Cant Take Dick?

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So to start, I’ve used a dildo before and taking it wasn’t too difficult and it actually felt good but I've recently hooked up with a guy (my first) and the pain is just a lot to handle. His dick is fairly long and i get that could be part of the problem but you'd think id get used to it over time but i couldn't. He’s told me its ok but i feel bad i cant take it for too long before needing to tap out i want to be able to please a guy for a longer period but as far as doing it with him it was difficult, am I doing something wrong?
 

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are you relaxed. if not try to relax and focus on breathing/ I do not condone this but some guys use poppers. But there is nothing wrong with tapping out/ taking a break . It will give you a chance to change positions.
 

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I don't have time at the moment to write an elaborate response, so for now I'll just share the point that I think should be made first.

What you experienced is very normal. The context of what you see in porn is nothing like a guy who is just trying it out for the first time. Most of us had first times similar to yours. For me, the pain wasn't unbearable, but it was definitely a factor. In retrospect, it's clear to see that it doesn't have to be this way, but it requires a good deal of knowledge of one's body and what facilitates the act that one typically does not have the first time.

So, don't worry about it too much. Making sure you're managing your risk exposure is something worth worrying about (albeit not to the point of terrorizing yourself). Learning how to set up the scene, how to prepare your body, and how to conduct the act in a way that is pleasurable is something you will learn over time, and by reading up a bit from reliable sources.
 

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You haven't explained what part is painful so it's impossible to give you advice.

You seem to be blaming length so I will assume he's bottoming out in your ass and hitting the back wall of your rectum. My advice is to either choose positions that prevent him from going as deep or tell him not to thrust balls deep or choose a position that will allow you to angle his cock into your sigmoid colon.
 
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It still hurts to begin with when I do it and I often tap out very early and take a quick break before getting the guy to try again. The second time is always much more enjoyable until the lube etc starts to wear off. I would suggest Amyl as well it really relax's the body.