Difference between "Cuckold" and "Threesome Experience"

[deleted742580]

The subject might look confusing to some of you. And that's exactly my confusion. It goes like this.

I am in a relationship with a guy for a long time. Happy sexually and emotionally and every other way. Jut to spice our sex life, I/we want to add another men to our bed for a threesome ( MFM)

Does that makes us Cuckold couple ?

Why this Question : Please pardon me for my knowledge. But somehow the word Cuckold sounds a bit derogatory to me. I feel Cuckold couples are not satisfied with each other and hence add a Bull for his abiliy to do better. Which is not my case. I just want to enjoy threesome- at least once. We on verge of finalizing a person from CL Forum.

Will appreciate your reply, feedback or anything in general you feel on this. Thanks.

 

[AlteredEgo]

You main dude would be a cuckold if you were cheating on him or deliberately humiliating him.

 

[Alex22876]

Cuckholding is an anti-ego game where the guy and/or girl get off on the fact that the other guy is better (generally bigger but not always) at satisfying the woman. A mfm is just fucking. I always call an mfm competitive fucking. The good ones I have done, we both fucked or interacted with the girl at all times.

I guess a quick rule was with mfm we were both actively doing something with the girl, but with the 3 somes that were more cuckhold style, I was brought in for size and for a significant portion of the time, the guy just sat there and watched me destroy her.

I don't know if that came out as clear as I wanted, but I hope that helps.

 

[deleted742580]

I don't know if that came out as clear as I wanted, but I hope that helps.

I think thats something I wanted to hear. It does help. A lot.

 

[rope9839]

I used to fuck the wife of an executive in my company. She initiated it after he told her he was pretty sure I was well endowed. He would usually sit naked in a chair while she and I did her thing. He was indeed very small and he typically wore a cage during this part. She did not insult him directly, but she was very vocal about what we were doing. When she and I finished she would go over and release the cage. He usually came almost immediately after it was removed. That would seem to be pretty classic bull / cuckold.

If you look at another one where I was at a part where everyone ended up nude in a hot tube. I paired up with a couple and went into a shower area. She initiated things once we were in there. The guy was really drunk and he was the one who noted the size difference. We fooled around together but he soon ran out out of steam and sat down in the corner to watch while he drank a beer. I think of that one as a threesome. Subtle differences in some way, vast differences in the other. I think a lot of if is in the behavior of the woman.

 

[Hefty]

Cuckholding is an anti-ego game where the guy and/or girl get off on the fact that the other guy is better (generally bigger but not always) at satisfying the woman. A mfm is just fucking. I always call an mfm competitive fucking. The good ones I have done, we both fucked or interacted with the girl at all times.

I guess a quick rule was with mfm we were both actively doing something with the girl, but with the 3 somes that were more cuckhold style, I was brought in for size and for a significant portion of the time, the guy just sat there and watched me destroy her.

I don't know if that came out as clear as I wanted, but I hope that helps.

Excellent description. Like you, I've been the bigger part in both types of threesomes. Being brought in to destroy her in front of him is always a big turn-on.

 

[rope9839]

Excellent description. Like you, I've been the bigger part in both types of threesomes. Being brought in to destroy her in front of him is always a big turn-on.

I like the term anti-ego.

The cuckold thing I was in had a couple other quirky things. On more than one occasion he sat in another room with a baby monitor relaying the sounds from the bedroom. Like I said, she was very vocal and put on a show meant solely for him.

I also understand that they would go to bars and they would sit a bit apart at bars. After a few drinks she would show the bartender a pic of his cock and a pic of mine. The guy apparently loved hearing random women dismiss his cock. Hey - you roll with what you've got.

This behavior wouldn't seem any more self defeating than sitting at home as a 35 year old virgin because you are afraid 4 inches in not enough. At least it involved human interaction. I know I enjoyed my role in it. The fact that he was a few levels above me in the organization was my own ego boost. Plus, his wife was a trophy and even though she was probably 15 years older than me, probably outta my league for a lot of reason$.

 

[visorkols]

I would classify cuckold as knowingly being denied pleasure or looking for someone who is bigger. I was at a party once & the husband didnt do anything, he was just in his underwear in the corner while me and a couple other guys fucked his wife. Not sure if he fucked her after I left, there were still 3 guys(- hubby) there when I left so not sure if he got some. I talked to them later on and asked why he didnt join the fun, he told me he gets to fuck her every night so he didnt really miss out on anything that night.

Also met another couple where the guy wanted to see her with me but after I came he would start fucking her. Honestly that couple was the most I had fun with, he bf was bi but he never did anything other than ask if ive ever done anything with a guy. There was no jealously or me being the dom/"bull", she was the center of attention and we all had fun.

Im all for people having fun but there is no need to deny your partner pleasure.

 

[need2bsexy2]

I have been the bull for 4 couples. 2 of the husbands played, 2 of the husbands watched. There was never any degrading of the husbands that didn't play but they just sat there and watched while they sat naked with a towel over their genitals and rubbed themselves.

All of my encounters with them were positive and everybody left happy.

So, in my opinion, if the husband is not degraded verbally or physically then it is not a cuckold situation. Feel free to play, have fun and enjoy without any verbal or physical abuse. You are not going into a cuckold situation! Have fun, and let us know how it turns out.

 

[deleted742580]

So, in my opinion, if the husband is not degraded verbally or physically then it is not a cuckold situation. Feel free to play, have fun and enjoy without any verbal or physical abuse. You are not going into a cuckold situation! Have fun, and let us know how it turns out.

Thanks, your response motivates me to go ahead. At least dont feel the shame thinking and visualizing about it.:smile: