I was married to a woman for six years .. got 4 sons and then she left us ( my fault as got caught by her me and her brother in bed .. I was screwing him.. I don’t know why she got upset .. that’s a story all in itself )
I will say it’s easier to have a baby by finding best friend female… to let be artificially inseminated .. and let her carry to term..
Adopting is so hard to do.. they expect you to be perfect .. when millions of parents out here aren’t .. so too many rules for adoption