Difficulty Finding Size Queens?

[BeyondHorseHung]

So overall I think that most women do prefer larger. The problem comes when you are truly large. There seems to be a range an average women enjoys and some "big" guys would be on the upper end of that, but for guys that are truly large, the amount of women who seem to really appreciate them seem to be less.

 

[eridim]

The issue with big cocks and some not being able to take them doesn't come from their skill of taking cock but from the guy's skill to put it in. You can't blame the guy either really, he's probably never been fucked by a big cock himself. But even if he has, he can only have been fucked in the ass, and I don't know if the feeling of a big cock in the ass is the same as in the vagina because I don't have a vagina.

However, it is more on the guy knowing how to use a big cock than on the girl knowing how to take it. I'm 20 cm, rather thick, and I've always enjoyed fucking my ex girlfriend and feeling big inside her by hitting a wall or her uterus. Knowing you're getting to the limits inside her is a nice ego boost. But more than limits, it has to do with position and angle. With the right orientation and technique, you wouldn't be hitting anything inside, and that makes the experience all the more enjoyable for her. Feeling filled up and stretched is indeed a nice feeling, but feeling poked and misaligned can be uncomfortable and painful.

Same thing goes for anal. There's plenty of space inside an ass for a big cock to fit in there and be enjoyable, but the moment you start hitting walls it's no longer enjoyable. Trust me, you hit those walls again because of angle and orientation, not because of lack of space, because especially in the ass, there's plenty of it.

This is a very difficult skill to learn, mostly because as a straight guy you don't experience being penetrated in your ass or vagina, so you don't know what to change and how to improve. Feedback is not easy to give when as a girl you yourself don't know how to describe what is wrong, are shy or embarrassed to talk about it, don't have that level of trust with your partner, or just assume this is what sex feels like and think it's normal. These are already too many barriers to provide feedback. But even when a girl gets past all of them and shares feedback, the guy needs to also be able to receive feedback first, and willing to incorporate it second. You can imagine this is a lot of steps that need to happen for someone to improve. With the average number of sexual partners in the Western world being 8 over a lifetime, there aren't that many opportunities for guys with a big dick to improve so they just do what they know.

Looking for a size queen to fix this issue is like thinking more bandaids will make a boy ride a bike better and fall less. They are unrelated. The boy just needs to learn how to ride the bike first.

So we really need a change of mentality and to shift the focus from the girl to the guy. You are responsible for how you use the tools you are given (your cock) and you work with the material you have (your partner). If you only have a very big screwdriver and the bolts are just normal, it doesn't mean you need bigger bolts, you just learn to use the screwdriver carefully because the bolts will screw with either size of a screwdriver.

 

[deleted33454991]

If you're straight and above 8", have you had difficulty finding women who enjoy being penetrated by guys your size? If "difficulty" doesn't quite fit, would you say you frequently run into more women who can't take your cock than ones who can or do you disagree with this viewpoint entirely?

Enjoying is difficult to tell. Women can pretend sometimes not to hurt our feelings. Regardless, the majority of women couldn't take it, including some who thought they could. But in general, when both sides were positive in going on, foreplays would become very important for them to get more relaxed, and then a little less complicated to penetrate.

Anyway, finding size queens around the streets or in places you go, unless the're advertising it on their shirts or with a sign hanging on their necks, is a tough job. We men show bulges when we are equipped with a minigun between our legs, but you can't actually tell if a woman will comport you just by looking at their camel hoofs.

You can always ask them, but probably not a good way to start a conversation with strangers.

 

[deleted31887841]

Of course, part of the problem here is defining "size queen." Is a "size queen" a woman who ONLY likes huge dicks? Or is a "size queen" a woman who prefers a "biggish" dick, but ultimately doesn't care all that much and, in any case, would rather not scour the web for 8+" cocks?

In my experience, I've only found the former online. It's one reason why I frequent sites such as this one. But the latter type is fairly common, IMO. I've never been with a woman who didn't enjoy my size in one way or another. On the other hand, my size has also proven to be a challenge on many occasions, and I think that most women I've been with (maybe just one exception, come to think of it) would have been just as happy if I was a bit smaller (but still bigger than average)?

In one sense, then, I think "size queens" are exceedingly rare. But in the second sense I think they're common and quite possibly even the norm.

 

[Rooker]

Most women don’t care.

Porn makes guys think it.

 

[deleted35216371]

I've found that mainly they like the thought of it more that actually having sex with it.

 

[Waylonn]

Finding size queens is pretty easy nowadays if u ask me. on tinder etc. its full of them

 

[hotcouple_be]

Most women don’t care.

Porn makes guys think it.

they don't care when you're 1/2cm above or under average,
but rest assured they do when you're ridiculously big or small ^^

 

[Rooker]

they don't care when you're 1/2cm above or under average,
but rest assured they do when you're ridiculously big or small ^^

Why would you assume you know enough on the subject to tell me I’m wrong?

 

[hotcouple_be]

Why would you assume you know enough on the subject to tell me I’m wrong?

cause i happen to be quite big, and yet to be with a single woman who didn't care ?
now you might have had different experience, i get that.
but why would you assume it was the same for every other guys ? ^^

 

[DeepSilkPenetrator]

The straight guys I know who identify as having a huge cock (whether I've seen it or a 3rd party has verified it to me through some means or they just claim they do) say that most women aren't size queens in bed, even if they are attracted to the sight of a huge cock and are relatively decent at sucking them. They'd rather opt for an average or slightly above average cock so that discomfort and/or pain becomes less likely.

If you're straight and above 8", have you had difficulty finding women who enjoy being penetrated by guys your size? If "difficulty" doesn't quite fit, would you say you frequently run into more women who can't take your cock than ones who can or do you disagree with this viewpoint entirely?

Mine measures eight inches or so, depending on my weight. No woman has ever complained. They've generally been pretty happy.

 

[angrymongoose2]

they don't care when you're 1/2cm above or under average,
but rest assured they do when you're ridiculously big or small ^^

my experience too, at least there's some amusement at first!

 

[hotcouple_be]

according to a survey, the majority of dildo women buy are 5 to 7".
(which is already above average penis size)

15% go for 10" and up, which is no small number, but it also mean many other go for the 8" and 9" ones.

added together, it's safe to say 25% at the very least like to go for +7" dildo,
which mean 1 women out of 4 could be defined as sizequeens.

again, that's for dildo, and it's safe to say women are more likely to be turned on by the real deal than by a piece of plastic.

i will not try to guess, nor use my personal or even friend's experience as exemple (as it seem to trigger some people), but i will just say sizequeens are defenetly not dificult to find or to make.

girls saying "i prefer just average" is far more likely to say it just to spare a guy's feelings than anything else, and just as if not more likely to say the complete opposite whenever they find themselve an actual big one.

 

[Rooker]

I’ve had more women wish I was smaller than be what I consider size queens.

The overwhelming number of dildos sold in the average range is very strong evidence that they don’t really care.

An overwhelming number of women would rather be with a Hemsworth than a porn star.

 

[COMountainGuy]

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Finding size queens is pretty easy nowadays if u ask me. on tinder etc. its full of them

Checked into Tinder thinking it would be fun to see women advertising for a real schlong. Found nothing.

I’m older and thinking older woman are rarely going to advertise that preference. Seems like something an 18-26 year old would be prone to doing.

I used to date a lot. There are a lot of women who prefer big. But guys tend to think of 8” or more and that is just extremely, extremely rare outside of porn.

I seen a study that found that 6.2” is the most desireable size. That is Top 10% as memory serves.

Women usually look at 6” and think that is a big dick.
Men need to see more like 7.5” to call it a big dick.

But things have likely changed of late. There is tons of bbc porn on the internet now. And a LOT of young women are viewing and eating that up. So a recent pole of very young ladies might find many secretly yearning for a real schlong.

I’ve probably talked to a hundred women who think big dicks are “exciting”. But I also attract those women because I have “all the signs”. Big nose, really huge feet and hands, big bulge when sitting.

 

[Waylonn]

Man I really can tell ya all, tomorrw I fly to Cartagena Colombia for a week to visit 2 of my kids. And after that to visit family in Jamaica for a week. Installed Tinder yesterday and this morning already an explosion of matches with hot (big ass) Colombian/Jamaican girls looking fot the (bbc)size

 

[eltoro45]

Man I really can tell ya all, tomorrw I fly to Cartagena Colombia for a week to visit 2 of my kids. And after that to visit family in Jamaica for a week. Installed Tinder yesterday and this morning already an explosion of matches with hot (big ass) Colombian/Jamaican girls looking fot the (bbc)size

I can confirm Colombianas like them big.

 

[cofrader]

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Now seriously here we have a few who like larger ones but that doesn't change the fact they are woman, so no matter how big his junk is he must be successful on any challenge she propose. Blink incorrectly and you won't be able to show her anything

 

[Oldcowboy]

It’s very rare. Most women aren’t built for 7 inches length 6 inches girth. Only one women I have been with was a legit size queen. She can be pounded at any speed and roughness, she needed big cock gangbang with big cock. She was definitely an outlier.

I worked oilpatch with a lady —-6’2”—-195#——very strong, very buff, and very professional.
Always coveralls, lotsa loose close—-one of the guys —never any sexual innuendo—-hi energy /help anybody—-

Went to an industry shindig _—3 day deal—@ Lake Louise—-and—-WOW!—-she was in a dress diamonds, heels—-hair down—-she always wore it twisted up m under hard hat—-just WOW!

We talked a long time—-then danced——then she pulled back——made her goodbyes——and left for her room—-

I hung out for a while—-then went for a walk—-then tried to sleep—-couldnt—-hit the workout room, burn off some energy—-

Only one person there—-doing the same thing—-and—WOW! Again—-her hair in ponytail, tight yoga pants and most prominent mons pubis and camel toe ive ever seen——and it was seeping——wet spot—-

I wouldn’t say she was a ‘size queen’—-I would say she was very very happy to meet somebody—actually, get to know somebody she already knew—-who she ‘matched up’ with—-

 

[halcyondays]

Word got out from day one turning 18. And they find me.