Bottoming Help

[lostinspace94]

Started to bottom a lot more and noticed a few things. I'm a muscled guy so perhaps the 'mass' is also helping me somewhat.

A warm shower before sex loosens me up faster but I still need some foreplay and fingering before I'm able to take a dick. I prefer guys who are on the smaller side of the scale in general.

I've tried sniffing poppers which helps, but is still not the most comfortable thing. Its also not the best to be sniffing daily especially when its work the next day.

I really enjoy getting drilled missionary style but my inside kinda 'aches' when I'm being drilled but is fine when slowly inserted in/out. Most guys don't have the patience for this and won't cum like this either.

Doggy probably is the most comfortable and getting drilled doesn't hurt but there is no eye contact so I don't do this for the full session.

Any tips and tricks are very welcome in being a better bottom.

 

[ILoveGames48]

1… don’t do poppers they are dangerous .. read up on it and you will see what I am saying is true ..

When a guy goes to take my cock inside them.. they like it either spooning ( both lay on sides the one going to fuck lays behind the bottom. And get situated to where the cock will begin to penetrate .. this position helps your asshole and stuff relax..

Another one is the squat down onto it.. this is the reason you see a lot of pornstars men and women doing it this way a lot before going doggie style

 

[x911xxx]

Showing prior to fucking will help but I also recommend investing in some butt plugs. Plug up at least an hour before, or even better just wear them all the time like me. Also, lube is your friend. The more the better.

 

[lostinspace94]

1… don’t do poppers they are dangerous .. read up on it and you will see what I am saying is true ..

When a guy goes to take my cock inside them.. they like it either spooning ( both lay on sides the one going to fuck lays behind the bottom. And get situated to where the cock will begin to penetrate .. this position helps your asshole and stuff relax..

Another one is the squat down onto it.. this is the reason you see a lot of pornstars men and women doing it this way a lot before going doggie style

Oh, good to know. I didn't realise.

When I sit on him, I'm always able to take it up and no pain or anything. Doggy also doesn't hurt or anything once I'm a little looser. But guys always seem to want to start missionary or something and it almost never goes inside or stings if they are drilling me even after some time.

On the website that sells poppers I found some lube that is supposed to last longer, and also a numbing gel/cream which helps your ass pain. Wondering if that would help?

 

[lostinspace94]

Showing prior to fucking will help but I also recommend investing in some butt plugs. Plug up at least an hour before, or even better just wear them all the time like me. Also, lube is your friend. The more the better.

But I like to fuck randomly so an hour before isn't always planned haha. But if I wear it all the time, it will keep my hole open or something? What if I need to poop? Any Amazon links are welcome.

 

[ILoveGames48]

I use lube from this site

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Grunt cbd is good shit for a bottom .. look at my cock pic in photos and see what guys get to work with when I screw them

 

[Robert Dole]

But I like to fuck randomly so an hour before isn't always planned haha. But if I wear it all the time, it will keep my hole open or something? What if I need to poop? Any Amazon links are welcome.

It will get you used to being open for long periods of time and you can replace your plug with a cock if desired, sometimes it takes a while to return to normal so you may be flapping in the breeze for a while. If you need to poop you will feel the pressure build, remove it, do your business and reinsert with more lube.
Random stuff may be better later on...

 

[x911xxx]

It will get you used to being open for long periods of time and you can replace your plug with a cock if desired, sometimes it takes a while to return to normal so you may be flapping in the breeze for a while. If you need to poop you will feel the pressure build, remove it, do your business and reinsert with more lube.
Random stuff may be better later on...

This is the right answer. The plug will stretch you out over time but it will close too. You'll just be able to take bigger dick. You'll eventually get to where 9 inches slides in like butter.

 

[chrisrobin]

But I like to fuck randomly so an hour before isn't always planned haha. But if I wear it all the time, it will keep my hole open or something? What if I need to poop? Any Amazon links are welcome.

You will find a butt plug will help you take cock, I find guys get a bit turned on when I pop it out so they can ride me, and, after they've cum in me I pop the plug in and hold their jizz.

 

[ZMan22]

Oh, good to know. I didn't realise.

When I sit on him, I'm always able to take it up and no pain or anything. Doggy also doesn't hurt or anything once I'm a little looser. But guys always seem to want to start missionary or something and it almost never goes inside or stings if they are drilling me even after some time.

On the website that sells poppers I found some lube that is supposed to last longer, and also a numbing gel/cream which helps your ass pain. Wondering if that would help?

Lots of guys are happy to have you start on top. It's the best way to start because you can control things as you open up. As a top I find it hardest to come this way so it helps me "last" as well. Then we can move to other position(s). The important thing is that you shouldn't feel like you "have" to do anything babe -- it's your body. And if you're stressed or not feeling trust, it can be even more difficult to get to a place where you're enjoying yourself.

 

[goldscorpguy]

Like others, I'm also a big fan of the humble butt plug. If I know sex is likely then I always wear one for about an hour beforehand. It opens me up nicely and when it comes to the action, I'm then relaxed and ready for it.

 

[bravesoldier]

This is my experience- the bigger the cock the less it hurts. Many have testified to this and the reason I believe, is when the stretch to the anal sphincter exceeds a certain amount, the sphincter more or less gives up and entry hurts way less. There may be a little discomfort, but nothing compared to slim cocks. A little further explanation of this.. As we all know, the anus is an exit naturally and not a natural entrance. When a average, slim cock goes in it's like an invasion and that strong muscle rebels naturally, that is why it hurts. But as said, when the anal stretch exceeds the rebel of the muscle, the muscle surrenders. I was scared for a year to take my 6.5-inch girth buddy, but when he took me, I was astounded how easily my little butthole opened up and lovingly swallowed his big girth.

I know it sounds backward, but trust and try it. Be clean inside and internally lubed. Always enter slow. You'll be astounded and addicted just like me.

 

[Robert Dole]

This is my experience- the bigger the cock the less it hurts. Many have testified to this and the reason I believe, is when the stretch to the anal sphincter exceeds a certain amount, the sphincter more or less gives up and entry hurts way less. There may be a little discomfort, but nothing compared to slim cocks. A little further explanation of this.. As we all know, the anus is an exit naturally and not a natural entrance. When a average, slim cock goes in it's like an invasion and that strong muscle rebels naturally, that is why it hurts. But as said, when the anal stretch exceeds the rebel of the muscle, the muscle surrenders. I was scared for a year to take my 6.5-inch girth buddy, but when he took me, I was astounded how easily my little butthole opened up and lovingly swallowed his big girth.

I know it sounds backward, but trust and try it. Be clean inside and internally lubed. Always enter slow. You'll be astounded and addicted just like me.

Yes I think that's about right- once the stretching gets to a certain point the muscles relax as something is on it's way. My mentor gave me a couple of dildoes to try and I only used the smaller one once as it was like poking with a finger, once I tried the larger one- about 1" diameter- it was a good feeling from the start. When the time came it was uncomfortable for a bit as he first pushed his cockhead in, but after a series of slight thrusts I had a 6" circ. cock deep inside me. Soon after he started thrusting I realised I was moaning in pleasure...

 

[ZMan22]

This is my experience- the bigger the cock the less it hurts. Many have testified to this and the reason I believe, is when the stretch to the anal sphincter exceeds a certain amount, the sphincter more or less gives up and entry hurts way less. There may be a little discomfort, but nothing compared to slim cocks. A little further explanation of this.. As we all know, the anus is an exit naturally and not a natural entrance. When a average, slim cock goes in it's like an invasion and that strong muscle rebels naturally, that is why it hurts. But as said, when the anal stretch exceeds the rebel of the muscle, the muscle surrenders. I was scared for a year to take my 6.5-inch girth buddy, but when he took me, I was astounded how easily my little butthole opened up and lovingly swallowed his big girth.

I know it sounds backward, but trust and try it. Be clean inside and internally lubed. Always enter slow. You'll be astounded and addicted just like me.

"when the anal stretch exceeds the rebel of the muscle, the muscle surrenders"
That's a brilliant way of putting it.

 

[hungbert]

When I want to fuck a guy I always try to be patient and careful not to hurt him with my 19x14cm cock. Good foreplay and lubing are important, and take your time! This is exactly what I expect when I'm fucked myself. Then even the biggest cock can hardly be a problem.