Boyfriend too tight

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SwissGermanBoi: Let me begin by saying, I've been on this site for a long time on another name but didn't post that much and now I forgot my old name and created a new one becuase I had a problem and remembered I could get help here...
My boyfriend is a year older than me and has more expirence in anal sex then I do, but one of his last boyfriends was realy rough with him and ripped his ass ( ) and after a while it healed, but he said it healed tighter than it was before. So, now when I try to f*ck him, it hurts him really badly becuase I'm really thick. I've only done it to him once becuase it hurts him so much. How Can I loosen him up without hurting him alot. Becuae in the mean time, I'm stuck being the bottom. And his c0ck is so long and thick, don't get me wrong, I can take it. It doesn't hurt that much becuase we've done it a lot (and I'm not saying I'm 'loose in the caboose' but it's just not a ripping pain like his is). So if you could help me out...Danke und Tschüß!

 

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leanffm: Did he get medical treatment for his problem? It seems that he got injured somehow.

 

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Thumper_10x7_CA: You'll just have to spend more time getting him loosened up. Rimming, fingering, getting him to relax. Those are all fun! Use a lot of lube too. When you do start to "put it in" you'll have to go very slow.

How long ago did did your b/f get hurt like that? If it hasn't healed all the way you shouldn't even be trying. If it's been a long time and it still hurts him that much he may have something more serious wrong and should check with a doctor.

 

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Do all the lubricating things but take many sessions of just working your fingers into him. It may take many sessions of gentle work to move up from one finger to two to three fingers inside him. Unless you are massively thick, by the time you can get three fingers nestled together inside (using a lot of lube), he will likely be ready. Even still, go very gently and remember the first time to maybe just go in and rest there and don't try to stroke it much. He needs to be able to trust you and feel confident you are no going to hurt him like he had been before. Also you can get a dildo that's not as thick as you and work him some with that to get him more comfotable. Just remember, it's going to take slow steady work over MANY sessions to get him ready for you fully. Patience is the key.

 

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myriadian: hi,

your boyfriend probably had a fissure torn in his colon, i have a friend in tx who was raped and that's what happened to him, it took well over a year before he was able to tolerate anything in his ass but he's still very sensitive and experiences pain from time to time. unfortunately it seems that's just how the colon works. if your bf hasn't been to a doctor i'd encourage him to go and speak frankly about his concerns, sexual satisfaction and sexual health _is_ the realm of physicians whether they want to think so or not.

my best to you and your bf,
M.