Concern Over Penis Size

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I had a guy on another site come to me asking my opinion of his dick. He had a username implying his small size and was concerned he was too small. He was straight (although admittedly slightly curious) with a girlfriend who he was sexually active with. He claimed to be slightly under 6 inches in length and didn't know his girth. I asked to see it and he sent a very unflattering pick of his soft dick from a horrendous angle. His second pic was of his hard dick which looked to be probably close to average. It was clear that the guy was legitimately distressed over the size of his dick despite being perfectly fine and not getting any complaints from his girlfriend.

I talked to him for awhile explaining that his size was entirely fine and he said he was trying to work through his distress. He also said I must be big because I'm so chill. I told him that it's not an issue I'm concerned with and when he asked to see I sent him a pic and he told me how lucky I am.

Here's the funny thing. Is my dick bigger than his? Definitely. Do I get more sex than him? Definitely not. So who is the lucky one? In my opinion, the perfect size is the size that makes your partner happy. Apparently his does. Mine doesn't. even if you're under the average of around 5.1 or 5.2 inches that means you are among half of the worlds male population. I wont deny there are sizes that are problematic but I've talked to many guys who are average or even above average and highly distressed about their size. It's not something anyone can even change (despite assertions to the contrary) so just be happy with who you are. And here's a pro tip. Most women never get orgasms from penetrative sex. It's generally from manipulation of the clitorous and even a lesbian with no dick can do that so if you truly have a microdick it's something you can work around and still be happy.
 
I myself am on the smaller end of the spectrum and, of course I have no place telling others they can't have insecurities, but when it comes from bigger guys or even guys perfectly in the "average" rage, I cant help but roll my eyes. It is indeed true that if his partner is happy with his size and performance, then he should reign that in and accept it.
 
I myself am on the smaller end of the spectrum and, of course I have no place telling others they can't have insecurities, but when it comes from bigger guys or even guys perfectly in the "average" rage, I cant help but roll my eyes. It is indeed true that if his partner is happy with his size and performance, then he should reign that in and accept it.
Well, he reached out to me. I didn't reach out to him. I suppose I could have told him his insecurities are entirely valid although I'd be lying.
 
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Well, he reached out to me. I didn't reach out to him. I suppose I could have told him his insecurities are entirely valid although I'd be lying.
Yea like I don't need to feel sorry for anyone in that position. Literally stop complaining it could be worse!
 
There are 100s of articles from medical sites and journals like the Journal of Urology that could guve him factual information.

Or he could send a dick pic to some random dude.

Also "disingenuous" -
not candid or sincere, typically by pretending that one knows less about something than one really does.
But for some the issues are in how they perceive their own size. They may have very well read the “100s of articles” you referenced. But that knowledge just doesn’t change things for them.

Are they some who feign how they perceive their size so as to get attention? Absolutely. But that isn’t the case for everyone. So to present as blasé in your response was, to me, disingenuous.
 
I'm not going to argue with someone who thinks that their cock rating is more reassuring than the journal of Urology's study & measure of over 15,000 dicks - and who fails to understand the meaning of the word "disingenuous"

You're a saint. You saved his life. Bravo for you.
 
I'm not going to argue with someone who thinks that their cock rating is more reassuring than the journal of Urology's study & measure of over 15,000 dicks - and who fails to understand the meaning of the word "disingenuous"

You're a saint. You saved his life. Bravo for you.
It would seem that five words into the first sentence of your last posts tells all. Your use of the the word "argue" indicates your intent. 'Nough said. I'm not here to argue but to discuss.

But, I will say that I am quite happy to end the interaction with you, so therein lay a point of agreement.

Cheers.
 
I had a guy on another site come to me asking my opinion of his dick. He had a username implying his small size and was concerned he was too small. He was straight (although admittedly slightly curious) with a girlfriend who he was sexually active with. He claimed to be slightly under 6 inches in length and didn't know his girth. I asked to see it and he sent a very unflattering pick of his soft dick from a horrendous angle. His second pic was of his hard dick which looked to be probably close to average. It was clear that the guy was legitimately distressed over the size of his dick despite being perfectly fine and not getting any complaints from his girlfriend.

I talked to him for awhile explaining that his size was entirely fine and he said he was trying to work through his distress. He also said I must be big because I'm so chill. I told him that it's not an issue I'm concerned with and when he asked to see I sent him a pic and he told me how lucky I am.

Here's the funny thing. Is my dick bigger than his? Definitely. Do I get more sex than him? Definitely not. So who is the lucky one? In my opinion, the perfect size is the size that makes your partner happy. Apparently his does. Mine doesn't. even if you're under the average of around 5.1 or 5.2 inches that means you are among half of the worlds male population. I wont deny there are sizes that are problematic but I've talked to many guys who are average or even above average and highly distressed about their size. It's not something anyone can even change (despite assertions to the contrary) so just be happy with who you are. And here's a pro tip. Most women never get orgasms from penetrative sex. It's generally from manipulation of the clitorous and even a lesbian with no dick can do that so if you truly have a microdick it's something you can work around and still be happy.
This is it, woman organ are really strange, is like vagina just made for giving pleasure to men, becos in penetration woman don't feel the most sensitive part stimulated during penetration, only men feel the most sensitive part stimulated during penetration which is glans, and glans is basically exactly the same with clitoris, men orgasm from glans stimulation, and woman from clitoris stimulation, but why men looks like don't know that fact?
 
Its pretty easy to be confident when you have a big dick. Just like its easy for a billionaire to be financially confident all the while telling some piss poor peasant that their money problem isnt that bad.
 
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Its pretty easy to be confident when you have a big dick. Just like its easy for a billionaire to be financially confident all the while telling some piss poor peasant that their money problem isnt that bad.
The analogy doesn't work. Someone poor could conceivably become become financially secure or even wealthy themselves. In fact, someone wealthy could give financial advice or even help out.

However, if I stick with this analogy, if someone piss poor asks a billionaire to assess their situation, should the billionaire tell them, "yup, sucks to be you"?
 
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I am pretty big as size goes and I can honestly say it’s not always a good thing
 
I've just recently found my perfect fit lady as most women I've been with have felt way too tight and or I've bottomed out the pussy. My lady now is the perfect fit. So not all parings work well together size wise. Don't mean the sex won't be good or fulfilling but it is possible to find the perfect pussy for you.
 
I've just recently found my perfect fit lady as most women I've been with have felt way too tight and or I've bottomed out the pussy. My lady now is the perfect fit. So not all parings work well together size wise. Don't mean the sex won't be good or fulfilling but it is possible to find the perfect pussy for you.