Why doesn’t he put 2 + 2 together that his obsession with looks is deeply rooted in his self hatred for his own sexuality

he’ll always chase the “perfect” woman, who will never exist because she is in fact a he. He can’t even get hard to pretend that he likes them. I truly think that’s what started this self loathing binge… he knew he was gay, hated it, tried to get with a girl, couldn’t get hard for it, and now does roids and meth as a cover “I have ED”. His type is what he’s trying to become, because in some sick twisted way he’s rationalized literal torture to his body to suppress the gay thoughts… “ I can’t be with them, so I’ll just become them “.
Such a sad case, and I hope someone close to him can get him the help he clearly needs.