Well I’ve been with my girlfriend for just over 3 years now, we’re both 39 and actually dated when we were 17 for two years, before she split with me when she went to Uni and broke my heart. Back then I’d have married her, was madly into her. Although, when we went out I remember I did used to get jealous quite a bit and usually resulted in us arguing after we’d been drinking.
Anyway, fast forward 18 years and not really being in touch, we were both going through a divorce and started messaging and flirting through Facebook. The sexual tension/excitement was just incredible. We met up and she was just as hot as ever, and I’d put on some muscle and not looking too bad which she liked. We started seeing each other again and the sex was incredible. I can honestly say there’s never been anyone else that I fancy as much as her. We talked a lot, as well as texts as I didn’t leave near to her. Talked about turn ons, things we’d done in previous relationships. Nothing was off bounds. She’d mentioned she’d been to a swingers club with her ex who really wanted to take her, she was bit apprehensive as didn’t want to get with a stranger, they went but he just got off from watching others and they didn’t end up having sex. This somehow sparked an interest in me and I said I’d love to go sometime and be watched. She also mentioned someone at her work, that they had always flirted with each other and on work nights out they’d shared the odd kiss. She said if we hadn’t got back together she would probably have slept with him by now. Not sure if there was a moment, but I realised I was not jealous one bit by the threat of someone else and it would actually be a huge turn on to watch her having sex with someone else. I’d told her this, which she found a bit weird and thought that I wouldn’t like it when it came down to it. She was even out one night with work again when she was on the phone to me and her was there and they could have gone back to hers, she couldn’t do it though as she really thought I would regret it. As months went on, we’d talk about her with someone else during sex or texting, it was becoming a huge turn on. I initially wanted either a threesome or to watch, but her work friend Jason, was not keen. So, it was just to be him coming around to hers one evening while I was away. I knew the evening and we’d talked just before he turned up, i reassured her I wanted her to and wanted her to enjoy herself but I wanted to know as much as possible about what happened. Unknown to her, I was driving to her (about 4hr drive) as I wanted to be with her after. But, my head was going crazy as to what was happening! Thoughts running wild.....I couldn’t decide to sneak in or not. In the end I did, they were upstairs in bed but just talking. This was about 3 hrs after he’d turned up so all the action was over. She was pleasantly surprised to see me. She said her goodbyes to him and she told me some details. Unfortunately it wasn’t as good as she had expected, he didn’t last that long although did go two rounds. In a way I wish I’d have crept in much earlier to even just hear the sounds upstairs!
After this, we realised we needed someone else for the threesome. She told me about her ex who would def be up for it, the one who she’d gone to the swingers club with. 10 months later, when he was in the area for work, we arranged an evening. The only thing, weird thinking about it now, but at the time I was not sure about was that she’d said he had a massive dick. Now that’s made it more of a turn on in recent times. But he turned up and we had a few drinks first then she went upstairs with him first, then I joined them. It was such a turn on seeing her moaning from him, and yes he had a massive dick. Length was prob about similar to me, 7.5in but no joke he was prob 7.5in girth plus. He ended up cuming in her mouth, he was fucking her from behind while she was sucking me but then he warned her he was cuming as she turned around to take it. She then finished me off and he was laying there stoking her. The only regret o have is having a few drinks as it’s skightly hazy.
But, as of today, 1.5 years later, we're still together and have a 3 month old daughter.
Thing is, this fantasy, fetish is still as rife in my head as ever and would love to either introduce someone else again or go to a swingers club even if it’s just to be watched. But, I’m not sure she’s as keen which I find very difficult. I even occasionally ask her questions about the experiences and it’s a massive turn on.
Anyway, fast forward 18 years and not really being in touch, we were both going through a divorce and started messaging and flirting through Facebook. The sexual tension/excitement was just incredible. We met up and she was just as hot as ever, and I’d put on some muscle and not looking too bad which she liked. We started seeing each other again and the sex was incredible. I can honestly say there’s never been anyone else that I fancy as much as her. We talked a lot, as well as texts as I didn’t leave near to her. Talked about turn ons, things we’d done in previous relationships. Nothing was off bounds. She’d mentioned she’d been to a swingers club with her ex who really wanted to take her, she was bit apprehensive as didn’t want to get with a stranger, they went but he just got off from watching others and they didn’t end up having sex. This somehow sparked an interest in me and I said I’d love to go sometime and be watched. She also mentioned someone at her work, that they had always flirted with each other and on work nights out they’d shared the odd kiss. She said if we hadn’t got back together she would probably have slept with him by now. Not sure if there was a moment, but I realised I was not jealous one bit by the threat of someone else and it would actually be a huge turn on to watch her having sex with someone else. I’d told her this, which she found a bit weird and thought that I wouldn’t like it when it came down to it. She was even out one night with work again when she was on the phone to me and her was there and they could have gone back to hers, she couldn’t do it though as she really thought I would regret it. As months went on, we’d talk about her with someone else during sex or texting, it was becoming a huge turn on. I initially wanted either a threesome or to watch, but her work friend Jason, was not keen. So, it was just to be him coming around to hers one evening while I was away. I knew the evening and we’d talked just before he turned up, i reassured her I wanted her to and wanted her to enjoy herself but I wanted to know as much as possible about what happened. Unknown to her, I was driving to her (about 4hr drive) as I wanted to be with her after. But, my head was going crazy as to what was happening! Thoughts running wild.....I couldn’t decide to sneak in or not. In the end I did, they were upstairs in bed but just talking. This was about 3 hrs after he’d turned up so all the action was over. She was pleasantly surprised to see me. She said her goodbyes to him and she told me some details. Unfortunately it wasn’t as good as she had expected, he didn’t last that long although did go two rounds. In a way I wish I’d have crept in much earlier to even just hear the sounds upstairs!
After this, we realised we needed someone else for the threesome. She told me about her ex who would def be up for it, the one who she’d gone to the swingers club with. 10 months later, when he was in the area for work, we arranged an evening. The only thing, weird thinking about it now, but at the time I was not sure about was that she’d said he had a massive dick. Now that’s made it more of a turn on in recent times. But he turned up and we had a few drinks first then she went upstairs with him first, then I joined them. It was such a turn on seeing her moaning from him, and yes he had a massive dick. Length was prob about similar to me, 7.5in but no joke he was prob 7.5in girth plus. He ended up cuming in her mouth, he was fucking her from behind while she was sucking me but then he warned her he was cuming as she turned around to take it. She then finished me off and he was laying there stoking her. The only regret o have is having a few drinks as it’s skightly hazy.
But, as of today, 1.5 years later, we're still together and have a 3 month old daughter.
Thing is, this fantasy, fetish is still as rife in my head as ever and would love to either introduce someone else again or go to a swingers club even if it’s just to be watched. But, I’m not sure she’s as keen which I find very difficult. I even occasionally ask her questions about the experiences and it’s a massive turn on.