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Well I’ve been with my girlfriend for just over 3 years now, we’re both 39 and actually dated when we were 17 for two years, before she split with me when she went to Uni and broke my heart. Back then I’d have married her, was madly into her. Although, when we went out I remember I did used to get jealous quite a bit and usually resulted in us arguing after we’d been drinking.
Anyway, fast forward 18 years and not really being in touch, we were both going through a divorce and started messaging and flirting through Facebook. The sexual tension/excitement was just incredible. We met up and she was just as hot as ever, and I’d put on some muscle and not looking too bad which she liked. We started seeing each other again and the sex was incredible. I can honestly say there’s never been anyone else that I fancy as much as her. We talked a lot, as well as texts as I didn’t leave near to her. Talked about turn ons, things we’d done in previous relationships. Nothing was off bounds. She’d mentioned she’d been to a swingers club with her ex who really wanted to take her, she was bit apprehensive as didn’t want to get with a stranger, they went but he just got off from watching others and they didn’t end up having sex. This somehow sparked an interest in me and I said I’d love to go sometime and be watched. She also mentioned someone at her work, that they had always flirted with each other and on work nights out they’d shared the odd kiss. She said if we hadn’t got back together she would probably have slept with him by now. Not sure if there was a moment, but I realised I was not jealous one bit by the threat of someone else and it would actually be a huge turn on to watch her having sex with someone else. I’d told her this, which she found a bit weird and thought that I wouldn’t like it when it came down to it. She was even out one night with work again when she was on the phone to me and her was there and they could have gone back to hers, she couldn’t do it though as she really thought I would regret it. As months went on, we’d talk about her with someone else during sex or texting, it was becoming a huge turn on. I initially wanted either a threesome or to watch, but her work friend Jason, was not keen. So, it was just to be him coming around to hers one evening while I was away. I knew the evening and we’d talked just before he turned up, i reassured her I wanted her to and wanted her to enjoy herself but I wanted to know as much as possible about what happened. Unknown to her, I was driving to her (about 4hr drive) as I wanted to be with her after. But, my head was going crazy as to what was happening! Thoughts running wild.....I couldn’t decide to sneak in or not. In the end I did, they were upstairs in bed but just talking. This was about 3 hrs after he’d turned up so all the action was over. She was pleasantly surprised to see me. She said her goodbyes to him and she told me some details. Unfortunately it wasn’t as good as she had expected, he didn’t last that long although did go two rounds. In a way I wish I’d have crept in much earlier to even just hear the sounds upstairs!
After this, we realised we needed someone else for the threesome. She told me about her ex who would def be up for it, the one who she’d gone to the swingers club with. 10 months later, when he was in the area for work, we arranged an evening. The only thing, weird thinking about it now, but at the time I was not sure about was that she’d said he had a massive dick. Now that’s made it more of a turn on in recent times. But he turned up and we had a few drinks first then she went upstairs with him first, then I joined them. It was such a turn on seeing her moaning from him, and yes he had a massive dick. Length was prob about similar to me, 7.5in but no joke he was prob 7.5in girth plus. He ended up cuming in her mouth, he was fucking her from behind while she was sucking me but then he warned her he was cuming as she turned around to take it. She then finished me off and he was laying there stoking her. The only regret o have is having a few drinks as it’s skightly hazy.
But, as of today, 1.5 years later, we're still together and have a 3 month old daughter.
Thing is, this fantasy, fetish is still as rife in my head as ever and would love to either introduce someone else again or go to a swingers club even if it’s just to be watched. But, I’m not sure she’s as keen which I find very difficult. I even occasionally ask her questions about the experiences and it’s a massive turn on.
 

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Well I’ve been with my girlfriend for just over 3 years now, we’re both 39 and actually dated when we were 17 for two years, before she split with me when she went to Uni and broke my heart. Back then I’d have married her, was madly into her. Although, when we went out I remember I did used to get jealous quite a bit and usually resulted in us arguing after we’d been drinking.
Anyway, fast forward 18 years and not really being in touch, we were both going through a divorce and started messaging and flirting through Facebook. The sexual tension/excitement was just incredible. We met up and she was just as hot as ever, and I’d put on some muscle and not looking too bad which she liked. We started seeing each other again and the sex was incredible. I can honestly say there’s never been anyone else that I fancy as much as her. We talked a lot, as well as texts as I didn’t leave near to her. Talked about turn ons, things we’d done in previous relationships. Nothing was off bounds. She’d mentioned she’d been to a swingers club with her ex who really wanted to take her, she was bit apprehensive as didn’t want to get with a stranger, they went but he just got off from watching others and they didn’t end up having sex. This somehow sparked an interest in me and I said I’d love to go sometime and be watched. She also mentioned someone at her work, that they had always flirted with each other and on work nights out they’d shared the odd kiss. She said if we hadn’t got back together she would probably have slept with him by now. Not sure if there was a moment, but I realised I was not jealous one bit by the threat of someone else and it would actually be a huge turn on to watch her having sex with someone else. I’d told her this, which she found a bit weird and thought that I wouldn’t like it when it came down to it. She was even out one night with work again when she was on the phone to me and her was there and they could have gone back to hers, she couldn’t do it though as she really thought I would regret it. As months went on, we’d talk about her with someone else during sex or texting, it was becoming a huge turn on. I initially wanted either a threesome or to watch, but her work friend Jason, was not keen. So, it was just to be him coming around to hers one evening while I was away. I knew the evening and we’d talked just before he turned up, i reassured her I wanted her to and wanted her to enjoy herself but I wanted to know as much as possible about what happened. Unknown to her, I was driving to her (about 4hr drive) as I wanted to be with her after. But, my head was going crazy as to what was happening! Thoughts running wild.....I couldn’t decide to sneak in or not. In the end I did, they were upstairs in bed but just talking. This was about 3 hrs after he’d turned up so all the action was over. She was pleasantly surprised to see me. She said her goodbyes to him and she told me some details. Unfortunately it wasn’t as good as she had expected, he didn’t last that long although did go two rounds. In a way I wish I’d have crept in much earlier to even just hear the sounds upstairs!
After this, we realised we needed someone else for the threesome. She told me about her ex who would def be up for it, the one who she’d gone to the swingers club with. 10 months later, when he was in the area for work, we arranged an evening. The only thing, weird thinking about it now, but at the time I was not sure about was that she’d said he had a massive dick. Now that’s made it more of a turn on in recent times. But he turned up and we had a few drinks first then she went upstairs with him first, then I joined them. It was such a turn on seeing her moaning from him, and yes he had a massive dick. Length was prob about similar to me, 7.5in but no joke he was prob 7.5in girth plus. He ended up cuming in her mouth, he was fucking her from behind while she was sucking me but then he warned her he was cuming as she turned around to take it. She then finished me off and he was laying there stoking her. The only regret o have is having a few drinks as it’s skightly hazy.
But, as of today, 1.5 years later, we're still together and have a 3 month old daughter.
Thing is, this fantasy, fetish is still as rife in my head as ever and would love to either introduce someone else again or go to a swingers club even if it’s just to be watched. But, I’m not sure she’s as keen which I find very difficult. I even occasionally ask her questions about the experiences and it’s a massive turn on.

Fwiw, I'm not sure this qualifies as cuckold; perhaps more of a "hotwife" thing. Cuckolds rarely play together with their wife and, when they do, it is usually in a very submissive role, even to the point of being dominated or teased by wife and her bull.

We did the hotwife thing for about three years. I loved it and really miss it.
 

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I get it, my ex and I had many MFM threesomes and cuckolding type play many times. We split up for other reasons. The thought of my current wife with her ex or another guy gets me instantly hard!unfortunately she's not interested in persuing it

How much have you tried to persuade her? I just still can’t get it out of my head.
 

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Fwiw, I'm not sure this qualifies as cuckold; perhaps more of a "hotwife" thing. Cuckolds rarely play together with their wife and, when they do, it is usually in a very submissive role, even to the point of being dominated or teased by wife and her bull.

We did the hotwife thing for about three years. I loved it and really miss it.

Yeah I actually think I’m a “Stag cuckhold” thing, according to this....

Are You A Stag Cuckold? – Page 2 of 3 – The Cuckold Consultant — Page 2
 

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How much have you tried to persuade her? I just still can’t get it out of my head.

I've tried quite a bit. Shared stories I've found on line and we've talked about it a lot. I even gave her a actual "hall pass" I work away from home two weeks at a time so that leaves her plenty of time to play should she want. She will flirt with other guys but that's about as far as its gone. I don't want to push too hard.

When I get home after being away for work for two weeks I can't help but wonder, while I'm licking her juicy pussy, if another cock had been there while I was away?!
 

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I've tried quite a bit. Shared stories I've found on line and we've talked about it a lot. I even gave her a actual "hall pass" I work away from home two weeks at a time so that leaves her plenty of time to play should she want. She will flirt with other guys but that's about as far as its gone. I don't want to push too hard.

When I get home after being away for work for two weeks I can't help but wonder, while I'm licking her juicy pussy, if another cock had been there while I was away?!

Yeah I work away a lot also, about half the time. I’ve told her many times it would be a huge turn on if she did fancy doing anything with anyone she always can, as long as she tells me about it!
 

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Yeah I work away a lot also, about half the time. I’ve told her many times it would be a huge turn on if she did fancy doing anything with anyone she always can, as long as she tells me about it!

How would you like it if you were between her legs licking her juicy pussy and discovering it tasted a bit different than it usually did? Would you keep licking or ask her about it? In your mind would you wonder if just maybe another's cock had been deep inside your woman? Would that get you hard? Would you push your tongue in deeper hoping to find a creamy surprise? Would you lap it all up if you did!
 

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Please share your story/experiences
About a year ago, my wife (29) and I (32) separated. We kept in contact, and had every intention of reconciling. While separated, she lived in our house with our son, while I moved in with my unmarried brother. A few weeks after separating, I heard that she’d been having a guy over almost every day. It turned out it was an 18-year-old guy I know because he, my wife, and I all attend the same gym, though am not friends with him.

I texted him just to let him know that though we were separated, we were working through everything and intended to stay married. After that, he started texting me every day, telling me that he’d been with my wife that day, what she wore, where they went, what they did, and how he was showing her that he was more of a man at 18 than I was at my age, and how he could please her better than I could. He texted me about how she sucked his dick, how he fucked her, with all kinds of details. He eventually started sending me voice notes, pictures, and little clips.

At first I was insanely pissed off, but it became incredibly erotic and started to turn me on.
 

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We talked about it and she said no. We then discussed her doing everything except sex with a guy and she said maybe. We haven’t done anything yet, but possibly in the future. We watch porn and I ask her if she likes the guys cocks and she will tell me if she likes them and what she likes about it. After we watch it we will fuck and I ask her about their cock while I fuck her. I will ask her if she liked his big cock she will say ya then I ask her what she would do with it. She will say she would stroke it and suck it. Once she gets really into it and getting close to cumming I will ask her if she would like him to fuck her and she says ya. She says she would let him fuck her hard with his big fat cock. Stuff like that. We usually watch amateur couples with another guy and big cock porn. Is this stuff we do considered any type of hotwifing?
 

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We talked about it and she said no. We then discussed her doing everything except sex with a guy and she said maybe. We haven’t done anything yet, but possibly in the future. We watch porn and I ask her if she likes the guys cocks and she will tell me if she likes them and what she likes about it. After we watch it we will fuck and I ask her about their cock while I fuck her. I will ask her if she liked his big cock she will say ya then I ask her what she would do with it. She will say she would stroke it and suck it. Once she gets really into it and getting close to cumming I will ask her if she would like him to fuck her and she says ya. She says she would let him fuck her hard with his big fat cock. Stuff like that. We usually watch amateur couples with another guy and big cock porn. Is this stuff we do considered any type of hotwifing?
You are so thick already, and she wants thicker?
 

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I don’t like cuckholding personally but love MMF threesomes with my lady. If you want to give it a shot have an open and honest conversation with your girl about it and go from there. Maybe you guys can find some sort of sexual outlet for it.
 

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I don’t like cuckholding personally but love MMF threesomes with my lady. If you want to give it a shot have an open and honest conversation with your girl about it and go from there. Maybe you guys can find some sort of sexual outlet for it.
What is difference between cuckolding and MMF, your lady still Ian fucking or sucking another man/woman
 

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I don’t like cuckholding personally but love MMF threesomes with my lady. If you want to give it a shot have an open and honest conversation with your girl about it and go from there. Maybe you guys can find some sort of sexual outlet for it.

One problem is that many people conflate hotwife and cuckold, when they are in fact quite different concepts.

To make matters worse, what most call cuckolding today bears no relationship to the original meaning of the term.
 

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What is difference between cuckolding and MMF, your lady still Ian fucking or sucking another man/woman

MMF, MFM, and others are variations of the swinging lifestyle. Separately, a woman who has sex with a man not her husband but with her husband's full support and encouragement is often called a hotwife. Her husband may be present for these escapades and may or may not join in, but the primary interest is to see his wife fully embracing her sexuality. In the typical hotwife scenario, only the wife plays with multiple partners; the husband derives pleasure vicariously through his wife's exploits, but does not himself have additional sexual partners.

In recent times, many men have pursued a hotwife lifestyle under the false banner of cuckolding. This is incorrect; if the husband is deriving pleasure from it, then he is not truly a cuckold.

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What is difference between cuckolding and MMF, your lady still Ian fucking or sucking another man/woman
There is quite a big difference, cuckold has all kinds of psychological ramifications, and it means that one is in the role of the dominant, the other sumbissive... MMF just means you are all having fun