pdrprst:
Originally posted by SurferGirlCA@Dec 22 2004, 05:29 AM
That makes sense to me, Vega, although I guess it depends on what she's looking for. Girlfunk, if you just want a roll in the hay and he's interested, then maybe being aggressive will get you what you want... or at least get it sooner. 
If your interest is more than sexual, I would think it's hard to tell how he would respond to that. I guess the LPSG guys should keep chiming in with the guy side of things.
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Good point SurferGirl. Girls like sex too.
Tiff,
Whether or not to talk about his cock depends on how comfortable he is with his body and your relationship. It also depends on what you both want from the relationship.
If you choose to breach the subject I would reccomend that you get to the point of having firsthand knowledge (groping, hugging, seeing and cuddling all count) of his size before you talk about it. At that point let him know that it is definitely a good thing and compliment his naked body the way you would want yours complimented.
Saying that a woman has a big ass may be a compliment because a guy is into big asses, but it needs to be said in a way that makes it clear that it is in fact a compliment, or else it could be devastating (e.g. "I love your big, round ass" vs. "Damn Gina, you got a big ass!").
In response to rope9839's comment about the shower vs. grower issue, the majority of penises measured in non-self measured studies, like the Durex spring break study, extended 2 to 3 inches from flacid to erect states. I'm sure there are huge growers out there, but that's not what we're talking about here. We're talking about a guy who grows normally. He starts out at the length of an average man's erection, then grows 2-3 inches. He would be bigger than average even if he only grew an inch.
As someone who wrestled in high school and sported a bulge about the size of an "average" erection, I thought I could offer something like his perspective. Allow me to describe the average day in the life of any member of my wrestling team.
Wake up and stuff morning wood into three layers of sweatpants for extra water weight loss, run 4 miles, shower with about 20 naked guys, eat very lightly at breakfast and lunch until sufficiently emaciated, change back into (hopefully fresh) sweats to rub up against same 20 guys in practice for three hours, strip down naked to weigh-in before an audience of 50-100 people. Slip tights onto your emaciated body and non-emaciated bulge then go try to make a well trained athlete submit to your will, and not get hurt in the process, while the cheer squad watches from 10 feet away, and the stands are filled with your friends, classmates, and their families.
You have no time or attention to devote to hiding your body, and to think that no teammate, coach, cheerleader, classmate, friend or enemy will take notice and/or comment in all this time is naive given the attention paid to penis size in our society, even outside the confines of lpsg.org.
The fact that you know may not surprise a wrestler. Our bodies are on display like few other people save swimmers, bodybuilders, strippers or lingerie models. The important thing is that you deliver the message well.
And in response to headbang8 who said wrestlers make great lovers I say, "Damn Straight!", but unfortunately friend so am I. B)
