The first scene that got to me as a gay guy myself, was early on in the movie. When they 1st come down from the Mountain and have to say goodbye
Jack Drives off and Enis goes into the barn, where he breaks down, feels sick and punches the beam.
I could identify from personal experience, the turmoil that Enis was in, The feelings of guilt along with the heartache of losing the man he has felt his 1st emotional attachment too. I think Heath did an amazing job portraying that scene and his whole performance in the movie was an amazing piece of acting.
The other really moving scene for me, was as someone else posted earlier, The scene where Jack has learnt of Enis Divorce and goes to him with the hope, that it means they can at last have the relationship he has always wished for. Jack is bursting with emotion and happiness driving his truck , only to find Enis with his Children and is then dismissed by Enis. It really is heartbreaking and is another scene that was brilliantly played by Jake Gyllenhaal.
One of my all time favourite movies.
fantastic acting and very courageous roles taken on by Jake Gyllenhaal and Heath, considering the subject.
I also remember a "straight" mate saying to me, after he had watched the movie. That it opened his eyes, as he did not realise gay people could have that kind of love and attachment towards one another.