Difficulties keeping it hard

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  1. B_kevin_91

    B_kevin_91 New Member

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    Yo,

    I guess size matters on it how easy it is to keep erection? I certainly didn't have this problem a year ago when I was still bit smaller but now I start getting semifloppy pretty easily without stimulation. It like, stays hard but gets softer. Is there any way to prevent this happening or some kind of physical practices I could do to prevent this getting any worse.

    Also I'm only 18 and I certainly don't think it's a general physical problem because I have never heard of anyone having erection problems at this age :confused: Well it's not that bad yet but I fear I might still keep growing (which I don't want to happen, I would like to be smaller) and that it might make the problem worse.

    I hope someone posts serious answers to this thread because I'm honestly bit worried.
     
  2. D_Jared Padalicki

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    Some exercices should help to make the bloodcirculation better. Maybe using a cockring too? Hope this is what u want. There are others with better answers though.
     
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    Well, Kevin... in my experience, I've noticed that my dick does the same thing without attention. I have come to the thought that most people have the same issue, and only a few can stay rock hard for minutes and hours on end.

    If it starts to go soft.. play with it.
     
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    I had the same problem, I tried a lot of different things from the health stores but now I found that EXTENZE really helps, its all natural and pharmacys sell it for 39.99 but I get it at wal-mart in the vitamin section for way cheaper
     
  5. B_grotelul

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    There can be 2 problems:
    1. Do have the problem when you are with a boy or when you are with a girl. You say you are 50/50. So it is posible that you can't get him hard because you are more gay or more hetro.
    2. I know of my own situation, and i must say mine penis is 1 inch shorter, so i must say, and i have seen on the picture, that you have a verry big cock. I have had always problem to get him quickly hard. This is because the blod had to go to the end of the penis. How longer, how more time it neets.

    So you see that you think it is nice to have an enourmous penis, but men with an avarage penis have the luck.

    Succes in your live with your penis, and i hope verry for you it stops with growing.
     
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    At your age, my problem/solution shouldn't apply, but I was having problem gaining an erection and certainly couldn't maintain it. I ask my doctor about Cialis, which he prescribed, but also took look at my testostrone level as well........it was low. He prescribed replacement theraphy which I've been on for 8 days now and last night I had sex with wife for first time over a year...... Can't wait for the Cialis to see if can get harder for longer.....:)
     
  7. B_Hamadim

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    It could be Stress, It could be the low level of Testosterone, It could be poor Blood Circulation, It could be you are not Eating healthy.

    So you may need to do these things:

    1- Do your best to get rid of stress.
    2- Take a prescription that increases your Testosterone.
    3- Do some Jelqing.
    4- Eat Nutricous and Healthy Foods.
     
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  8. D_Pubert Stabbingpain

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    Your pic looks like you are pretty damn hard! It also appears to look quite normal (although large!).

    If I understand you correctly, you are saying that since you got longer you don't stay hard as long as you use to without stimulation? If so, and not to scare you, but yes, typically men your age will get hard several times each day (and night!) and staying hard is not usually an issue.

    I am concerned that you say you would rather be smaller and you already have some "fear" creeping in. You are correct that both of those could be working psychologically against you but at your age, I doubt it *unless* you are prone to worrying about other issues as well. Typically, these type of "mind games" don't affect an 18 yo cock. I suppose it could but stress affecting sexual performance is not typically a young man's issue.

    You can't do anything about your cock size so it is best to learn to live with what you have (or will have, seeing as yours still seems to be getting bigger but that should stop soon). You can however, change your mind and try to not be so "cock-centered" and immerse yourself in non-sexual things that 18 yo's do, exercise and sports, for example, that will naturally strengthen all areas of your body.

    When you do JO or have sex you can use a cock ring (there are many other discussions here that talk about cock rings) that will keep you hard but don't try to make a marathon session out of it.

    I think that what you are now experiencing will, in time, pass and you will "rise to the occasion" whenever needed. If not, and I hesitate to say this because it can't be easy to describe, you may wish to consult a doctor.

    Best wishes to you Kevin.
    :smile:
     
  9. B_Hamadim

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    I am one of those guys who have to stimulate his penis to get Erect, But I do have Morning wood EVERYDAY.
     
  10. B_kevin_91

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    =/ I guess I just need to keep going and if this turns worse I need to go to doctor. One though I had was that at this size (9 and above) it just gets harder to maintain erection because it requires so much blood but I don't know.
     
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    Hi Kevin, yes, with a bigger cock yopu definitely need more blood, but that can be solved if it is an issue for you, do a google search on "kegels" it is an excersice with some muscles involved in the erection process, donĀ“t do jelquing as InChamad said for it may cause a bigger dick and you metioned you didn't want it that big. How ever jelquing helps with getting better erctions but the secondary effect is bigger cock.

    Good luck, and enjoy your cock, Some of wish we were that big, including me.
     
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