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Tell me why my first thought was that if the bear were inflatable, my tallish self could jump on the empty side and send shawty flying across the room.
I have no idea, but my inner asshole (who is now my dominant operating persona) chuckled at the thought! XD
 

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I have no idea, but my inner asshole (who is now my dominant operating persona) chuckled at the thought! XD
Either that or pin him down and tickle him, all because this TikTok he posted last year lives in my head rent-free. :imp: Like, yaaass, David, unleash your inner alpha and put me in my place. :rolleyes:
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Some Karen got huffy when David “ruined the Christmas spirit” by venting about his sexuality near the end of a show. We learn from her email to his manager that several people got up and walked out when he started doing that. “You should’ve stopped right after ‘O Holy Night.’” : unamused:

David shared portions of this email on his media outlets, thanking them for coming, but nothing is going to make him change what he does. Too many years of hiding for that mess. :emoji_crown:
 
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A Whole Lotta Archuleta podcast just dropped: Pridecast with Jonathan Bennet
This is one of the best podcast episodes I've ever listened to. The way David, Jonathan and his husband were relating to each other and giving each other space to talk was refreshing. I'm used to podcasters and interviewers interrupting guests and only looking for that one quote they can make a headline out of. This was a conversation that needed to happen. David is changing lives.
 

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Yassss!!! :emoji_raised_hands: Kindly yet firmly setting healthy boundaries instead of retaliating is such a rare art. I've known a dozen gay people personally who allowed their church trauma to consume them and now display behavior far more toxic than what initially drove them to that place. It's heartbreaking to watch. I love what David says about his naysayers "just not understanding," because he'd had the same mindset himself. He's a people lover yet not a doormat: how I'm trying to be!

I've had some opportunities myself to share my life with groups of ultra-conservative church folk. A lot of people just plain don't understand. I find that, if presented with tact, people are more willing to hear. David has mentioned that the "difficult conversations" need to be had among church folk instead of sweeping things under the rug; that's exactly my heartbeat. Gosh, I love this man! Everyone could greatly benefit from having a friend like him in their life.

I love that David likes writing his paragraphs too. :rolleyes:
 

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Yassss!!! :emoji_raised_hands: Kindly yet firmly setting healthy boundaries instead of retaliating is such a rare art. I've known a dozen gay people personally who allowed their church trauma to consume them and now display behavior far more toxic than what initially drove them to that place. It's heartbreaking to watch. I love what David says about his naysayers "just not understanding," because he'd had the same mindset himself. He's a people lover yet not a doormat: how I'm trying to be!

I've had some opportunities myself to share my life with groups of ultra-conservative church folk. A lot of people just plain don't understand. I find that, if presented with tact, people are more willing to hear. David has mentioned that the "difficult conversations" need to be had among church folk instead of sweeping things under the rug; that's exactly my heartbeat. Gosh, I love this man! Everyone could greatly benefit from having a friend like him in their life.

I love that David likes writing his paragraphs too. :rolleyes:
The paragraphs he writes is due to over-explaining/a need to be understood which is a trauma response.
 

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The paragraphs he writes is due to over-explaining/a need to be understood which is a trauma response.
Very true. Thank you for bringing that up; I hadn't considered it.
Dang, I've written novels on my personal pages for years, so this hits home.
 

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News articles blowing up everywhere and I'm truly in shock at how many comments essentially say the same as Cathy's: Make me happy, puppet boy, but keep your problems to yourself!

I mean, honest opinions are permissible, but ewww. Shallowness. : unamused:
Yet the man's still considerate enough to wait until after a full show . . .
David really said, "Door's open for those who can't handle reality." :joy::emoji_point_right:

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