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Same here my ex girlfriend would casually say yeah love watching lesbian porn without a second thought of how it would come across then as I got older I noticed women around me would engage with each other without fear of the consequences because there was none. While straight guys were too scared to even hang around a gay guy of fear of being made guilty by association.
That I can relate to, ever since middle school I was mocked being called gay and faggot and I did not know why, I never acted like it hell I didn't even know back then. It wasnt until high school I explored my feelings and found out Im pansexual. But there were girls in my school who did experiment and nothing was said about them they continued on as free agents, no bullying nore harassment while me my boyfriends, one in 10th grad the other in 11th had to sneak around during free periods and lunch just to be together. It pissed me off. I had to sneak into the auditoriums, stairwells or empty classroom just to hold hands or even get a kiss while the girls did everything in the open and everyone acted like nothing happened.
 
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That I can relate to, ever since middle school I was mocked being called gay and faggot and I did not know why, I never acted like it hell I didn't even know back then. It wasnt until high school I explored my feelings and found out Im pansexual. But there were girls in my school who did experiment and nothing was said about them they continued on as free agents, no bullying nore harassment while me my boyfriends, one in 10th grad the other in 11th had to sneak around during free periods and lunch just to be together. It pissed me off. I had to sneak into the auditoriums, stairwells or empty classroom just to hold hands or even get a kiss while the girls did everything in the open and everyone acted like nothing happened.
Yeah I think it’s a bit on the naive side (no offence to anyone) to say both male and female are treated or judged the same when it comes to sexuality just isn’t true. The amount of straight men/boys that are scared or even hug their male friends just because of fear of people calling them gay or teased or don’t express how much they care for the male friends that in itself speaks volumes
 
Yeah I think it’s a bit on the naive side (no offence to anyone) to say both male and female are treated or judged the same when it comes to sexuality just isn’t true. The amount of straight men/boys that are scared or even hug their male friends just because of fear of people calling them gay or teased or don’t express how much they care for the male friends that in itself speaks volumes
Heh, I still give my best friends hugs the males and the females, when I see then and I get looks at it, I hold hands with my current boyfriend I get looks even if I do it at work only diff from when I was a teenager is now I dont give a crap. My friends and my relationships arent based on strangers and their close-minded opinions and judgments. Hell if I see people being judgmental my male friends and I would play around doing some yaoi type situations in front of them, or if Im with my boyfriend we'll make out and give them something to hate on lmao.
 
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Yeah I think it’s a bit on the naive side (no offence to anyone) to say both male and female are treated or judged the same when it comes to sexuality just isn’t true. The amount of straight men/boys that are scared or even hug their male friends just because of fear of people calling them gay or teased or don’t express how much they care for the male friends that in itself speaks volumes
That's toxic masculinity for ya
 
That's toxic masculinity for ya
Meh it’s not just guys. If I’m honest a lot of the bad experiences and name calling came from girls. The toxic masculinity you speak of came when girls would set the gay guys up (these boys hadn’t come out yet) and purposely embarrass them In front of certain guys knowing full well that would start the bullying prior to that these boys were every unware because they wasn’t paying attention to them. But I know everyone experience is different and I’m not saying that some young boys and men aren’t homophobic just saying that some young girls and women are toxic to
 
Meh it’s not just guys. If I’m honest a lot of the bad experiences and name calling came from girls. The toxic masculinity you speak of came when girls would set the gay guys up (these boys hadn’t come out yet) and purposely embarrass them In front of certain guys knowing full well that would start the bullying prior to that these boys were every unware because they wasn’t paying attention to them. But I know everyone experience is different and I’m not saying that some young boys and men aren’t homophobic just saying that some young girls and women are toxic to
aww man i really hope that didnt happen to you or anyone you know. Thats sounds terrible
 
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