OK, I know I'm more conceited than my husband because I work out constantly to maintain the look I want. Also, health and all that, but I like the way I look and want to keep it. He'll walk or hike, but he doesn't do anything out of the ordinary to keep himself in shape, and I like it just like that. When I was a few pounds heavier he never said a thing, but when I began losing weight he really liked it.
When he returned from a four-month tour overseas I told him he had lost some weight. I urged him to gain it back because I miss it. OK, subconsciously maybe I didn't want him to look better than me.
But I do prefer him to have a bit more cushion than bones.