Married to a woman. Never been with a guy but need cock bad. Considering hiring an escort, thinking it’s a discreet way to indulge. Anyone else in my situation or been in my situation? Thoughts? Terrified.
Considering hiring an escort.
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There are lots of married guys in the same boat as you. In my opinion you should try and meet someone online at a site such as Adam4Adam so that you could message each other for awhile and get comfortable before you meet.
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I met with a guy I met online and talked to a lot before I met up. I had experience from younger years but had not been with a guy in almost 40 years. Used Squirt.org but have also used Sniffies.com
Thanks. Thinking another married guy may be best. Appreciate it.
SilentButDeadly
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I don't know. I'm a pretty black-and-white kind of guy. Unless you're in a poly or open relationship with your wife, then it sounds to me like you are looking for validation to cheat on her.
I will say this, if you are allowed some kind of hall pass, an escort actually might be better than meeting up with someone you meet via Grindr, A4A, or whatever dating app. To a male escort, this is a job. Once the service and money have been exchanged, you part ways and go back to your respective lives. There's little to no risk of him becoming a part of your circle.
You may say this is a discreet way to indulge, but eventually, someone will find out. You have to be ready to deal with that mess.
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I've been using Adam4adam for a few months now, I was amazed at how many guys are close by and are in the same boat. Married, can't host, but are craving dick. The perfect opportunity will happen.
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There times in life when having professional help is the best course of action. The male escort will deliver the service you ask and agree to for a fee, no questions, moralising etc
Didn't know how to find a bud to satisfy my curiosity about man sex. So I arranged an erotic massage on rentmaseur. Started by asking if I could touch it and I ended up sucking his cock and balls.
I know several escorts that spend a lot of time just talking to or holding their clients. It doesn’t have to be full on penetration. My advice is to do your research and find and escort that understands your situation, is gay, and enjoys sex outside of work. Avoid hot straight guys that are just desperate for the money. Disclose your situation upfront and you will have a better experience. The best Rent Boys enjoy what they do and are proud of providing a valuable service. They understand the psychological component of connecting with their clients as much as the physical release. Good luck.
I am kind of in the same boat. It has been 20 years since I've been with anybody and I am looking for a professional. I have been looking on rent.men. does anyone have any experience with that site? I'm wondering how upfront and open right off the bat you discuss what you want. I don't mind paying the price if I know for sure I'm going to get what I want out of the whole situation.
I second rent masseur (or of the same category)… that’s how I dipped my toes. Get a good massage (hopefully), in a hotel room (or somewhere low key), and relax.
