Comparing cocks

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Is it normal for all guys to look at another mans cock? I mean I look because I want to know where I rank... especially among my friends (not that it has to be friends it can be anyone) ya know. Thats normal right?
 
I can't really say... I used to say the same thing... that I wanted to compare... but that was before I came to terms with the fact I'm gay... and I then realized I wasn't looking to compare... But that doesn't mean my answer is right. Straight guys might very well be looking to compare, but I can't answer that question of whether straight guy compare cocks because I'm not a straight guy.
 
I consider myself straight and I love the idea of comparing. It's just a good visual stimuli and a way of feeling good/confident about yourself!
 
hmmm.... but I do notice there's a post from a straight guy who doesn't think it's normal... but maybe not normal for straight guy, but that's him talking... not me... normal for a gay guy; maybe not for a straight guy... but like I said before only straight guys can answer that and I'm not one.
 
not a thing wrong with it. Its normal, you're normal, and ignore the asshole that said it/you were weird. He's just here to start shit with others. His days are numbered on the site
 
Every guy is comparing himself to the other guy. To some, it might be subconscious. Others, there is an effort to check every guy out. And you straight guys, don't deny it. Don't tell me that you haven't looked at a guy in the locker room or on a porn and mentally think to yourself... "Hummm, I'm bigger than him" or "Shit, that guy is longer than me."
 
Is it normal for all guys to look at another mans cock? I mean I look because I want to know where I rank... especially among my friends (not that it has to be friends it can be anyone) ya know. Thats normal right?

I think it's very normal. It's part of the process of forming your own self-image about your dick. It's like looking at a guy that workouts all of the time. You see him and say to yourself, "I'd like to have arms like his" or "His biceps are wayyy bigger than mine" or "How can I get my chest to stick out like that?" Those thoughts are what gives you your rank of yourself in your head.

You can do it with anything. A haircut, their style of dress, their body language and definitely a dick. It's the one thing that a lot of men are self conscious about and how no idea about it until someone tells you, "You've got a nice dick." You can think all day long that you've got a nice dick or not know what to think about your dick and that's where the looking at other men comes from. You're working through your process to learn about yourself more.

Somewhere on Earth is a boardroom full of professional men and I would assumed that they're all wondering who's got the biggest dick in the room. If they had the chance they would all check each other out. So find comfort in knowing that you're not the only one that does it. I do all of the time:cool:
 
Everybody LOOKS. Staring is a little different though. I mean it's normal, everyone wants to see if they are big, small, etc. Since male genital regions are covered 99% of the time in public most people really know what a normal, non porno, average penis looks like. (feel free to disgree :smile:)

You look at women's boobs and notice if they are small or gigantic. Same thing with men but men's primary equipment is hidden from common view.

Basically it's a pissing contest, you wanna be top dog. :smile:
 
I think it's very normal. It's part of the process of forming your own self-image about your dick. It's like looking at a guy that workouts all of the time. You see him and say to yourself, "I'd like to have arms like his" or "His biceps are wayyy bigger than mine" or "How can I get my chest to stick out like that?" Those thoughts are what gives you your rank of yourself in your head.

You can do it with anything. A haircut, their style of dress, their body language and definitely a dick. It's the one thing that a lot of men are self conscious about and how no idea about it until someone tells you, "You've got a nice dick." You can think all day long that you've got a nice dick or not know what to think about your dick and that's where the looking at other men comes from. You're working through your process to learn about yourself more.

Somewhere on Earth is a boardroom full of professional men and I would assumed that they're all wondering who's got the biggest dick in the room. If they had the chance they would all check each other out. So find comfort in knowing that you're not the only one that does it. I do all of the time:cool:

Like he said, you compare dicks, but also looks and also other stiff. It is normal.