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Bottomed for my big dicked bf for about a year, always fine from the beginning...was amazing...never thought I would like it. Now for 9 months, ever since I had a sudden bleeding problem from sex i can't enjoy it at all anymore when he tries to penetrate me...always painful tho it still makes me cum right away from excitement.

I'm quite sure by now I am at least healed cuz we tried again quite infrequently...but now our sex life is quite dull and makes me feel inadequate. And when ever I watch vids they always go at it like nothing with seemingly little amounts of lube too...I don't get it at all.

Is this common...and why me?

PLEASE HELP!!!

-j
 
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It could be hemoroids. They can bleed. It's kind of like a blister on the vein that gets puffy and can bleed. Either have a look yourself of ask your doctor. In fact, if there is blood you should ask your doctor.
 

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I agree that you should get a doctor to take a look at you ... could be hemroids, polyps, or something else. But only a doctor can for sure tell you ... and b/c you have been having sex for a year and this is recent bleeding, you need to go...

On the issue of the porn... Porn is a lie~
Makes everything looke easy, clean, sexy and fun...
Never need lube
Condoms? nah....

HAHAHHAHAH~~ porn is a lie (but it is fun to watch!!!)

Good luck... now... get to a doc... do not pass GO and do not collect $200~ :tongue:

report back ~~

FP
 

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As this is a change from normal you really should get it checked out by a medic.

If you're uncomfortable about discussing the sexual aspect, just tell them you've noticed blood when you're wiping.
 

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Don't just tell them there's blood from wiping- your doctor can't give you an accurate diagnosis if you don't give him/her all the relevant information. If you don't feel comfortable enough with your doctor to tell them you like big dick up your ass, then get a doctor that you are comfortable with. Regardless, you should definitely see a doctor about your issue.
 

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Don't just tell them there's blood from wiping- your doctor can't give you an accurate diagnosis if you don't give him/her all the relevant information. If you don't feel comfortable enough with your doctor to tell them you like big dick up your ass, then get a doctor that you are comfortable with. Regardless, you should definitely see a doctor about your issue.



^ Agree!! He is your doctor.... he really does not care what your sexual preference is. But knowing will def help him be able to give you better treatment~!
 

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Don't just tell them there's blood from wiping- your doctor can't give you an accurate diagnosis if you don't give him/her all the relevant information. If you don't feel comfortable enough with your doctor to tell them you like big dick up your ass, then get a doctor that you are comfortable with. Regardless, you should definitely see a doctor about your issue.
You need a doctor like mine. I was feeling a bit mopey when I went to him for an exam, and his parting advice was to "Go out and get fucked"!!
 

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You need a doctor like mine. I was feeling a bit mopey when I went to him for an exam, and his parting advice was to "Go out and get fucked"!!

I know a way better doctor. A patient complained he was mopey, and she sucked his dick. He then proceeded to fuck her in the ass without a condom or any lube or warmup.
It's all true! Porn is Russian for 'documentary', right?
 

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Caca :-/
Idk how to go about that. Plus my bf is a doctor and has hardly indicated a need to do so.....tho he can't really play a role for me medically and ethically...either way he's not any help
 

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Just go to a doctor and let them know you are bleeding from the rectum and it could possibly be from sex. They will know what to look for.
 

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A colonoscopy is no fun but it is one way of finding if the bleeding is from something that may be the prelude or may actually incicate a cancer and that is nothing to fool with. Such cancers have to be nipped in the bud so time is impoortant.] get going on it.IOn myu case , I parted with a foot of my large intestine, but I have been free of that cancer since l984