Co-worker divorce

[OPPinSLC]

So, I've been sitting next to this really hot girl for the past two years. Everything has been totally professional and we have been good at work friends. Today I casually ask her if she and her husband have any plans for Valentine's Day and she gets kind of quiet. Later she tells me that she and her husband have filed for divorce. The thing is that I was shocked, but also as she was telling me about it I got kind of aroused (around 80 percent erect). I hope she didn't notice, I had a file folder that I casually placed over my lap. Has this happened to anyone else, kind of seeing a co-worker in a new light?

 

[jjslpsg]

Yes, this has happened to me. But in your case, you may want to wait a while before you approach her. A pending divorce/divorce is a very difficult event for anyone to handle. Be patient, kind and understanding, as this will help her to feel better.

 

[OPPinSLC]

Yes, this has happened to me. But in your case, you may want to wait a while before you approach her. A pending divorce/divorce is a very difficult event for anyone to handle. Be patient, kind and understanding, as this will help her to feel better.

Totally, actually I wasn't thinking of approaching her (well I may have fantasized about it). My own reaction just kind of caught me by surprise.

 

[DavidXL]

(well I may have fantasized about it). My own reaction just kind of caught me by surprise.

I think your cock was jumping to conclusions at the possibilities that might lie ahead.

I had a sort of similar cock reaction happen to me. When I was proposing marriage to my wife and was down on 1 knee, my cock got totally hard. It surprised me, because it wasn't in a sexual situation and I wasn't thinking about sex (maybe my subconscious was thinking about all the sex I would be getting as a married person - little did I know!). I told my wife about it later, and she thought it was crazy and funny.

 

[socalfreak]

Given the timing & the fact that it was sad news ...your reaction seems a bit predatory.
Beat off, take a cold shower, relax..
Let her get through her rough spot without you drooling all over her cubicle.

 

[OPPinSLC]

Given the timing & the fact that it was sad news ...your reaction seems a bit predatory.
Beat off, take a cold shower, relax..
Let her get through her rough spot without you drooling all over her cubicle.

Sounds like good advice. The trouble is there is no cubicle we are almost elbow to elbow. There are showers where I work so I can beat off and then take a cold shower. I'll chew gum to cover up the drooling. Lol

 

[keenobserver]

I had a co-worker who considered himself the cock of the walk. while is was a good worker he was always talking about his intimate life and how he dominated his wife - sometimes harshly in bed. I hated hearing it and always tried to steer the conversation in other directions. one Monday he came to work and looked rough. I asked him what was wrong and he told me his wife left him for another woman. he was crushed. I was briefly overwhelmed - with joy and a hard on. I could not believe I felt that way. I never considered him a potential sex partner - he was str8 and I was gay, plus he was a co-worker - I never go there. for a long time I continued to feel superior to him like I had won some sort of contest. I don't know why and I am not proud of it, but there it is.

 

[bigbucky]

best not to date co-workers.

 

[little10ca]

best not to date co-workers.

This.

Don't shit where you eat, especially if you eat 5 feet away from you.

 

[OPPinSLC]

best not to date co-workers.

Yea but she is really, really hot.

 

[AlteredEgo]

Yea but she is really, really hot.

So? That changes nothing.

 

[Hoss]

Yea but she is really, really hot.

So? That changes nothing.

Listen to these wise words from AE.

 

[twoton]

Yeah, I'd stay away.

1. You don't know the full story of the divorce.
2. You don't want to get involved with domestic disputes.
3. You can't solve her problems.
4. She might already have a full support group of family, friends...and other guys. Step in at the wrong time and the wrong way and you'll be toast.
5. You cannot date someone you work with when you work that closely together--especially since there's a 99.9% chance that you're not going to life happily ever after together.

Oh, to answer your question: yes, I have seen coworkers in new lights at times. There's a (hottie) woman at work who is in a really bad marriage and I hope she gets divorced. For her own sake. For the moment, she's banging a delivery man. If her husband finds out...there will probably be a murder-suicide story in the news.


Have I gotten a boner when seeing a coworker in a new light? Sometimes, but that was after I started sleeping with that particular coworker.

 

[OPPinSLC]

Ok, now I have taken a new job and I am no longer a co worker? What now.

 

[sudcalifornio]

Ok, now I have taken a new job and I am no longer a co worker? What now.

This is a question, you have to answer yourself.