Dildo, how to use
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when it hurts her... stop
clearly, 6 inches is about the depth of her vagina
she might not enjoy fornix stimulation, it's painful to some women
sounds like you and your 5.5 inches is the perfect size for her
dudes, the vagina does have an end, you just can't keep shoving yards of dildo up there
not every woman is looking for a huge cock
stop watching porn
clearly, 6 inches is about the depth of her vagina
she might not enjoy fornix stimulation, it's painful to some women
sounds like you and your 5.5 inches is the perfect size for her
dudes, the vagina does have an end, you just can't keep shoving yards of dildo up there
not every woman is looking for a huge cock
stop watching porn
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I need more information as to where exactly the pain is and under what specific situation it occurs. You could be being too rough, not warming her up enough, going too deep too soon, going too deep in general. Or maybe it's even too thick for her. I don't know. All women's vaginas are different, just like penises.
Listen to her about what does and doesn't feel good and don't push things if she's in pain and isn't enjoying it. That's not your call to make.
Listen to her about what does and doesn't feel good and don't push things if she's in pain and isn't enjoying it. That's not your call to make.
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How do you actually know you're not being too rough? I've been with guys who have no clue, even when I told them it hurts.
Saying the dildo isn't thick is irrelevant. Is it not thick for you or her?
As ML said, sounds like 6 inches is the limit. Deal with it.
because her vagina likes 6 inches or less
*blink*
anatomy class... the vagina is only so long
assuming you are running the dildo along the bottom wall
the vaginal barrel will terminate in the posterior fornix
for some women pressure or grinding is very pleasurable
if you are using the upper wall of the vagina to guide you-you might be hitting the anterior fornix
located just in front of the cervix and between the g-spot
some women find it stimulating, someone with a lower cervix might experience discomfort
also, girth is not an issue for depth discomfort
the issue is the dildo you are using is too long
and generally, dildos are too stiff to accurately replicate the male member
the penis actually conforms to fit the natural curve of the vagina
a dildo won't... so straight in is not a natural angle of penetration
what are you hoping to achieve with a larger dildo?
is the length something she wants to work past?
or is this some huge dick fantasy play?
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What should you do? Don't put more than 6" in, maybe? 
If this is something that she wants to try - and not just you - I can't understand why she wouldn't just experiment with it herself, rather than you asking a bunch of strange women? I can't really imagine asking a bunch of strangers how much length I can take... it's my vagina, I'd find out myself.
If this is something that she wants to try - and not just you - I can't understand why she wouldn't just experiment with it herself, rather than you asking a bunch of strange women? I can't really imagine asking a bunch of strangers how much length I can take... it's my vagina, I'd find out myself.
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I just re-read the original post, I thought any dildo was causing the pain (which is why I recommended using lube)
The answer seems straightforward: 6" is her limit.
Why not be happy that her limit is almost exactly your size?
The answer seems straightforward: 6" is her limit.
Why not be happy that her limit is almost exactly your size?
I just re-read the original post, I thought any dildo was causing the pain (which is why I recommended using lube)
The answer seems straightforward: 6" is her limit.
Why not be happy that her limit is almost exactly your size?
Because with dildo she doesn't feel anything, just pain around 6inches..have you girls ever use dildo, and how you reach orgasm with him?
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There are like a million kinds of dildos
Some that I've tried were too hard and veiny, or too "sticky" and caused too much friction. It's hard enough for me to pick out a dildo I like, much less advise you on what kind to pick out for your girlfriend.
Your first step should be to get her very aroused first, don't just rush at her and start stabbing her with an 8" dildo
Try using lube, also try just letting her use it how she likes (you may be surprised to see that she doesn't insert it at all).
Some that I've tried were too hard and veiny, or too "sticky" and caused too much friction. It's hard enough for me to pick out a dildo I like, much less advise you on what kind to pick out for your girlfriend.
Your first step should be to get her very aroused first, don't just rush at her and start stabbing her with an 8" dildo
Try using lube, also try just letting her use it how she likes (you may be surprised to see that she doesn't insert it at all).
I understand you, thank you so much...but, I am gentle, I go slow with dildo at first, but she does not feel anything, when I go deeper, she was in pain, so it's a problem...There are like a million kinds of dildos
Some that I've tried were too hard and veiny, or too "sticky" and caused too much friction. It's hard enough for me to pick out a dildo I like, much less advise you on what kind to pick out for your girlfriend.
Your first step should be to get her very aroused first, don't just rush at her and start stabbing her with an 8" dildo
Try using lube, also try just letting her use it how she likes (you may be surprised to see that she doesn't insert it at all).
It's like some fools think we have no innards and we're just filled with warm jello or something, maybe apple pie filling?
Not the case guys, we're human people with physical limits just like you god damnit!
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I will add that the angle could be wrong for her. The time of month could make a difference. Let her use it herself, and if she likes it the way she does it, the problem is your technique. If she doesn't even like using it herself, it's the toy.
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For fucks sake, stop it. It hurts. Stop!
I can only handle about 6 inches long with a regular penis and hardly more than 3 inches with an object.
Respect her body and stop hurting her. I don't care if you are being gentle. She says it hurts. If you keep doing this to her I'd consider you abusive.
I can only handle about 6 inches long with a regular penis and hardly more than 3 inches with an object.
Respect her body and stop hurting her. I don't care if you are being gentle. She says it hurts. If you keep doing this to her I'd consider you abusive.
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my innards are made of pecan pie filling
you're just looking for stories about women fucking themselves with dildos
*sigh*
It's like some fools think we have no innards and we're just filled with warm jello or something, maybe apple pie filling?
Not the case guys, we're human people with physical limits just like you god damnit!
my innards are made of pecan pie filling
you're just looking for stories about women fucking themselves with dildos
*sigh*
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I did. The advice was, first, see if it is even useable by letting her try it first. If you can't even follow that one instruction, or she doesn't want to use it on herself, why should I elaborate?
