Do all bottoms do enemas?
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I have a bulb kit, but by paying attention to my body when it comes to anal preparedness, I've not really needed to use it.
There's really a lot of focus on anal sex among us males, and it's really not "the end all and be all."
There's really a lot of focus on anal sex among us males, and it's really not "the end all and be all."
?! I think you don’t understand the differences between douching and and just keeping a clean ass. I obviously shower before sex to make sure evrything is clean, but I don’t douche.
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Many variables at play here. It depends how ‘regular’ you are, and if there are any factors that throw that off like diet or activity variations, medications, food tolerances, etc. I have sub bottom friend who claims to be like clockwork and never needs to enema despite having multiple partners per week.
It also depends if the top minds or not. I started using a bulb enema after having numerous ‘I’m not prepared to bottom’ conversations in spontaneous or short notice sex situations. Although some top guys don’t mind, I missed out bottoming for some big cocks along the way. For the past decade or so, I carry a little toiletry kit in my bag with a bulb enema and some lube packs, so I can quickly ‘freshen up’ on the go if needed. I wish I had done that long before. ;-). Agree with Dutchstud about being clean even if planning to be the top. It just allows you to focus on the fun at hand with fewer things to worry about. Also agree about deep clean outs as well for long sessions or deep play.
It also depends if the top minds or not. I started using a bulb enema after having numerous ‘I’m not prepared to bottom’ conversations in spontaneous or short notice sex situations. Although some top guys don’t mind, I missed out bottoming for some big cocks along the way. For the past decade or so, I carry a little toiletry kit in my bag with a bulb enema and some lube packs, so I can quickly ‘freshen up’ on the go if needed. I wish I had done that long before. ;-). Agree with Dutchstud about being clean even if planning to be the top. It just allows you to focus on the fun at hand with fewer things to worry about. Also agree about deep clean outs as well for long sessions or deep play.
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Yes I have misunderstood. My excuses. A shower is in Dutch "douche" (a French word). But now I see a shower and a douche are not the same in English.
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I think that you should stop posting a link to your thread on everyone else's thread, its improper forum etiquette
I'm glad I'm not alone one this topic.
Since in the past I've had some accidents - I always have anxiety about being clean. I found a great article that really helped me... I can't seem to find it BUT it basically says what everyone has been saying on here.
Don't over due it and I would say only do a deep clean when absolutely needed. Fiber is key and be sure if you take supplements - first talk to your doc, second get ones that are for daily use and won't cause bloating. I've been wanting to try the Pure brand.
Also be aware that douching thins the lining in the colon, so transmission of HIV is higher. No judgement though to bare riders, just wanted to put that out there. If that Anon guy is pressuring you to douche just be aware. Also the bacteria in there is good for you, don't overdue it or you'll throw off your balance. I would say stay away from spicy food and red meats before bottoming. Diet is my new answer to my anixety of being clean. Don't starve yourself either - if the top is that selfish move on. I also explained to my partner (that is usually the top) bottoming is on my terms and if I can't I'll tell him. It makes the play more open and expectations aren't ruined for either of us. That's been the best thing I've done apart from diet. Also finding the right lube - which seems like an endless journey helps tremendously!
I would say don't feel pressured to do it but figure out what works for you. Everyone is different.
Since in the past I've had some accidents - I always have anxiety about being clean. I found a great article that really helped me... I can't seem to find it BUT it basically says what everyone has been saying on here.
Don't over due it and I would say only do a deep clean when absolutely needed. Fiber is key and be sure if you take supplements - first talk to your doc, second get ones that are for daily use and won't cause bloating. I've been wanting to try the Pure brand.
Also be aware that douching thins the lining in the colon, so transmission of HIV is higher. No judgement though to bare riders, just wanted to put that out there. If that Anon guy is pressuring you to douche just be aware. Also the bacteria in there is good for you, don't overdue it or you'll throw off your balance. I would say stay away from spicy food and red meats before bottoming. Diet is my new answer to my anixety of being clean. Don't starve yourself either - if the top is that selfish move on. I also explained to my partner (that is usually the top) bottoming is on my terms and if I can't I'll tell him. It makes the play more open and expectations aren't ruined for either of us. That's been the best thing I've done apart from diet. Also finding the right lube - which seems like an endless journey helps tremendously!
I would say don't feel pressured to do it but figure out what works for you. Everyone is different.
deine_huendin
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after the enema.: does anyone have experience with lubing inside ?
I usually use a toy (butt plug) to open me up a bit. The lube left over from that preps me. I usually do it after I douche (but rarely do douche) and after my hole has calmed down from being cleaned. I want to look into getting lube injecters - it seems to make a lot of sense.
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No, all bottoms don't use enemas. I have heard horror stories about this even though thankfully I have not experienced a horror story without an enema. Personally, I won't do anal without an enema. Why pack fudge if you don't have to? Clean ass is to me like a clean pussy, which I had many times before having sex with men. If you don't lube inside you're only asking for terrible, painful anal sex. Don't ruin a great anal experience by not lubing internally. Best anal lube is KY Liquibeads. They're lubricating suppositories made for women, I think, and available at most drug stores. Clean out good, slip one in a little ways, (they begin melting right away) and don't forget to lube the outside and your powerful sphincter muscle just inside with your finger.
Makes for a HOT anal session. There is nothing better than a hot anal session with your bud that is pain free and one you can give him all the tight hole he wants. I had an experience like this with my new boyfriend lately and it was the finest. When he and I met we fell for each other right away, were tested, found HIV negative and of course I've had the distinct pleasure of being made his (seeded) several times. The thing I look forward to most when I see him is him seeding me again.
Please don't play bare though, unless you and your guy have been tested and are clean.
Makes for a HOT anal session. There is nothing better than a hot anal session with your bud that is pain free and one you can give him all the tight hole he wants. I had an experience like this with my new boyfriend lately and it was the finest. When he and I met we fell for each other right away, were tested, found HIV negative and of course I've had the distinct pleasure of being made his (seeded) several times. The thing I look forward to most when I see him is him seeding me again.
Please don't play bare though, unless you and your guy have been tested and are clean.
Hmmm...I guess if you’re going for “reasonably clean”. But when doctors take a stool sample they basically just swab your asshole(at least thts how I’ve had it done) and that was after I showered and I always clean up in there. So to me there’s enough fecal matter to do tests with, even from a “clean” anus. If you’re using a condom I guess that’s a little more hygienic, but if I’m eating an ass and fucking(even with a condom) I’d prefer a little more than “reasonably clean” lol Of course if you’re fucking me I’d make sure to be super clean too.
if i am going to play with my big toys and ride a fist then the deep clean is a paramount idea. If i am going to the bath house for a quick fuck or picking up a date just a squirt to clean the rectum because the reality of a 10" cock is very small and if he ever showed up then he is coming home with me and we will get real clean then!
- anlo,
I believe that in case of constipation it is necessary a cleaning ... but if you have a regular emptying of the vein, insist with showers of water in the colon, as well as causing a decrease in bacterial flora, especially if you do not use sterile water, bacteria that are always present in running water, with the result of causing a decompensation to the delicate balance of an organ charged with defending us from viral aggression, as well as losing the natural gastric colic reflex.
