Confidence

[B_ILIW]

Is it really true that women dig confidence in men, or is it just something the media say?

 

[ScorpioSlut]

I totally dig confidence in a man. I want someone who is sure of himself without coming off like a douche. There is a very fine line but I'd almost rather a douche than a man who was always unsure of himself.

 

[EllieP]

Noooo, it's not a current phase. It's very true. I can sense when a man is truly confident or just arrogant. Big difference that some men can't understand.

 

[Enid]

Arrogance/aggressiveness/cockiness = bad

Assertiveness/quiet confidence = good

Desperate insecure neckbeard = vagina closes up

 

[LaFemme]

Arrogance/aggressiveness/cockiness = bad

Assertiveness/quiet confidence = good

Desperate insecure neckbeard = vagina closes up

Ditto, Ms Enid!

 

[RubyRed11]

I absolutely dig confidence! There is an enormous difference between confidence and cockiness and/or douchery though. If you have to tell me how 'cool' you are...you're not. Really. At all. Had this happen only recently! Wow.

 

[B_ILIW]

I absolutely dig confidence! There is an enormous difference between confidence and cockiness and/or douchery though. If you have to tell me how 'cool' you are...you're not. Really. At all. Had this happen only recently! Wow.

Any examples of the difference?

 

[RubyRed11]

Hmmm... For my experience, confidence is just something you feel that exudes from inside - a belief in yourself (as interesting, funny, clever...whatever). If you have to 'point it out' to me, you don't really have it.

So what are the things you appreciate about yourself? Not the physical stuff, but what lies beneath? And I'm not talking about 'soul-bearing' or anything ao intense; just the things you like about yourself.

 

[IntoxicatingToxin]

This is sort of a ridiculous question.

Do you find confidence sexy in a woman?

I want to hear the thoughts on people that answer with a "no" to that question.

 

[SprinkleMe69]

I like confidence not cockiness.