Caught Cruising

sorry for being such a £"%*&& but what does cruising mean?

Correct, it is often an area in a park or video store, where you know others are looking for sex.

and if you do come across someone as hot as Monster, more than likely, he's undercover vice

(or some I'm told ... not that I would personally know anything about it:wink:)
 
jason_x_shaw: It's just a term used for gay men when they are on the prowl. Most will use their eyes to try and communicate how they like what they see. Straight men do it to with women, but I think they refer to it as "the hunt". Kidding, of course...

Cruising gets on my nerves sometimes. Some guys are so hung up on the game that they miss out on perfectly good opportunities to meet people regardless if it's for the booty or not. I for one am horrible at it. I never know when to follow, walk away or respond to it most of the time. I usually don't approach anyone head on, so I can't tell if most stares are meant for me to get a little closer or not.
 
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It's funny. When I have been cruised, many of the guys wanted to get caught and kept cruising me until I caught them--it is a way of saying you are interested: You stare until you get caught and, if the guy makes eye contact for any length of time, you take that as a sign that he might be interested and keep cruising. Continued eye contact usually means that someone should say hi or start a conversation or buy a drink.

I don't usually cruise with the purpose of trying to get caught--I like to admire hot men without them knowing (unless I want them to know).
 
i've run into two of my co-workers cruising at the local movie arcade. both of them are married, and i sucked off both of them. one guy was so shocked after he shot his big load down my throat that he almost left the booth with his pants around his knees. he pulled me aside at work and made me promise never to speak of it. i wouldn't do that anyway. i'd heard rumors that the other dude was hung thick, and i wasn't disappointed. he has a big, fat veiny, uncut cock. after the first time, i ran into him by chance a few more times at the arcade, and sucked him. now, he just says "meet me at the bookstore after work" , and we get together, and i chow down on his big, beautiful dick. he says he has a couple of well hung buddies that he wants to introduce me to. so, if you meet somebody you know out there cruising, go for it! it could open things up for both of you to have some big fun.
 
Only twice have I run into guys I knew when I was crusing -- once when I saw an ex-bf in an ABS and once in the university gym sauna where I saw a professor I knew.

in the ABS, I was embarrassed as hell and I didn't say anything, just left. Later I saw him at a bar and he said hi and jngled the tokens in his pocket (an unmistakable sound if you spend any time in an ABS) and asked if I needed any for later! That broke the tension and I laughed, but I was still embarrassed and said something like, well if you'd stuck around I wouldn't have to do that (it was not a dig and we both laughed).

With the prof in the sauna, I didn't know him really, but I'd seen him around the department and we'd chatted. He was in his 30s and was super groomed -- kind of not my thing. So I saw him in the shower first and I noticed he had a toe ring so I kind of figured he was gay (it was the 90s, give him a break lol). After I rinsed off, I walked into the sauna and there he was, sitting naked on his towel. He had clearly been fluffing and he saw me look. We couldn't pretend it didn't happen, so I said something like, wow, I guess we have something in common haha.

He was chill, and said he'd wondered if I was "family" and we chatted for a while. I said I thought he was cute but I didn't feel comfortable doing anything and he agreed, but we talked about guys, which was a big turn on. We especially talked about a guy ("Terry") who was always in the sauna, showing off his truly MASSIVE dick -- letting it hang and squeegeeing sweat down his abs and off his cock. We talked how he was straight but a huge show-off who got off on teasing gay guys. Turned out both of us had offered to touch it, but he just said no thanks.

We didn't do anything, but that conversation itself was a kind of sexual encounter. We were both semi or hard but we didn't try to do anything.

I saw him around later and I wish I had been friendlier, but I was still kind of embarrassed. It would have been good to have a buddy who I wasn't fucking, but who I had a sexual understanding with.
 
The booths I go to, you pay to go in a huge room with porn playing on the walls outside the booths as well as inside. Usually there are plastic chairs scattered around for use in and out of the booths so when I cruise, I find the hottest wall video and set up a chair in front of it. If someone I knew were to run into me, I'd be legs spread stroking my cock for everyone to see. I'd likely acknowledge them but wouldn't stop either so they could either watch and join, or move on.
 
Depends on the cruising area. In a public place such a park, you can say "hi" and make some excuse like "nice night for a walk". In a place like an adult video store or book store, you both know why each other is there and can just "hi" or acknowledge each others' presence and move on.

EXACTLY!!