Condom or no condom

[ILoveGames48]

Have you ever turned down a guy…OR … a guy turn you down because wouldn’t wear a condom

 

[elklindoxxx]

I've never had that issue, because I always discuss safe sex beforehand. So it is clear what the expectations are.

When my partner and I go with other couples it is made crystal clear that we only engage in safe sex. Oral, anal and vaginal penetration is always performed with a condom, no exceptions.

I only have bareback sex with my partner.

 

[ILoveGames48]

Didn’t you like it bareback to want him to do it more?

 

[deleted2780451]

Honestly no, but I do try to have guys wear a condom while fucking if I don't know them well or at all.

 

[ILoveGames48]

It’s been pretty much all bare since had a bad experience with a condom.. back then condoms were made of latex.. I found out in a bad way.. I am allergic to latex.. then condoms were made with other things as time went on but latex ones remained cheapest..so no latex so got used to bareback

 

[deleted2780451]

I prefer bareback. I really only prefer a guy wear a condom the first time just in case we never hook up again and he wasn't forthcoming about his sexual health. However, I've never sucked cock with a condom before, fuck that.

 

[ILoveGames48]

Condoms aren’t meant to be sucked on while on a cock even though they got flavored ones out there now.. but that kind of defeats the purpose of sucking a dick..

 

[deleted2780451]

I agree.

 

[Kanashi]

if i'm bottoming, then i'm fine if the guy wears a condom. but if i'm topping then i hate wearing a condom. and i definitely hate going down on a guy while he's wearing a condom! i've had guys suck me off while wearing a condomand that's... okay, i guess.

yes, i've been turned down for refusing to wear a condom. however i've since learned to discuss such things beforehand instead minutes before hooking up.

 

[ILoveGames48]

If a condom is that important to someone for me to wear or him.. then it will be done because I agree with him.. not because he threatens me..””we won’t fuck unless you put on a condom”” 1 I don’t take well to ultimatums —— and 2 … I can hear him going around bragging.. he wanted to fuck me or me to fuck him so bad he did what I ordered him to do..

So have I been in this situation… yes … did I allow condom to be used.. nope