I don’t know him but since you say you want us to stop talking about him I hope everyone continues to talk about him you are not above use just for the record you could have been left this forum days ago after you deleted your content but I guess you have a homophobic agenda for arguing with the gays just for the record you aren’t cute enough to have to pay to see you naked which is why this forum existed haha
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Very well written!!!!
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When I read this thread with an 8-hour time difference against USA, and an endless time difference in other contexts, I am again surprised - after all. Admittedly, you now have next to civil war ongoing, which is not surprising, but that there is so much hatred between straight and LGBT people, scares me. It also sounds like a war, at least in this thread. I thought, maybe in my simplicity, that today's American youth by 2020, have no negative view of LGBTQ people, with various types of mentions. But also reads that, "There is no federal law that protects LGBTQ people in USA from discrimination in working life. And in 28 states, it is not illegal to dismiss people because of their sexual orientation." So you could say that you have some work to do over there, and this thread probably reflects the view you have of LGBTQ people in your community. “Fy faaan”, in pure Swedish.
Whew. I am not attacking you, let me preface with that. Let's be constructive, I am glad you are here engaging.
I would ask you, when dealing with a gay guy, why the slurs are the go-to most effective hurtful way to "put them in their place"?
What are you afraid of? The majority of the world feels homosexuality is less worthy, beneath them, much more dirty or disgusting than hetero sex, even if hetero pairing does anal, at least it isn't man-on-man anal. So when we live in a world of detecting cues, we pick up on attitudes that betray your inner feelings towards people like us. Why is it ever ok to reduce someone down to one word? Because they inherently deserve it for being gay? Because they don't live up to your standards for how you want them to be as a man? Because god says? Please release this notion and deal with people as individuals, not write them off as nothing more than gay (but bite your tongue and tolerate them until provoked).
Since you're open, let's talk. Is it discomfort? You don't mind the attention, it seems it crosses the line of disrespect or rudeness, so you remind them they are gay? Also, someone suggested guy on guy sex and the response was obviously triggering. It is a request that will never go away, just say no. Why does the thought or consideration threaten you so much, as a straight guy? I understand it may happen a lot, but . And this forum is more for horny adults, so expecting to only have a discussion with professional adults seems silly, meaning there's a little bit of everyone here, some that can handle subjects maturely and those that refuse and just want peen.
As a public figure you will be used as the butt of jokes or target of sad people to hate on, be catty towards, take cheap shots at. Anyone you associate with, pose with, live with, feature in your snaps/stories, are all fair game to discuss. If your family makes headlines best believe they will be talked about, too. This is why I choose not to be a public figure displaying my body. I want to retain control of my privacy and intimate parts. You cannot have your cake and eat it, too. You are either signing up for the lifestyle and all that comes with it or you are not. You do not have to respond to everything, defend everything. Some stuff has to be tolerated. It's like trying to dry a wet spot while your standing in the rain. People online are not going to be respectful, whether it's twitter 4chan reddit instagram facebook whatever. Less is more. You said your piece, let your fanbase defend you. I do not know what it is like to be a mini celebrity or have any modicum of fame that would draw strangers into adoration or awaken the hater within. If someone says you're a dumb guy with no future, let them. You have to be self-assured enough in what you are doing that their comment doesn't faze you. Just smile to yourself, step outside yourself and laugh at why Derek reacts as he does? What it says about the commenter? then let it pass, like water going down a stream. You are not going to stop the flow. If they don't type it down they still are free to think whatever, you cannot control everything. You can control your content, your response, your future actions, and hopefully the real you will shine through all the shade. If you do really good with positivity and positive actions haters won't even be able to hate on you.
Finally, rather than immediately defend against any accusation, take 5 sec and assume they are right. Give them the benefit of the doubt. Consider maybe it is true and you can't see it for yourself. No matter how long you know someone, no matter what you go through together, sometimes you are only as good as the company you keep. Maybe someone encourages the drinking or juvenile behavior, a bad influence on you, but they are fun. Have the maturity to consider, though you don't want to hear it, it is possible.
I'm no lawyer, but you know that wouldn't hold up in court. You releasing an exchange complete with identifying information is in effect serving someone you have a vendetta against to your millions of followers to respond as they please. You are not innocent in this matter, I hope you can recognize when you are dead wrong and not double down, Derek.
don’t waste your time brother. I’ve tried this as well. Pray for them and move on.
dundeerunt
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I am sooo suprised you are all just finding out hes homophobic now, when I came across his profile on youtube circa 2018, thirsty queens were posting to him about his bulge and he would reply "fuck off fag" to them, this was before he did the whole onlyscams thing. Then for some reason he had a change of heart and decided "oh these queens can give me money".. and well the money came. Unfortunately his homophobia never went and alas he is CANCELLED!. So Derek, please do us all a favor, go away, we are over you. Go see if some women will pay for your 'content'.
Oh lord Seth breezy is here! Big size drama queen joined the party
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What the hell are you bumping? More arguing?
Girl no one is reading this
Some people are here defending him hoping he’s gonna be nice to them and give them free subscriptions girl....
some people love being messy, catty, basic bitches, commenting on things around them that do not concern them and misgendering everyone as girl (it's not cute)
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excuse me, someone to explain or summarize what is happening with derek please !!!
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Shut up. You said you’d prove me wrong and I’m still waiting. Where’s the proof?
No one is responsible for the actions of others, especially not online. I do not take responsibility for the responses that my followers sent to that woman. Within hours of that happening I had to release another statement that told them to stop.
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