deal breakers

[big_duke]

so ladies we all know there are huge things a guy can do to fuck himself over when talking to you, but what are some of the more "subtle" things guys do when flirting that break the deal, slight comments, topics, motions w/e

 

[Betty_Cocker]

"can you turn your cam on?"

"can I veiw your cam?"

"wanna see me on cam?"

"I'm about to cum ... hurry turn the cam on"

(these are all online total turn offs.)

In person:
1. smoking
2. stinking (hygiene)
3. loud, obnoxious and rude behavior
4. having an "air of authority" (as if I am lucky he is even takng the time to speak to me.)

Just for starters....

 

[crazyforthickness]

I normally am a pretty open person but I can't stand someone who is clingy or acts desperate. I know I'm not the last female on earth so why are you acting like I am? I also can't stand someone who is overly cocky ( when he shouldn't be) and one who abuses drugs and alcohol. It is a HUGE turn off when a guy gets sloppy drunk and smokes ciggarettes. A man who is self confident doesn't speak bullshit is perfect!

As for men on LPSG , NO I DON'T WANNA RATE YOUR DICK! If you have a nice dick I will let you know!!

 

[Serial Kisser]

Poor grammar.

 

[paigexox]

Starting sentences with the word "so" on a horrifyingly regular basis. It seems like the new thing lately, and it drives me insane.

 

[Jillang]

The things that were already mentioned, smoking, bad hygiene, rude and obnoxious behavior, too much drinking, and poor grammar all are true for me too.

I'll also add if he uses racist slurs, swears non-stop, and I don't know if it's just immaturity but just acting too full of testosterone and machismo.

 

[Patchos]

size mattress

 

[Enid]

Poor dental hygiene. Close-minded bigot. Crappy tipper. Unkind to animals, littering.

 

[MickeyLee]

Poor dental hygiene. Close-minded bigot. Crappy tipper. Unkind to animals, littering.

i was discussing deal breakers with my dental hygienist just the other day. over lunch at a local fair-trade, independently-owned, vegetarian Ethiopian restaurant... the food was wonderful and i tipped the staff... generously. :naughty:

*is only mildly ashamed of self*


for true... sticks in ass. i like to keep buttplay as a part of the recreational good times in a relationship.... not lodged in the world of personality disorder :smile:

mean to critters and kids and old people.

rubbish music taste. *this does not exclude bad music. bad music is some of the best music when you can dance to it :biggrin:


lacking in fandom. ya need to be passionate about something some folks might call frivolous. to me, speaks of ya ability to embrace joy/happy/pleasure without fussing about outside opinions/internal self-denial. could be i just like co-nerding :redface:


edit: i'd like to add being funky with a little disclaimer.. i don't mind a person smelling like a human being, like, minus all the perfumes and artificial scents most humans are covered with *even when they don't realize it* washed human is good. and depending on when/how/where i meet a person, funk is acceptable. like, my bestie i met during an hot day art crawl, he was very HIM smelling, but not stale HIM smelling.. if that makes sense *blink*

yeah.. funky can be endearing and okay. but not stale funky. *blech face*