According to Erik Erikson's theory of psychosocial development, younger men have a vulnerable state of mind because they are still developing cognitively, emotionally and socially. The human brain doesn't fully develop until age 30 so the fact that they are sought after bc of their youth by older men who are well over 40 is so weird to me. Of course the younger person won't care but the older person should know better.they are of legal age, that's all that matters, other than that, you shouldn't care if they date men older than them xD also it's not like he is barely 20, he is 27 haha