do you ever worry you arent big enough even though you are?

unnecessarily worry about size


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do you ever you WORRY you arent big enough even though you are?​

sorry lpsg wont let me edit the title i missed the worry part. lol

mines 8 inches but for some reason feel its not big enough. I know this is psychological, considering im bigger than most down there but does anyone else have this issue?
 
My tool is a bit over average and I’ve been told by multiple men and women that it’s on the larger side of what they’ve experienced. But I’m a grower and from seeing longer flaccid dicks all my life, I’ve always felt that my cock was small.
 
My tool is a bit over average and I’ve been told by multiple men and women that it’s on the larger side of what they’ve experienced. But I’m a grower and from seeing longer flaccid dicks all my life, I’ve always felt that my cock was small.
I'm also a grower, but fortunately by the time most women has seen my cock for the first time, it was already fully erect or close to it, as we have been making out, etc.

My erection looks 'normal' or 'average' to me but that's the same for most men, because it is what you see every time you have an erection. I'm old enough where I'd read sex stories in Penthouse Forum, and all those guys had 8-10 inches, so my 7 inches seemed 'small' .

But the reactions of every woman I've ever with were complimentary on my size, and the publishing of penis size surveys online also confirmed the reality that I have an above average sized penis in both length, and especially girth. The moans of pleasure from the women I've been with are all the validation I need!
 
I think it depends. Normally I know how big the average dick is and as far as I can use a rular, I know that I'm above the average, but if it is big or large depends on the eye of view.
I dated a guy and thought when the puts down his short: "Holy shit, what a huge dick!" - but when we did some dick action (like dick on dick) I realized that my dick was larger than his. That's sometimes nice.

On weekend I had some action with a friend but due I had some drinks before my dick doesn't performed (I'm a grower too) as I liked although I was horny ... his dick was really beautiful and big ... and in this situation I felt a little bit insecure and stressed - although he made me compliments for my dick. Yesterday evening when I jerked off at home I realized that our dicks could be very similiar "in real action", maybe he's thicker and his glans was different in shape ...
 
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When I was first becoming sexually active Penthouse Forum was the only place that mentioned cock size. They were always 10, 11, 12 inches long. I started out thinking I was average or even small. That thinking got corrected once I started having sex with girls / women myself.
 
My erection easily reaches my navel, but have always thought it should be longer. ..lol. ... Then I think, it also reaches that far when up inside someone. .. 🤔. So, I suppose I should be satisfied.
 
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I think porn warps our minds a bit into thinking we should be bigger than we are. Sure some of us have 7+ inch cocks, but the majority of the population is around 5 inches at full mast. Plus, we often forget to consider the person we're sticking our dicks into may not be so keen on a big monster, when a average cock feels good without tearing them in two lol.q
 
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90's hip hop and R B, and later my experience with girls/women have taught me, there's no real negative to being atop the hierarchy of metrics women tend to find attractive. So even at above average height at 6'3", I don't see a real downside to being 6'7". Do I think a lot of women aren't necessarily looking for high earning men? Sure, but being higher earning is only going to help me in the mating and dating department. As is with a penis that is by most metrics above average in showing and growing, the worst consequence of a larger penis would be rejection on that metric alone, which in the grand scheme of things, is a positive ego flex and advertising for other willing parties.
I think as long as women en masse trend towards hypergamy, most men will feel they are not enough, or at the very least could stand to do better....
 
All dick is good dick. I've never seen one I didn't like. It's the man that makes the dick, not the other way around.

I'm gay, so there's an instant comparison once we're jockless. The only times I haven't been turned on by them is when a guy has been way too self-conscious over size difference. But I don't care what it looks like, bigger or smaller. If I can make you feel good through it then that's what we're here for!
 
I'm listed in the highest percentages in all charts and graphs, ....but have always had in the back of my mind, that I'm more average and should be bigger. .... The mind does screw with your own perceptions.
 
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