. LUBE... you gotta use lots of it!

 

[hunghardandleaking]

I have taken quite a few big ones in the past and the biggest thing has been taking it slow and also not underestimating the use of foreplay. Being really turned on and warmed up helps more than you know. Also yes of course lube lube and more lube. The other thing too is to make sure there is an immense amount of communication especially when bottoming. Listen to your body. If things aren't ready or feeling good communicate that with your partner and if they aren't listening and taking that into account stop things.

 

[HOU_HEADHUNTER]

Following... I'm interested in this from both the bottom and the top's point of view. One of my friends ended up in the hospital from a bottoming experience gone wrong (I wasn't there, but I have no reason to doubt him) but I don't think my own particular dick is long enough to cause serious damage.

It not usually length that is the issue. It's the girth that I've always had an issue with.

 

[HOU_HEADHUNTER]

Hi, I'm new to the forum and newly out of the closet.
Recently, I bottomed for a guy with huge and thick cock.
Afterwards, for days, I felt tearing and a sensation of shit coming out constantly (excuse my expression).
I'd like to hear from other guys who have had similar experiences, anything I could do in the future to lessen the impact. so to speak, apart from lube which I used.
Also, any of you with large cocks experienced any problem topping a bottom with tight hole?
appreciate your responses

I'm curious to know what kind of lube you used and whether it was water based or silicone? I've done away with using water based lube as it doesn't really last very long and is not as slippery. Like someone else said foreplay is very crucial for the bottom. The more that you can be turned on and distracted from the pain the more he can coax more of his penis inside of you. It really does help. I've had some great pains free experiences with tops that took their time and was great with the foreplay.

 

[Wooly Mammoth]

It not usually length that is the issue. It's the girth that I've always had an issue with.

I can understand that, but aside from anal fissures (which are painful but heal quickly) I'm more concerned about the bend in the colon that long dicks can reach. I mean, maybe mine is long enough, but I don't think so. I have read that you need the rare 9 incher to actually cause trouble with that.

It's definitely painful to take a thick dick too quickly. I have been on the receiving end of that.

Pre-covid, I was playing with a guy in the local bathhouse. He turned me on so much that I had a rare rock hard erection. Usually I have to work it in. I stuck it in too quickly like a jerk (because I could I guess) and he wailed and shot up and jumped around for a bit! But this was transient pain.

 

[ManTubeula]

sad to hear about youse guys discomfort, truly ...turned on to hear monsters still doing hard work out here. be safe

 

[10996171]

Water based lube
We tried it from a side position and that was even more difficult. What seemed to be the most comfortable yet stimulating positions for you guys?

 

[deleted492746]

Hi, I'm new to the forum and newly out of the closet.
Recently, I bottomed for a guy with huge and thick cock.
Afterwards, for days, I felt tearing and a sensation of shit coming out constantly (excuse my expression).
I'd like to hear from other guys who have had similar experiences, anything I could do in the future to lessen the impact. so to speak, apart from lube which I used.
Also, any of you with large cocks experienced any problem topping a bottom with tight hole?
appreciate your responses

What foreplay did you do to relax you before bottoming? Or did he just lube and shove it in without foreplay?

 

[10996171]

What foreplay did you do to relax you before bottoming? Or did he just lube and shove it in without foreplay?

Not much, it wasn’t a relationship
Only a bit of touching and massaging each other ...

 

[Tight_End_SC]

Start out face down on the bed. Let your top man tease your butt with his big member. For me, if he is on top of me that way, kissing my neck and telling me how much he wants to slide it up inside.... that puts me in the receiving mode needed to accommodate. My favorite is coconut oil for lube.

 

[deleted492746]

Not much, it wasn’t a relationship
Only a bit of touching and massaging each other ...

Friend, you need a top to tease and loosen your hole before they put their dick in. Have him use fingers first or toys first, or his tongue, to help relax you before you are penetrated. You shouldn't just let someone lube up and shove it in. You need to work your way there. Toys are also a good way to practice and get used to bottoming. Foreplay like this is important regardless of whether you're in a relationship or not.

YouTube has some great tips:

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[Dreyfus42]

I've found that you need to learn to enjoy eating ass, going slow and using lots of lube. Albolene is a really good lube, water based dries out too quickly if you're going slow. I'll start out with one finger, then keep adding until I can get at least 4 mostly inside. Then it's ready for the head of my cock

 

[AllDixNeedLuv69]

It’s all about trust lube and foreplay .. three inch anal plug does good .. but if a guy goes into you and it’s not slick all the way tell him add more lube

I’ve been fucked by huge dicks and double penetrated and it’s about lube and trusting the person or persons you are with

 

[deleted11476571]

sad to hear about youse guys discomfort, truly ...turned on to hear monsters still doing hard work out here. be safe

But the pleasure is like nothing else

 

[loya1]

I have a question on this. So I tried and the guy I was with was too big to get in very far. Now I am going to buy a dilator set to help me, but many of them only go to five inches in length and he is quite a bit longer than that. So do I need to get something longer as well to train with or is it that once it’s in it’s in?