Since I love you all and you seem to be so support when I find myself in these kinds of situations, I thought i'd share this with you
broke up with the gf tonight on account that she was cheating on me with an ex and some guy she met while we were dating. I knew she hung out with both of these kids, but being the guy that I am I decided not to be the nosey intruding bf and to just trust her until I was provided any reason not to. Although I let her know later on how I felt about hanging out with exes (it's unexceptable IMO) and we both agreed on that. Well, a highly-trusted neutral party informed me tonight about what decietful acts were going on behind my back. Betrayal is a horrible feeling and it's funny how the male mind convinces himself to think in such irrational ways. I immediately began pondering "what did I not have to offer her, causing her to go in search of somebody else?" And then I realized how ridiculous this mindframe is. I'm a very intelligent person with amibitions in life, not to mention I'm thoughtful, generous and caring, handsome (model), well endowed (hence why I come to lpsg lol) and so on and so forth.
I've always noticed how insecure my ex was, not to mention young and immature (17 as of a couple days ago and i'm 19). She'd always criticize obviously attractive girls by mumbling "ew she's nasty" as they'd pass by. She'd get jealous over every encounter I had with a female- even friends of mine, who I'd known LONG before her, and whom just happened to be female. I always figured this played a negative roll in our relationship but I never realized it would end up hurting ME as well
Then all at once, it all sorta clicked. I rememebered one of my best friend's sister. This girl is absolutely stunningly gorgeous- I mean, very possibly one of the most attractive females I've ever laid my eyes on, in person OR on TV, internet, etc. Just amazing, and she seems to be such a brilliant character with so much more to offer too. And yea, she was cheated on as well. The lesson to be learned from this? It doesn't matter who you are- you could be rich and able to offer your significant other material items, or you could be a fantastic lover with a huge penis and able to get her off, you could be the ALPHA male of the century and STILL it doesn't even matter- when you're dealing with people who are as insecure as my ex, they will cheat on you regardless. Especially to the guys out there: don't find reason to blame yourself, it's sooo stupid. Cuz there are billions more girls out there who would be lucky as hell to have you.
I guess I started this thread in need of sympathy and open arms from the good people here at LPSG, and I somehow flipped it around. Your condolences are still much obliged....cuz I know exactly what I need and want to hear, but hell i'm only human and I need reassurance and love too :redface:
thank you all, even if you simply took the time to read this
broke up with the gf tonight on account that she was cheating on me with an ex and some guy she met while we were dating. I knew she hung out with both of these kids, but being the guy that I am I decided not to be the nosey intruding bf and to just trust her until I was provided any reason not to. Although I let her know later on how I felt about hanging out with exes (it's unexceptable IMO) and we both agreed on that. Well, a highly-trusted neutral party informed me tonight about what decietful acts were going on behind my back. Betrayal is a horrible feeling and it's funny how the male mind convinces himself to think in such irrational ways. I immediately began pondering "what did I not have to offer her, causing her to go in search of somebody else?" And then I realized how ridiculous this mindframe is. I'm a very intelligent person with amibitions in life, not to mention I'm thoughtful, generous and caring, handsome (model), well endowed (hence why I come to lpsg lol) and so on and so forth.
I've always noticed how insecure my ex was, not to mention young and immature (17 as of a couple days ago and i'm 19). She'd always criticize obviously attractive girls by mumbling "ew she's nasty" as they'd pass by. She'd get jealous over every encounter I had with a female- even friends of mine, who I'd known LONG before her, and whom just happened to be female. I always figured this played a negative roll in our relationship but I never realized it would end up hurting ME as well
Then all at once, it all sorta clicked. I rememebered one of my best friend's sister. This girl is absolutely stunningly gorgeous- I mean, very possibly one of the most attractive females I've ever laid my eyes on, in person OR on TV, internet, etc. Just amazing, and she seems to be such a brilliant character with so much more to offer too. And yea, she was cheated on as well. The lesson to be learned from this? It doesn't matter who you are- you could be rich and able to offer your significant other material items, or you could be a fantastic lover with a huge penis and able to get her off, you could be the ALPHA male of the century and STILL it doesn't even matter- when you're dealing with people who are as insecure as my ex, they will cheat on you regardless. Especially to the guys out there: don't find reason to blame yourself, it's sooo stupid. Cuz there are billions more girls out there who would be lucky as hell to have you.
I guess I started this thread in need of sympathy and open arms from the good people here at LPSG, and I somehow flipped it around. Your condolences are still much obliged....cuz I know exactly what I need and want to hear, but hell i'm only human and I need reassurance and love too :redface:
thank you all, even if you simply took the time to read this
