Confused!!! Help!

[deleted140118]

So im really confused. For starters im bi, or at least I think I am. I was with a guy for the first time about a week ago. But I didn't like any part of it. This guy and I have JO together a few times and I like that, but I don't like anal with him or other things. I only like being close to him and just touching. I also like females still and enjoy fucking pussy. I think its way better than anal. Any ideas whats wrong with me? How can I still be attracted to males but not like anal or given a bj?

 

[brinzaulsschwul]

There's nothing wrong with you, attraction comes in many forms. Not all gay and bi men enjoy anal and lots never do it.
I love getting sucked by a man, but not if there is a bushy beard - actually if there is any face hair I'm not interested - a days growth is fine.
Lots of straight men and bi men enjoy the company of other men and just jerk off.
Stop stressing and enjoy what you enjoy, take away the pressure and have a happy life

 

[Supersoak]

You are lucky to be living in the time we are now!! Great change and acceptance!! I love it!! You were BORN this way!! Life is short!! Enjoy it!! You don't need help!! You just need to learn to accept and LOVE yourself!!

 

[rbkwp]

I only like being close to him and just touching. I also like females still and enjoy fucking pussy. I think its way better than anal. Any ideas whats wrong with me?

Nothing, wrong with you'

Jut tell him, its not your thing
not much he can do but accept it i geuss
you may well change a little later on

 

[B_Evie]

There are lots of threads here of men who just jerk off together and don't want anything more. I'm beginning to think it's like a sport. :smile:

Having new experiences is what life is all about. Some experiences are good and some are not. What's important is to try the things you think you might enjoy both sexual and non-sexual (like skydiving). You won't know until you try.

There is nothing wrong with you. Ignore peer pressure and anyone who tells you that you should like anything you don't like or that maybe you'll like it better later just because they do. Only you can know what makes you happy.

Life's too short to worry about all the experiences you don't (and won't) enjoy along the way. Go find the few things in life that make you happy and feel fulfilled.

 

[xmarksbreakdownx]

So im really confused. For starters im bi, or at least I think I am. I was with a guy for the first time about a week ago. But I didn't like any part of it. This guy and I have JO together a few times and I like that, but I don't like anal with him or other things. I only like being close to him and just touching. I also like females still and enjoy fucking pussy. I think its way better than anal. Any ideas whats wrong with me? How can I still be attracted to males but not like anal or given a bj?

I am the same way. I love women! I love getting full blowjobs from women, fucking women, and the company of a woman in a romantic sense. I plan on starting my life with a woman.

But... at the same time, I love being with my best friend. I love touching him, being around him, me and him just spending alone time together. We jack off with eachother/jack off eachother, we make out, we blow eachother (But never to "finish", just for foreplay.) but never any anal, or swallowing or anything like that. We don't want a "relationship" together either.

So, I guess this makes me bi, and it worried me for a bit until he told me "Why should we? It's no one's business but ours."

 

[rbkwp]

But... at the same time, I love being with my best friend. I love touching him, being around him, me and him just spending alone time together. We jack off with eachother/jack off eachother, we make out, we blow eachother (But never to "finish", just for foreplay.) but never any anal, or swallowing or anything like that. We don't want a "relationship" together either.

So, I guess this makes me bi, and it worried me for a bit until he told me "Why should we? It's no one's business but ours."


Beautiful ..

 

[TurkeyWithaSunburn]

Because you don't like men, but you like HIM.

 

[xmarksbreakdownx]

But... at the same time, I love being with my best friend. I love touching him, being around him, me and him just spending alone time together. We jack off with eachother/jack off eachother, we make out, we blow eachother (But never to "finish", just for foreplay.) but never any anal, or swallowing or anything like that. We don't want a "relationship" together either.

So, I guess this makes me bi, and it worried me for a bit until he told me "Why should we? It's no one's business but ours."


Beautiful ..

Thanks babe.