Do you ever feel pressured to share your size ?

[lonlonepona]

Hey

For other well endowed guys, do you ever feel pressured to share your size ? I don’t even mean directly pressured too. I’m just under 8” soft and around 9.5” hard, but I didn’t do anything in particular to have that. It feels like a privilege to have and since learning others appreciate it, that I should share it more. Because it’s basically all luck I feel a little selfish not letting others feel good from it. Within reason of course, I don’t fully act on this, but I do feel like it’s something I have without earning it.

I’m wondering if this is a shared experience at all ? I do have a tendency to want to please others outside of this so also thinking it could be a personality quirk too.

 

[smaller1inne]

Opposite problem here. I feel obligated to share size, because most people (men/women) all want bigger. So I feel obligated to share so that we don't become invested and interested only to get disappointed when I don't measure up.

 

[lonlonepona]

Opposite problem here. I feel obligated to share size, because most people (men/women) all want bigger. So I feel obligated to share so that we don't become invested and interested only to get disappointed when I don't measure up.

I think if you work hard on yourself you have nothing to worry about. Work out, eat well, have some good hobbies and strong morals. You’ll find someone and deserve them.

 

[Curious65]

Hey

For other well endowed guys, do you ever feel pressured to share your size ? I don’t even mean directly pressured too. I’m just under 8” soft and around 9.5” hard, but I didn’t do anything in particular to have that. It feels like a privilege to have and since learning others appreciate it, that I should share it more. Because it’s basically all luck I feel a little selfish not letting others feel good from it. Within reason of course, I don’t fully act on this, but I do feel like it’s something I have without earning it.

I’m wondering if this is a shared experience at all ? I do have a tendency to want to please others outside of this so also thinking it could be a personality quirk too.

You sound like a humble guy who happens to have a big good looking cock!

 

[lonlonepona]

You sound like a humble guy who happens to have a big good looking cock!

I didn’t do anything to get it. And just in general arrogance isn’t good.

 

[NerdWithAKnob]

I pretty much keep it entirely to myself. I'm a nerdy guy who isn't super boastful haha. As much as the attention would be kind of fun, surprising people with what I'm working with is really fun too. I do wonder how many people know I'm so thick without me knowing I know though, maybe rumors have spread?

 

[Josh797]

Opposite problem here. I feel obligated to share size, because most people (men/women) all want bigger. So I feel obligated to share so that we don't become invested and interested only to get disappointed when I don't measure up.

Same here. I feel obligated due to being smaller, and just letting a potential partner know up front.

 

[lonlonepona]

Same here. I feel obligated due to being smaller, and just letting a potential partner know up front.

Size isn’t everything. Don’t beat yourself up about it.

 

[smaller1inne]

Wish that was true, but my lack of interested people once they see my package - disagrees.

 

[lonlonepona]

Wish that was true, but my lack of interested people once they see my package - disagrees.

Perfect is the enemy of good. Don’t worry so much about one aspect you can’t control.

 

[jjonesdelano]

Opposite problem here. I feel obligated to share size, because most people (men/women) all want bigger. So I feel obligated to share so that we don't become invested and interested only to get disappointed when I don't measure up.

I feel the same.. the person maybe a size queen and feel obligated to hint I am smaller to not disappoint

 

[lonlonepona]

I feel the same.. the person maybe a size queen and feel obligated to hint I am smaller to not disappoint

Don’t give up on yourself or all women just because some have a preference.

 

[FrankieGuile]

Are you saying one is noble for sharing gifts for a selfish end? That is a novel and unsubstantiated humble-brag is I ever heard one.

 

[JBD_Mikk]

I've sometimes felt the same, as if I shouldn't waste what's been given to me - but not enough to have casual sex or flaunt it inappropriately (and it's been a few years since I was in a relationship!)

But it did end up bringing me to this site - and I'm not sure I'd be posting pics (or that I'd even have found the site) if I weren't my current size.

 

[RaskaYu]

Hey

For other well endowed guys, do you ever feel pressured to share your size ? I don’t even mean directly [...]

Yeah, kind of, I can see how.

But you mean disclosing your size to partners before things escalate in the bedroom (as not all of them will be willing and/or able to manage your endowment...)

Or more in a casual "let's discuss this" approach with friends and trying to unveil those big dick misconceptions and have a nuanced and adult conversation on society's expectations and so.

Or perhaps you didn't have much of a reputation and wish more people to know and talk about it. (This last one can apply to SPH too)