Changing sex “position” preferences

[dfw051980]

Been doing a lot of thinking lately and I don’t want to label myself a top anymore. Even though I still have very little experience bottoming the urge to explore has increased more and more lately.
Don’t get me wrong though I still love to top, I don’t think I want to ever stop that (plus honestly I think I’m a good top too haha). Verse life seems the best, I’m just ready to change things up. Been playing with a prostate stimulator and I’m already thinking of upgrading to more toys…

Another thing leading to my frustration is that I like to suck dick but I feel since I claim being the top I’m only allowed to receive head when hooking up and not give it. Which is disappointing cause giving oral turns me on so much.

The only thing is since I’m single I find it hard to feel comfortable and trusting enough to bottom for a random hookup. And everytime I get a good fuck buddy who I mention wanting them to top me they always reply a firm no lol .

I think in general I’ve been wanting to let go and really open up and try a lot of different things sexually and not be limited by claiming a role or specific thing (another thing I really want to do is have sex with a Trans man (FTM).

This is more or less just a vent post nothing really to say lol. Im Taking a break from hookups (well specifically hookup apps as those just lead to frustration nowadays).

What are you alls thoughts and switching positions and any advice in explorng new things sexually.

 

[MikeDelish]

Dude. I swear it sounds like I wrote this. The words, the feelings, your emotions. Maybe everyone goes through this?? Idk. But I can fast forward to the end of my experience, if your interested.

 

[dfw051980]

Dude. I swear it sounds like I wrote this. The words, the feelings, your emotions. Maybe everyone goes through this?? Idk. But I can fast forward to the end of my experience, if your interested.

Sure im open to hearing others thoughts and opinions.

 

[theplayerking]

Sure im open to hearing others thoughts and opinions.

Vers is best. You get to enjoy a little bit of everything, no holds barred. You need to find a vers bottom bud that likes to flip and is happy to give as well as he takes.

 

[Brodie888]

I have always bottomed and don't see that ever changing. But at the same time I think that I could play the top role very well because of my experience bottoming and knowing what really works.

It's like how gay men are better at sucking cock than women on average I guess.

 

[PeterJoe]

I used to be a top. I just wanna get fucked now.

 

[chrisrobin]

One of the great mysteries to me is why any guy only wants to be one thing.
Yep when I discovered proper sex as opposed to wanks I was a bottom.
But then I got some lessons, how to take and give in equal parts, knowing the joy of cock pleasure, and yes, it really is a good to receive as it is to give.
Getting a random pickup, well its always fun to try and guess but in the end its the sex that counts, the orgasm! The foreplay will work out who is going to take and who is the giver, the unknown is as sexy as the known.
I've been shaged by some amazing guys I was sure would turn over, and also had some amazing ass given willingly from sports studs
As for cock sucking, well that's certainly in foreplay unless its a real quickie in a public space.

 

[MikeDelish]

Extremely well Said!!

 

[chrisrobin]

Extremely well Said!!

thanks mate