Do lesbians hate men?

[deleted924715]

Men? No.
You? It would seem so.

 

[LaFemme]

The simple fact that this started with "they make no attempt to hide that they are lesbian" says it all... I make no attempt to hide that I'm a woman, yet no one feels the need to point that out!

Kotch! Is it you?! Really truly you?! Happy happy joy joy!

 

[MickeyLee]

Kotch! Is it you?! Really truly you?! Happy happy joy joy!

i won't believe it until the avatar bounces

 

[Kotchanski]

i won't believe it until the avatar bounces

I think they stopped moving ones... It still bounces in my album!

 

[MickeyLee]

bo-hiss on stagnate avatars
yippy! on bouncing albums!
*BOING boing BOING*

is good to see you stomping the boards, Ms. Kotch

 

[EllieP]

There is a wonderful family in our neighborhood with two moms. Now I'm wondering why they don't hide the fact that both of them are women, like the OP thinks they should. One of my project managers is a married gay man, and his husband looks just like a man. I mean you can even tell! They don't even try to hide it either! What is wrong with people?

I'm a 100% hetero woman, and I've been to his house too many times to count. He doesn't hate me, at least not all the time. Sometimes I make him stay late, and at those times I don't think I'm his favorite person.

My husband has been at the women's home a few times, and I've yet to hear them snarl at them. And now that I'm thinking about it I'm rather pissed off! I think I'm a decent looking woman, and neither of them have ever made a pass at me. It's almost as if they think their vows are real.

I'm being horribly sarcastic because your impressions of these people are based solely on their sexual orientation. What kind of history exists between you? How about the guy in accounting who won't give you the time of day? Is he gay? Divorced? Married? Catholic?

You're either giving off vibes or some past action has made them write you off.

 

[gemalias]

Ok so I'm bisexual leaning heavily towards women, I only have romantic relationships with women..people know me to be a lesbian, but technically I'm bi. The thing with lesbians is that they have zero reason to pander to men as *some* men kind of expect. In short, lesbians just dont pay attention to men, they don't compete for their affection. We don't hate you, most lesbians have a lot of male friends straight and gay, we couldn't actually be more male friendly. The only thing we can't be bothered with is people treating us like a commodity for the male sexual gaze or people not respecting our wishes such as no, you can not convert us. Other than that we're all good. I suspect some men dislike lesbians because we're not available to them and I think that comes down to misogyny rather than homophobia.

 

[sodominsane]

I don't know poster at all...I do quite a bit of lurking here....and if AI says he's a bigot he probably is.....she is correct alot....and even when I disagree I have noticed she rarely..."talks out of her ass"....

that being said I hear alot about men hating lesbians.....in my life I haven't really encountered that....i live in the "gay" district in my city...so my day to day life puts me in encounters with a bunch of lesbians.....one is a best pal of mine (the kind of pal that ya call each other when ya gotta move housebtype pal...tight)....two are pretty good aqantances (share a drink on a sat if I see them out on the patio)....a workmate I suspect is a lesbian....but since we don't talk about sex and our love lives....cause well...we are work mates.....so I am not sure if she is gay....we get along fine

and one lesbian friend I actually has a sexual encounter with ...so pretty sure she doesn't hate men

could be your confusing indiference to your gender with hate...

maybe she thinks your an ass...nobody is liked by all

I'm sure there is a contingent of man hating lesbians....but there are haters in every group

but by and large that's not been my experience

 

[sodominsane]

Ok so I'm bisexual leaning heavily towards women, I only have romantic relationships with women..people know me to be a lesbian, but technically I'm bi. The thing with lesbians is that they have zero reason to pander to men as *some* men kind of expect. In short, lesbians just dont pay attention to men, they don't compete for their affection. We don't hate you, most lesbians have a lot of male friends straight and gay, we couldn't actually be more male friendly. The only thing we can't be bothered with is people treating us like a commodity for the male sexual gaze or people not respecting our wishes such as no, you can not convert us. Other than that we're all good. I suspect some men dislike lesbians because we're not available to them and I think that comes down to misogyny rather than homophobia.

was typing my reply when you posted this....but this was what I was trying to convey...by indiffence

 

[Scarletbegonia]

Sodaminsane, you are male?

Do you see what forum you are posting in?