Daily life with a big penis, men who are big this is a question for you

[RaskaYu]

Well to answer OP,

As some of you may know I didn't think I was that big until last year, and once I knew I was bigger than quite a percentage of my peers I started noticing a few details I was unaware. To put it shortly, it made me more self-concious.

Regarding weight, I think it weights as usual and unless you're using a cockring, injecting saline using a pump or some external factor like that, it's rare for me to notice its weight, it's just... there.

That said, in hot days I feel it more present and a very sudden erection can make me notice its size and weight. Last week happened just that as I caught my girl exiting the shower and as we were both naked, the fella automatically decided it was time for REAL ACTION.

I used to think I was a grower and not a shower but turns out my flaccid size is quite something too. And the act of thinking it wasnt was making me disregard those comfort issues. So I decided to freeball in every opportunity I had too as I'm noticeably in a much much better mood. It makes leaving the house for errands not feel like a loathsome chore. I guess I just need better underwear.

So to sum up no it's pretty normal, in my case I just think twice before crossing my legs or putting underwear lol.

 

[SaltnPepper32]

I have a question. For those who are well endowed. What is daily life like, I’m not talking about sex and all that jazz, I mean general stuff. Is it heavy or difficult to position comfortably? I’ve always been curious about how one manages it. As a man with a small penis and I often find it can get stuck or rubs and chaffs at times. But I don’t know…I’ve always wondered if I struggle at times with my four inch how does a guy double the length cope?
I’m not trying to be sexual or anything like that. It just knowing how trousers and underwear are made they generally don’t leave much room as it for the average size. I’m just curious. I have tried researching it before but to not much avail.
Do you have to wear certain things to support the weight of your penis?
I know how it sounds and yeah I admit it’s strange question.

I’m not looking to mock anyone or to humiliate or anything like that. I just find the penis fascinating because of how varied it can be.
So I’m just putting this question out there, so I can understand a bit more that’s all.
Just normal day to day life nothing sexual because that’s all that people will discuss. But I just want to know how do you men who are well endowed go about your daily routine every day and what special things do you have to do or use to accommodate it?

Question feels really vague tbh, It's pretty much the same thing as far as I'd imagine. I only know what a regular day feels like from my own perspective. In terms of a bulge, I don't feel flaccid size really matters since you're just that-flaccid. Yea boners are hard to hide in public, but that's true for average dudes too.

 

[Nager]

In follow up. My question was just to get a general understanding of life with big being the same or different than small.
More in the lines of study and research. That was all. In conclusion, it’s just as I suspected no different at all really, just a slight difference here and there.
I do thank all who have contributed so far.
My question stems mostly from my fascination with the human anatomy and how it works and functions. And how it varies between people. And life experience that comes with that.

 

[fireman1294]

In follow up. My question was just to get a general understanding of life with big being the same or different than small.
More in the lines of study and research. That was all. In conclusion, it’s just as I suspected no different at all really, just a slight difference here and there.
I do thank all who have contributed so far.
My question stems mostly from my fascination with the human anatomy and how it works and functions. And how it varies between people. And life experience that comes with that.

I love the question.

There will always be life differences between the small and large hung dicks and cocks. And I love being huge hung myself and wouldn’t trade it for anything. I’m grateful that my sons and nephews are also huge hung.

I wish we could ask the same question to the women about the differences between living with small tits to huge tits. What problems and issues the huge tit women have to deal with.

But sadly if it was tried here on LPSG it would get met with hate and vitriol until it was closed.

 

[Nager]

True. Mine was asked on medical grounds.
We are all human at the end of the day so I personally can’t understand why we all can’t just have these non sexual open discussions. Why can’t we help each other out and provide an understanding and shared experiences.

 

[fireman1294]

True. Mine was asked on medical grounds.
We are all human at the end of the day so I personally can’t understand why we all can’t just have these non sexual open discussions. Why can’t we help each other out and provide an understanding and shared experiences.

Exactly. People get so freaked out on these things and they automatically put their mind in the worst sexual position. When in fact it’s just the simple fact of life just happening.

 

[Nager]

Exactly. People get so freaked out on these things and they automatically put their mind in the worst sexual position. When in fact it’s just the simple fact of life just happening.

On here I’ve had sexual and non sexual stuff because I can in fact separate the two.
We were born naked. Simple as that really.

 

[Rooker]

Breasts have a much greater size range. I expect, and have been told, it’s much more of an every day problem, even after you factor out the creepiness.

 

[meatonastick]

Breasts have a much greater size range. I expect, and have been told, it’s much more of an every day problem, even after you factor out the creepiness.

I know a few women that underwent reductions that were necessary, serious back problems, etc. Had a roommate that still had huge ones after surgery, and it was weird living behind those, everywhere I went with her people would gawk. I didn't really think about it, but the twins were intimidating.

 

[HOU_HEADHUNTER]

Generally, augmentation procedures (breast or penile) are not covered by insurance but breast reductions are. I've known a few women to get the reduction surgery and were much happier after their reduction. Most women don't tend to see their endowment as some kind of social capital unless they are a sex worker or an exotic dancer. Many women who are naturally well endowed might see their large breasts as a hindrance. A common complaint is usually neck and back pain but one that I've also heard is that they don't like how they look in some clothes.

 

[hungpaulo069]

Hi OP. One of my biggest struggles is that my very large soft cock is impossible to hide and bulges out with my big lowhangers so some people get offended and think I'm half hard in public. People sometimes give me dirty looks but it can't be helped.

 

[bigguy19161]

Hi OP. One of my biggest struggles is that my very large soft cock is impossible to hide and bulges out with my big lowhangers so some people get offended and think I'm half hard in public. People sometimes give me dirty looks but it can't be helped.

Welcome to LPSG. Enjoy yourself here. Cheers!

 

[boc]

I have a question. For those who are well endowed. What is daily life like, I’m not talking about sex and all that jazz, I mean general stuff. Is it heavy or difficult to position comfortably? I’ve always been curious about how one manages it. As a man with a small penis and I often find it can get stuck or rubs and chaffs at times. But I don’t know…I’ve always wondered if I struggle at times with my four inch how does a guy double the length cope?
I’m not trying to be sexual or anything like that. It just knowing how trousers and underwear are made they generally don’t leave much room as it for the average size. I’m just curious. I have tried researching it before but to not much avail.
Do you have to wear certain things to support the weight of your penis?
I know how it sounds and yeah I admit it’s strange question.

I’m not looking to mock anyone or to humiliate or anything like that. I just find the penis fascinating because of how varied it can be.
So I’m just putting this question out there, so I can understand a bit more that’s all.
Just normal day to day life nothing sexual because that’s all that people will discuss. But I just want to know how do you men who are well endowed go about your daily routine every day and what special things do you have to do or use to accommodate it?

Mornings are interesting.

 

[BdTr7]

For me going through puberty at 11 was awkward. I was extremely skinny with no muscles and the only thing that was big was my dick and a full bush of hair. I was so embarrassed in the locker room because a lot of the other boys were not developed and boy did I get stared at. I had a lot of boners that would happen at inopportune moments that were difficult to hide. So I started wearing extra long T shirts to hang low over my crotch. Underwear was painful and tight at times so I went without a lot. Yes my dick has fallen into the toilet on some occasions so I got into the habit of always holding it up when I sat down to do business. Today I always go commando even at the gym. I have lost all of my moderation and just go with the flow. If I catch someone looking or staring I just kind of smile or wink. As you grow older these things kind of loose their control over you.

 

[techpump]

Big or small the it’s yours so it just feels normal. To the guy it’s his penis, not big or small, just his penis and it’s all he knows. He can’t compare it to anything else because he doesn’t know anything else.

The one thing that I experienced is that I thought everybody had to hold theirs up in their hand when getting in the car. When I would lift my leg up to get in the car when I had on boxers it would go under my thigh so I have to hold it up. I was casually mentioning this to a friend and the look he gave me said he didn’t have that problem. But for me it was normal, I didn’t know it wasn’t something all guys had to deal with.

Same here I used to do that when I wore boxers and was completely unconscious I was doing it. Then years later I realized I was sitting on my dick and my balls were all over the place and I'd jump in the seat "ow!" and readjust. I didn't tell anyone I was doing it, I just did as a matter of fact, this is how I have to live, kind of thing, like being right or left handed.

 

[techpump]

I don't know if its got "weight" that I can feel, maybe as I start to get a semi, its like between the 5.5-6" area of flaccid hang that's when I feel it, when I turn if I don't have briefs on, it swings and I feel that.

Every time I sit down if I don't have underwear on and am just in my looser PJ short or pants, I have to move my dick around. It never seems like its in the right place or spot. Fabric is always too tight or too loose, so if its too loose I don't stay where I want it to stay and it slides down my leg between my legs and sometimes I don't want it there. In pouch briefs its kind of packed in but comfortable, I don't show as much through pants and like the "held up and slightly out" feeling of everything. If I'm anywhere and I get a semi in my underwear it hurts it compresses my balls and my dick starts bending in different ways and I can't handle it. I've been wearing a glans restoration sleeve for almost 4 years now and I get irritated less now, I feel like my penis has clothing to protect it from abrasive fabric and its really nice now. Its still there sometimes where I don't want it, but the glans at least is not getting chaffed and further desensitized.

I do have a funny story it was embarrassing for a few people. I was in my desk turned sideways and my balls and dick were hanging really low in my boxers and big baggy jeans. The girl (who I almost dated, fuck she was so fine, big titties and hair my fav) who sat behind me threw her left leg forward so her foot flew up under my left leg, I was turned to the left, and she kicked my dick! Her foot was going for the spot where the chair leg came up on the side of the chair, its like a foot rest kind of thing, and my shit happened to be pretty much dangling over that spot. I was like "hey ow watch out!!" and she was like "OMFFFFFG I did not just kick you THERE" and her face went beet red. My friends behind her were laughing like "hell yah man!" and I got embarrassed. We traded a look like we both knew what happened exactly, and I turned back to sit normal and she moved her foot away. Fun times I swear how ridiculous this shit is!

 

[416adam]

Underwear is definitely the most significant consideration. I have tended to wear specific briefs that are designed for the endowed (like Aussiebum) because I feel sexy in them. Some briefs are just ridiculous and have no capacity at all. I recently went back to boxer briefs and I am SO aware of my package - my cock and balls against my legs. I often find I have to adjust to be able to walk properly. Beyond this I usually don't think of it too much day-to-day - except for sexy times when I like to brag a little. For the most part I think you just live with what you have and fantasize about what you don't have.

 

[OldWise]

When I was a young man, I had to worry during the warm months, as the thinner pants and shorts material would revel a too, too visible penis outline. Then there was the hassle of slow dancing, as I always got instantly hard, my erect cock down my right pant leg—or worse, tent-poling my pants. (Most of the women loved it, but I was nonetheless embarrassed.)

Now that I am an old-timer, one who has packed on 25lbs of extra weight, I worry much less—except when I am wearing shorts and am in a car with friend. One day, my wife's best friend gave me an emergency ride home from the car repair firm. She seemed weirdly agitated. I only figured out why when I undid my seatbelt and looked down and saw how the thin shots material tightly wrapped around my naughty bits, making me look as if I was trying to smuggle a banana and two limes past the agriculture inspector at the Hawaii airport.

 

[BigToken361]

Day to day not much when out and about. I am a "shower" and tend to bulge very easily, so there is that.

At home, I typically go commando or just dont wear pants at all, so I can clearly feel the "weight" of my cock hanging between my thighs. And having cotton pouch underwear or boxer briefs on that are fully filled, can feel REALLY good when rubbing against my penis. It does feel good psychologically and physically stretching your underwear out