Do gay guys actually have sex in public at gay bars?

[timbuktu]

And I don't mean in the bathroom (straights do that) and I don't mean bathhouses.

My buddy told me that he sees perfectly normal gay guys having oral, anal, you-name-it in gay bars on the reg. That shocked me and I wasn't sure if it was just the bars he frequents or if that's actually a normal occurrence.


Is it true? Is it that standard?

 

[Jake4fun3]

First time ever giving a BJ was at a local gay bar. Was nervous going in not really knowing what to expect. Bar was totally empty. Was about 3:am and just me and bartender. We talked a bit. Told him I was curious about things. He asked me if I wanted to see his cock. Was literally shaking when I finally admitted to him and myself that, yes, I did. He came around the bar and locked front door and I instinctively got on my knees and opened the zipper on his jeans and held his cock in my hand. He was semi-hard and felt it get harder as I held it. I took the plunge and put the hard, beautiful cock in my mouth and it felt totally natural. It was fucking amazing. Good memories.

 

[slurper_la]

There are SOME limited bars where "open" sex takes place but they're usually dark, large places with areas of shadow. It's not as though guys are fucking under the spot lights or on the bar top.
Usually the leather type bar is more conducive to this but truly far and few between.
And BTW there are similar straight bars, so don't judge, ok

 

[GoDeeper]

I have had so much sex at one of the sleazier bars here. Literally got my cock sucked at the bar, got fucked in the middle of the bar bareback and barebacked the go go boy in the middle of the dance floor on his platform then sucked his huge cock by the bar.

 

[orsumass]

It does seem to be common in eastern western n southern European bars n clubs ( or mayb I was there at the rite time/place) I got fucked a few times on the dance floor n once @ the bar to say nothin about what was goin on in the darker places ! It does seem very rare in the UK n US ! But it could just be me as I luv cock n will take any/all cocks n loads any/where/time/how

 

[Misterguy5]

Nothing hotter than letting a complete stranger feel toward your crotch, feel down into you pants, pull out your cock and put it in his mouth... all while having no idea what he looks like cuz it’s pitch black.

 

[MuscledHorse]

yes it does. I've had sex in many bars. Guys are horndogs and we'll play any place we can.

 

[mikemikenj]

I have had so much sex at The Cock & The Eagle here. Literally got several blowjobs at the bar, fucked in the middle of the bar bareback, got serviced by gogo boys in plain view, and in the bathrooms had bareback fun as well where there's like a non-stop orgy, and let me not even get started about the basement.....

 

[Big_Dick_Bottom]

......well I'm gay, I've witnessed sex in bars (and lots of places) and when I was lucky enough, I actually got to partake as well. So, yes, it's true that consenting gay adults have sex in bars.

So I have a question for you. Is it true that male executives have little secret door-locking buttons hidden under their desks in their office where they demand blowjobs from their female subordinates whom careers could be ruined if they don't go along?

So look, I don't think you've chosen the correct object of your disgust.

Having sex in a bar is vulgar, uncooth, disgusting, etc... However, you're assigning those traits are associated with being gay, and that's where your mistaken. Just leave the gayness out of it. MEN are disgusting pigs, and if more women would let them, they'd be having raunchy sex too...so please be careful about attributing traits and behaviors to certain segments of populations before thinking it true. So, what I'm asking is: you feel the need to objectify whole groups of people, just be sure to get the object of your objectivatations correct....

 

[swood09]

I got a blowjob in full view at the Eagle in NYC last night.

 

[OhioJock]

I live in Columbus, OH and there was a bar here called Exile. It closed a few years ago, but, before it did it was a great place to go to get a handjob or blowjob. You'd either find action in the men's room or out back on the patio around the fence. Before they had remodeled Sunday nights were the best because they had strippers. I got several blowjobs each night there back then. Just go over by the pool tables, pull out your cock and somebody would be on his knees within seconds sucking cock.

 

[WRJcock]

I was in Atlantic City a couple of weeks ago and met a sweet guy who was attending the same conference I was. We both were traveling with co-workers so it was impossible to go back to either place. After making out at the bar for a while, a bartender, noticing that we were pretty hot at it, suggested that we take a tour of the upstairs dance floors which weren't open yet. Needless to say, it was in the public and very comfortable on the floor...

 

[StuJr]

I've only seen this once in the patio area of a bar in Palm Springs. A guy was getting a blowjob.

I once attended an "Underwear Party" up in San Francisco. It was a circuit party in a rented space. There was an area upstairs that was sectioned off so it was really dark. There was all kinds of sex going on up there. I even found myself a young cute guy who let me fuck him while other guys watched. His trunks and my briefs were down at our ankles as we were going at it. I didn't cum, but it was hot. I masturbated to that memory several times after that.

 

[364368]

Sex in public is hot i haven’t had sex at a bar but I was naked n hard on a big contest at a bar. I actually won that contest. I would love to be fucked in front of others some day

 

[RedScrotum]

I had a girl give me head in a gay bar one time, right next to the pool table.

 

[chadexx]

There are certain gay bars in London where it all happens...

 

[talkthetalk]

I went to an "underwear party" at a gay bar - if you stripped down to your underwear, the bar would sell you drinks for cheap. At one point I wandered into this "back room" and everyone had their cocks out. My initial reaction was like, "What the fuck?" -- it felt like the guys in there pounced on any fresh meat in the room. I quickly went back out to main bar area, where I chatted up a guy with whom I quickly started making out. He wanted to take things further, so we headed into the bathroom. He sucked my cock for a bit, but soon the bartender was banging on the door, telling us we had to get out. I couldn't blame him. And when we got out, the bartender wasn't waiting for us or anything, and we weren't thrown out or anything like that. We just returned to making out in a dark corner, rocking major hard-ons, haha.
A friend of mine literally had a threesome in the dark part of a NYC gay bar on New Year's Eve. So, like you said, timbuktu, it happens, but it's definitely not commonplace. I don't see it on a normal, casual night.

 

[tncentaur]

I saw Trump giving it to Ivanka on the escalator of Trump Tower; his wife, Malaria, watched and yelled 'Win, Donald, win!' to help him get to the finish line. Malaria herself was getting it from behind by Nacho Vidal. Donald's security chief, Ben Kornholt, was visibly not very happy. New York City is so exciting--and I have polaroids!

 

[Nudistpig]

And I don't mean in the bathroom (straights do that) and I don't mean bathhouses.

My buddy told me that he sees perfectly normal gay guys having oral, anal, you-name-it in gay bars on the reg. That shocked me and I wasn't sure if it was just the bars he frequents or if that's actually a normal occurrence.


Is it true? Is it that standard?

This depends on many things. But first, let's be clear. Straight people fuck everywhere including clubs and including gay clubs. I have seen it. So what's shocking to you is sex in bars, not gay sex in bars, you probably just aren't the type to screw in a bar regardless. Gay bars are havens from a world that still kills us with impunity for having sex period most places in the world including the U.S. and Canada.

The traditional cruising bar was a safer space for us to meet, hook up, stay there or go home but that forced no one into dangerous choices. The sex we were having there and still do in some cases is illegal. Always has been. Toronto struck down bawdy house laws 10 years ago making it legal for the first time.

So why the big deal? Well, cruising is part of our culture just like drinking at prom and making poor life decisions or any of the liquored up social rituals of sex and dating hetero culture enjoys. Online has not replaced it well or even partiality well. It's not just sex. It's a whole social ritual that established and kept norms.

Most cruising bars in NA are closed, the gay villages that surrounded them collapsing under rising rents and out of control development. Europe is a different kettle of fish all around. They have little of the Puritanism that infects the soul of America still. It is part of human celebration of life that sex is a ritual in for all humans pre Christian. I believe it keeps us alive.

 

[Auggiecakes]

And I don't mean in the bathroom (straights do that) and I don't mean bathhouses.

My buddy told me that he sees perfectly normal gay guys having oral, anal, you-name-it in gay bars on the reg. That shocked me and I wasn't sure if it was just the bars he frequents or if that's actually a normal occurrence.


Is it true? Is it that standard?

Go to “the cock” in Manhattan. Pay your 25.00 cover charge and go straight downstairs. Wear boots.