Define a 'pervert'

[B_slimjimpencil]

i've seen women who i know would normally slap guys for touching them inappropriately, let guys that they found attractive do the exact same thing. no they were not under the influence or romantically involved with them (though they may hope to be). i've also seen at the office, the resident 'mack daddy' be overly touchy and informal with female workers and they allow it but just last year another guy got in trouble for sexual harrassment which shows they aren't afraid to take action against inappropriate acts. it made me realize and wonder if a 'pervert' is really as cut and dry as it's definition states or is it a lot more subjective than objective.

ladies of lpsg, would you honestly react in the same manner if for eg. a 'hot guy' slapped/palmed you on the ass as opposed to a guy you didn't find attractive?

 

[AlteredEgo]

If I've been indicating that touching is okay, it's fine. If not, I might retaliate violently.

 

[HiddenLacey]

If I've been indicating that touching is okay, it's fine. If not, I might retaliate violently.

^ This.

It is never ok for a stranger to touch me in that manner unless I slipped and his hand happened to land there while breaking my fall. Hotness doesn't matter at all.

 

[IntoxicatingToxin]

I don't care what you look like, if you touch me inappropriately and I don't know you, you're going down.

 

[EllieP]

Any type of inappropriate touching is off-limits in my book. If I label it inappropriate so be it. What constitutes inappropriate is what makes the difference, and that takes many forms.

 

[Jillang]

Hmmmm, this is actually a good question because I had to think. If I am in a relationship and some stranger inappropriately touched me then of course it's offensive and wrong. But if I'm maybe not in a relationship and flirting, I'd probably be more lenient with a really cute guy. I know that sounds bad but I probably would to a certain degree anyway.

 

[MickeyLee]

pervert.. random with no concern for boundaries.

the act of violating my space/person would render any attraction null and void.
like, random flirty with someone.. they go all up in my business... flirty thoughts are ashed.

 

[hotwetkiss]

Atrractive or not a swift kick to the nuts would be the order of the day!

 

[Enid]

What ML said -- uninvited sexual touch, no matter how attractive the individual, instantly makes him or her decidedly UNATTRACTIVE. It's just gross behaviour, I would be repulsed even if it was Alex Rodriguez or Yu Darvish or Katherine Moennig or Gabrielle Union.

 

[MickeyLee]

*pops into thread, smooches and hugs up on Ms. Enid*

working from uninvited... Kathrine Moennig, you have my full permission to get all up in my business.. with or without proper introductions taking place first :smile:

 

[Enid]

Yea see Shane/Ms Moennig will ALWAYS have my permission, as will Ms Mickey. For true.

But just to illustrate my answer for the OP....I used those examples to say if an attractive girl or guy slapped my ass or tried to fondle my boobs WITHOUT MY PERMISSION, I am going to bring out my new toy. A brass knuckles stun gun. 950,000 volts of pure awesome.

TL, DR: I don't care how cute, if I dont want the touch and the touch is extremely sexual, I reserve the right to call it assault and use my brass knuckle zapper.

 

[Patchos]

Any guy with a dick under 8 inches