Would you cheat on your girlfriend or wife with a one night stand to fulfill your sexual desires?
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No I'm not a terrible person. Why get Into a relationship if you want to be with other people? And if you want that get in to a poly or open relationship where that is a viable option.
There is no reason to cheat on someone if you know how to communicate. I have a fwb that we are mainly get hook up with each other but we aren't exclusive and we both know that.
There is no reason to cheat on someone if you know how to communicate. I have a fwb that we are mainly get hook up with each other but we aren't exclusive and we both know that.
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They say what is good for the goose is good for the gander. . So if you can entertain a one night stand, then she can equally, as the OP stated " fulfill her sexual desires " with a one night stand
But to answer, No, I would hope not
But to answer, No, I would hope not
No. First off I have been fortunate to have a wife who has allowed me to be with other women (as I have with her and other men), so cheating has been unnecessary in order to fulfill any desires with other women.
But even if that was never the case, there is no desire so strong or any woman who could do anything for me to make me betray my wife's trust in me and to jeopardize the last 30 years of our life together. That is worth far more than a one-time event of getting my dick wet with some strange.
But even if that was never the case, there is no desire so strong or any woman who could do anything for me to make me betray my wife's trust in me and to jeopardize the last 30 years of our life together. That is worth far more than a one-time event of getting my dick wet with some strange.
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No, probably not. I had had the opportunities a long time ago but behaved myself.
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isn't your girlfriend or wife supposed to fulfill those desires? if you can't go to your girlfriend or wife for sexual needs then you're with the wrong person. you should end the relationship with your girlfriend and divorce the wife. i'm dead serious.
i'm sure there are legitimate circumstances wherein some would justify the cheating but those are the few and not the mass general.
in short, no, don't do it. leave your current relationship, become single, then you'll be free to go and fulfill any desires your heart wants without any recourse from a partner.
i'm sure there are legitimate circumstances wherein some would justify the cheating but those are the few and not the mass general.
in short, no, don't do it. leave your current relationship, become single, then you'll be free to go and fulfill any desires your heart wants without any recourse from a partner.
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I'm with my second wife her ex used to cheat on her my ex used to cheat on me all the time that was one of the agreements when we got together you cheat it's over we've been together now for almost 12 years
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You get more to the point though even though we're married we're not blind there's a difference between touching and looking
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No. My days of sexual promiscuity are over. In my 20s I would have had a totally different answer because I was caught up in the grip of sex addiction and hypersexuality. I prefer one woman to make love to
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I'm upfront with any woman I meet, that i like to swing, and my personality conveys that. Doesnt mean I try to bang every chick in town like when I was 25, but humans are not meant to be monogamous. If we were built that way to desire only one partner then porn wouldnt exist.
Now, if you're a dude married for yrs and the wife just stops wanting sex, and you've tried everything to get her back into it, I dont see anything wrong with getting some side ass. And that goes the same way for women.
Now, if you're a dude married for yrs and the wife just stops wanting sex, and you've tried everything to get her back into it, I dont see anything wrong with getting some side ass. And that goes the same way for women.
My ex gf helped me to understand that I would be a counter-cheater. Ive always on some level felt some temptation to cheat, even now within my marriage; but I accept that as a natural consequence of visual attraction, of which I choose not to succumb to. The only time Ive ever felt ok crossing the actual line was after I had been cheated upon. Something about that mix of underlying resentment from her betrayal, and self loathing from taking her back made the act seem less abhorrent from my end.
Having matured a bit since then, I still dont think I have the heart to do it, and even if I were cheated upon, I think Id much prefer to wallow in petty righteousness and leave without bothering to cheat, preserving some sense of moral superiority.
Having matured a bit since then, I still dont think I have the heart to do it, and even if I were cheated upon, I think Id much prefer to wallow in petty righteousness and leave without bothering to cheat, preserving some sense of moral superiority.
For the record, I have never cheated on my wife.
For those who have said that you should choose a wife that fulfills your sexual desires, it’s not so easy as one may think.
Im sure some of you have had this happen, you dated a girl that was just awesome, fulfilled your sexual needs, sex, blowjobs, etc. Often times the same treatment that you once had, may change after marriage. I have heard many married men that get way less sex, little to no blowjobs, ext after they marry the very same person that once did.
Now this is not the case for every married man. My wife did suck my cock more when we dated for instance, but should we drop them and get a divorce for chances such as this? Well that is really up to you to decide.
For me, for anyone that follows my posts, I love getting my cock sucked. But I don’t feel like divorcing my wife because she doesn’t give me blowjobs as often as I once had. For me, that is not the reason why I married her.
But on the other hand, it does suck that these changes occur.
From what I can see this may be the reason why some guys cheat, or find a willing dude to suck them, to get that blowjob they want and still remain with their wife. But I am not one who could do it, even though a side blowjob sound great in theory.
For those who have said that you should choose a wife that fulfills your sexual desires, it’s not so easy as one may think.
Im sure some of you have had this happen, you dated a girl that was just awesome, fulfilled your sexual needs, sex, blowjobs, etc. Often times the same treatment that you once had, may change after marriage. I have heard many married men that get way less sex, little to no blowjobs, ext after they marry the very same person that once did.
Now this is not the case for every married man. My wife did suck my cock more when we dated for instance, but should we drop them and get a divorce for chances such as this? Well that is really up to you to decide.
For me, for anyone that follows my posts, I love getting my cock sucked. But I don’t feel like divorcing my wife because she doesn’t give me blowjobs as often as I once had. For me, that is not the reason why I married her.
But on the other hand, it does suck that these changes occur.
From what I can see this may be the reason why some guys cheat, or find a willing dude to suck them, to get that blowjob they want and still remain with their wife. But I am not one who could do it, even though a side blowjob sound great in theory.
No.
Disrespectful, low, dishonest, pathetic, disloyal, and flat out stupid.
"Cheat for one night to satisfy sexual desires"..... And then what? Would that solve the issue long-term? No.
Or is the person in your scenario just so immature that they can't control themselves?
Keep it in your pants. Talk to your partner about the issue.
If they don't want to fix things, bail & seek out someone that's more inline with what you want.
Putting a bandaid on cancer doesn't work.
Disrespectful, low, dishonest, pathetic, disloyal, and flat out stupid.
"Cheat for one night to satisfy sexual desires"..... And then what? Would that solve the issue long-term? No.
Or is the person in your scenario just so immature that they can't control themselves?
Keep it in your pants. Talk to your partner about the issue.
If they don't want to fix things, bail & seek out someone that's more inline with what you want.
Putting a bandaid on cancer doesn't work.
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Eh, its not always that simple. Sometimes everything else in the relationship is fine and the two ppl still love each other. Consider a couple in their 50's thats been together 30+ yrs. Has kids, grandkids, a home, assets etc. The wife goes through menopause, loses all sexual desire. Makes no effort to visit counselors or docs etc to correct it. But everything else is fine, should the hubby just divorce her and break up the family, go thru the financial hassle of a divorce? Or resign himself to a life without sex? Give her an ultimatum "Hey you better start being horny or else Im leaving" Boy thats romantic lol, now shes fucking hubby just to avoid being dumped, yeah thats a real turn on lol. (Reminds me of all the trophy wives in their 40s that fuck their 60 yr old rich hubbies just to keep the money coming)
Its not always a black n white situation.
Like in one of the other threads "Why do married men have suck buddies?" B/c its easier.
Its not always a black n white situation.
Like in one of the other threads "Why do married men have suck buddies?" B/c its easier.
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Cheating is bad theres no ways around it.
If I a young person can understand how people can have non monogamous relationships by having conversations with their gf or wife then a grown ass man that's 50+ should be able to have a conversation with his wife about things that can help their relationship. It's not that hard to talk to someone that you should know better than anyone else . Communication is key and if you can't do that at that age or any age over 18 you don't deserve to have a partner
If I a young person can understand how people can have non monogamous relationships by having conversations with their gf or wife then a grown ass man that's 50+ should be able to have a conversation with his wife about things that can help their relationship. It's not that hard to talk to someone that you should know better than anyone else . Communication is key and if you can't do that at that age or any age over 18 you don't deserve to have a partner
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Nah diff situations. Like I said, once you do all that, talk to her, offer to go to drs, counseling etc and she still has no interest in sex, whats the guy supposed to do? Just end the marriage after 30 yrs, split up the family go thru the hassle of a divorce, even though he and the wife get along in all other aspects? Thats dumb. Not the same thing as being some 19yr old dating a chick for a yr and deciding to fuck some other chick for fun. Its night and day.
Also, Humans are not inherently built to be monogamous by nature anyways. If they were, porn wouldnt be so huge.
Also, Humans are not inherently built to be monogamous by nature anyways. If they were, porn wouldnt be so huge.
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If counseling and therapy and having discussions doesn't work and it leads to unhappy marriage then yes you should end it. There is no reason for two people to be miserable when you can be happy outside of that. And you really think cheating would be the answer because once they find out and people always find out it will make the horrible situation a million times worse.
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