Do you consider yourself a slut?

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Question is quite simple, but answers don't have to be.

I do consider myself a slut, despite the fact I haven't had sex with that many people before. I'm married and bisexual, so it's a bit complicated. I don't sleep with other women because my wife completely satisfies me in that regard, but I do have sex with men. I used to consider myself just bicurious (whatever that is) but the more I experimented with men, the more I got into it. The male physique excites me, though not quite as much as the female one.

Why I consider myself a slut has to do with both thoughts and behaviour. I would suck anyone's cock if I was attracted to him and fuck anyone if the right atmosphere is there. Granted, I do have my boundaries age- and weight-wise, but I just love sex. I love dominating my wife and fucking her hard, I love being dominated by a good looking, hung man, being throat fucked and cummed on. Being someone's - anyone's - suck-toy is just my idea of heaven.

How about you guys and girls? :)
 
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Well sometimes I'm glad that I live on the edge of town and that most days are busy or I wake up to a bit of a hangover or too tired. Because fucking around has never been so easier with the amount of dating apps, especially since I'm bi and single. I love nearly every part of sex and enjoy both man and woman.

I stopped thinking I wasn't a slut after fucking with 5 guys in a day (2 threesomes and another guy).

Despite what it looks like, I don't sleep with anybody or I don't act overly sexual in public. I have my boundaries. But living in a big city has the advantage that a lot of people fit what I'm looking for in a hook up.
 
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No I do not consider myself a slut... when I think slut I think someone taking on multiple partners. For me pictures of the human body is an art. I take time to have special lighting and make sure it looks beautiful. But everyone has there own opinions? Some would find that slutty.. just depends who you talk to I guess
 
There's this stigma attached to being a "slut" which isn't entirely fair...

Although I consider myself bisexual, the urges I feel towards men are very different than the ones I feel towards a female.

I'm a very dirty man that will do many things simply for the slutty thrills that come along with it. That said, I'm not a common whore that puts up ads on Craigslist seeking anonymous cock just for the sake of having it.

I've had a couple of long-standing relationships with guys in the past where it was really quite simple. We weren't best buddies or anything, and whenever I heard from them I knew exactly what they wanted. It almost always turned into them telling me to swing by and see them, and then I came in their house, they were already naked and stroking, and I wasted no time getting right to business. Just the satisfaction of sucking their gorgeous cocks to completion was gratification enough for me.

So yeah, I guess considering that I was happily "that guy" who got called up when they wanted their dick sucked, ass eaten, or a tight asshole to dump their cum into, I'd be lying if I said I wasn't a slut...
 
That's almost exactly what I feel, pipedreamer, thank you for your comment.

I don't really pay much attention to the social stigma around being a slut. I am faithful in relationships and I've had some serious ones. I just am very much into pleasing people. Being mainly submissive with men, sucking them seems the natural way to go. I get a thrill from being 'used' for someone else's sexual gratification. Receiving cum on my face or in my mouth is a huge part of that, since most guys a into that. I had a very hot encounter once where I let a guy blow his load into my mouth and I let it dribble to the floor. Since he was very dominant, that clearly wasn't the smart thing to do since he forced me to lick it up. Just the thought of being forced to do something so degrading was so exciting, much more than the act itself.

I don't think I live to please others, because I enjoy pleasing them so much. I enjoy getting a mail telling me to come by to suck dick, feeling like a slut. Is that a normal thing, you think?
 
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Very normal, in the right dynamic.

I'm not into the whole degradatory stuff, I very much embrace my slutty urges with people that are worthy of that gift. No shame, just enjoy unbridled, pig-rolling-in-the-mud hedonism.

I'm very much a pleaser, and like making people feel good. But when you get that right dynamic, with someone on the same wavelength and is the same sort of Filthy McNasty as you, it feels amazing.
 
I'd never enter a bdsm relationship of course, but sometimes it's so exciting to be treated the way I feel I am, if that makes any sense. I identify as slutty, and it's fun to be 'recognized'. Sorry if I don't make an sense, I think a lot about this kind of stuff.
 
At one point in time, yes. No shame or guilt about it. Am I still? No. Loyal as hell and monogamous with one person for the last few years, and will continue to be. I don't feel bad about my past, my partner knows my past, and life goes on.
 
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In my late teens,early 20's early 30's ....?
HELL YES!
i was always an outgoing highly social dude.
Plus I had a lot of my female cousins that were the ultimate wing women for me when it came to meeting/hooking up with women.
Every party,barbecue,or social event,they would be introduced to so many women.
It's bad when I occasionally run into a woman that I've gotten a blow job from back to in those days and i don't even remember until one of my cousins or someone else reminds me.
 
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