Do women think you are looking at their chest when talking to them ?

[RyanMars]

I feel like most women are hyper aware of mens eyes when talking.

So I dont know why but when a girl is wearing a low cut top, sometimes my eye will accidently focus on her chest. This will lead to her adjusting her top or blouse. It makes me feel so self conscious afterwards about where my eyes land. I hate it. I hate looking at ppls eyes too, so all I am thinking is I hope she doesnt think I am staring at her chest like a creep.

What is your experience with women on this topic ? Curious to hear your experiences.

 

[Sagittarius84]

Luckily when you are taller than average, everything makes you look down. I try not to stare or ogle, but I'm privileged enough that any glance is going to appear innocent.

 

[longstroke7]

I will look/glance, because i can't help it. Breasts attract the eye. But what i don't do is stare. That's when you're just being a creep.

 

[Shepardson]

Once I realize there's too much boob showing or they're exceptionally large, I try my best not to look at all, but sadly, there are people out there who will even take offense to that.

I'll never forget once when I was younger, I was working a sort of busboy job at a ritzy local theatre. I got stuck in the elevator with a short, older rich lady. I'm standing there looking straight ahead toward the door and the woman says "Eyes seem to be wandering don't they young man?". The lady had big Weezy Jefferson boobs, which I had not noticed one bit until she confusingly accused me of something. Still don't know what the point was, but it was sort of scary, like she might be thinking about getting me fired just for sport or something.

Take Care

PS- Like you, I'm bad about the eye contact thing too as I don't like it directed at me either. Seems too pushy and assertive. I prefer to let people have their own space. Sadly, some people think you're a freak or guilty of something if you don't stare right into their eye when you talk to them, so I try to balance it out, but you just can't win with some.

 

[elklindoxxx]

No...I don't look at a woman's breasts when I talk to them. I like to make eye contact with women. From my experience, eye contact is the main way women flirt with men. It's a dead giveaway. So if you are staring at her tits then you are probably going to turn her off. And you are going to miss what is important.

 

[techpump]

I try not to look, but if they are putting it out there, I catch glimpses. They probably think I am anyway!

 

[Nick Briggs]

100% women notice the glances at their chests...

If they're voluptuous and chesty, they know it's happening. Even if they're not chesty and are fully covered... we're guys... we look at it allll. Faces, hair, eyes, titties, fitness zones, and the booty. We oogle the sexy. And they know it whether they like it or not.

If they're wearing low cut tops, they know exactly what they're doing / causing. It's not victim blaming if a women wants to scream so with my next comment... they know the clothes they're wearing and they know the effect it has on both men and even on other women. Don't show it off if you don't want men admiring your magic. "I do it for me..." doesn't fly anymore. And yes we get it... you do it for the men you're "trying" to attract and not "ALL men"... But... sucks to be you i guess when allllll the men are checking out your sexyness and not JUST some magical barrier only allowing those you WANT looking, to be looking.

Just be a gentleman about it, admire those amazing titties, and don't be an overt pervert about it.

Unless you ARE the man she's sending those vibes to... be a man... and

 

[deleted817718]

Women always think this about me, no matter if they are old or young, fat or thin, tall or short they are always thinking that I am looking at there boobs. And they are not wrong!

 

[RyanMars]

Women always think this about me, no matter if they are old or young, fat or thin, tall or short they are always thinking that I am looking at there boobs. And they are not wrong!

are you tall ?

 

[deleted817718]

are you tall ?

Nope

 

[1randombeauty]

I am looking at their boobs. As much as I can. Just being honest.

 

[Gomez02]

I tend not to look and be respectful but sometimes i can’t help it and I can’t stop looking. When girls were really thin or revealing type of clothes, it’s like they want me to look honestly and when I look, I get horny and since I’m nearly always freeballing in shorts, it is hard to not be hard and and so most times as well, I catch girls looking at my bulge and when I see them looking, I give them a little wiggle

 

[figgnewton]

Woman can't have it both ways. Some woman dress normal and try not to be a show off but others do want to be noticed especially wearing spandex showing off there camel toe. Most times I look at peoples eyes when we talk but hell it's only natural for ones eyes to wonder but not stare. I don't know what women think if you do glance at there attributes but the woman I know I don't need to stare at there tits since I already am accustomed to there body. I'm only Human and will glance but not stare but if I see a nice ass I will turn around and get a nice eye full for as long as I can. Some woman will look back to see if I'm looking so only tells me they want me to look. Lastly, if they don't want the stares, looks, glances then don't try to be sexy when grocery shopping etc. . It's like the are fishing, get all baited up to see if they get a nibble. I look but try to be discreet. I'm not dead just a natural born male and part of the Ying and Yang of life.

 

[20250001]

100% women notice the glances at their chests...

If they're voluptuous and chesty, they know it's happening. Even if they're not chesty and are fully covered... we're guys... we look at it allll. Faces, hair, eyes, titties, fitness zones, and the booty. We oogle the sexy. And they know it whether they like it or not.

If they're wearing low cut tops, they know exactly what they're doing / causing. It's not victim blaming if a women wants to scream so with my next comment... they know the clothes they're wearing and they know the effect it has on both men and even on other women. Don't show it off if you don't want men admiring your magic. "I do it for me..." doesn't fly anymore. And yes we get it... you do it for the men you're "trying" to attract and not "ALL men"... But... sucks to be you i guess when allllll the men are checking out your sexyness and not JUST some magical barrier only allowing those you WANT looking, to be looking.

Just be a gentleman about it, admire those amazing titties, and don't be an overt pervert about it.

Unless you ARE the man she's sending those vibes to... be a man... and
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Women should be able to wear what they want to without people making a big deal about it. A lot of us do not wear things for men or women; we wear certain things for ourselves, believe it or not I guess.

They shouldn’t be mad at men or women for looking but that doesn’t mean it’s an invitation to say or do something sexual.

 

[Nick Briggs]

Women should be able to wear what they want to without people making a big deal about it. A lot of us do not wear things for men or women; we wear certain things for ourselves, believe it or not I guess.

They shouldn’t be mad at men or women for looking but that doesn’t mean it’s an invitation to say or do something sexual.

- Never said they couldn't wear what they want. Just that women aren't and shouldn't be naive and that they "know exactly what they're doing" by wearing sexy and or flattering clothes.

- 100% an "agree to disagree" on the "women wear hott outfits for themselves" thing. That just doesn't fly to me and most people anymore. Women wear sexy'ness to attract the guys / girls they wanna' attract and that's just the simple the truth of it. Unless a chick is asexual... or... she turns herself on? By knowing she herself is hott and or dressed sexy??? Then sure whatever. But ya... women don't dress hott or sexy 99% of the time "for themselves" haha. Just not how that works other than asexual people. Wearing micro bikini tops, g-strings, abs bearing skin tight cleavage showing crop tops etc., is a straight up fashion choice of attempting to attract a fellow hottie that they wanna attract and that's just that.

- And never said it's an outright invitation for pervs to perv, even said in my post that it's not unless said girl is throwing the guy the invitational. But... I did say that there is no magic barrier to stop pervs or horny guys that find said woman sexy as hell from walking over and taking their shot. And that's just how sexual attraction and trying to get a sex partner / girlfriend etc works. Horny men that like what they see and have the guts to say hello are gonna do it and there's no magical barrier stopping them just because the women didn't want "that one" or isn't dressed like that way "formally potential partners"... She rejects him and shuts him down then a man should be a man and walk away... go home and jerk off to the sexy hottie who rejected him and move on like a real man just like I said.

Sooooo ultimately the only thing we disagree on.... women don't dress like Mikayla Demaiter and other sexy hotties "for themselves" unless they're asexual. That's just some weird phrase that doesn't fly anymore and I'm not gonna be convinced otherwise. Just "my take" on the topic.

 

[20250001]

- Never said they couldn't wear what they want. Just that women aren't and shouldn't be naive and that they "know exactly what they're doing" by wearing sexy and or flattering clothes.

- 100% an "agree to disagree" on the "women wear hott outfits for themselves" thing. That just doesn't fly to me and most people anymore. Women wear sexy'ness to attract the guys / girls they wanna' attract and that's just the simple the truth of it. Unless a chick is asexual... or... she turns herself on? By knowing she herself is hott and or dressed sexy??? Then sure whatever. But ya... women don't dress hott or sexy 99% of the time "for themselves" haha. Just not how that works other than asexual people. Wearing micro bikini tops, g-strings, abs bearing skin tight cleavage showing crop tops etc., is a straight up fashion choice of attempting to attract a fellow hottie that they wanna attract and that's just that.

- And never said it's an outright invitation for pervs to perv, even said in my post that it's not unless said girl is throwing the guy the invitational. But... I did say that there is no magic barrier to stop pervs or horny guys that find said woman sexy as hell from walking over and taking their shot. And that's just how sexual attraction and trying to get a sex partner / girlfriend etc works. Horny men that like what they see and have the guts to say hello are gonna do it and there's no magical barrier stopping them just because the women didn't want "that one" or isn't dressed like that way "formally potential partners"... She rejects him and shuts him down then a man should be a man and walk away... go home and jerk off to the sexy hottie who rejected him and move on like a real man just like I said.

Sooooo ultimately the only thing we disagree on.... women don't dress like Mikayla Demaiter and other sexy hotties "for themselves" unless they're asexual. That's just some weird phrase that doesn't fly anymore and I'm not gonna be convinced otherwise. Just "my take" on the topic.

K, whatever you say, bud.

 

[ViewingPleasure]

Woman can't have it both ways. Some woman dress normal and try not to be a show off but others do want to be noticed especially wearing spandex showing off there camel toe. Most times I look at peoples eyes when we talk but hell it's only natural for ones eyes to wonder but not stare. I don't know what women think if you do glance at there attributes but the woman I know I don't need to stare at there tits since I already am accustomed to there body. I'm only Human and will glance but not stare but if I see a nice ass I will turn around and get a nice eye full for as long as I can. Some woman will look back to see if I'm looking so only tells me they want me to look. Lastly, if they don't want the stares, looks, glances then don't try to be sexy when grocery shopping etc. . It's like the are fishing, get all baited up to see if they get a nibble. I look but try to be discreet. I'm not dead just a natural born male and part of the Ying and Yang of life.

LOL - women can't have it both ways. That's cute.

 

[ViewingPleasure]

Depending on the woman, it's sometimes a test of willpower. Even if she is putting it out there, show you have some restraint and look her in the eyes when you are talking to her. You know what tits look like, and you aren't really seeing what hers really look like when she's wearing clothes anyway.

Hey, if there's a sexual connection, she likely won't mind you taking a peek after you're done talking, but don't do it while she's talking to you. Listen to what she's saying. For the best women, that's the best chance of seeing her without her clothes anyway.

 

[Hassall]

Well, I'm only 5'3" since I lost 2 1/2 inches due to disintegrating disc disease of the lower back and had a three level cervical fusion at C4-7. Add to that over the years my neck started leaning forward soost of the times my natural eye position is looking right into the chest so I actually have to forcibly look up and I to the eyes while I talk. It fucking sucks

 

[Sagittarius84]

Hey, if there's a sexual connection, she likely won't mind you taking a peek after you're done talking, but don't do it while she's talking to you.

If there's a genuine mutual sexual connection, it's instant and she'll appreciate you looking at her cleavage, no matter when she catches on to it. The very first conversation between my now wife and I came after she caught me looking down her shirt...she's grateful to this day for her decision to wear a low cut shirt to work some 15yrs ago, and I wouldn't be here if I didn't leer first, talk later.