Sure I wanna hear it, not saying bi guys with preference for women don't exist, but I'm sure some of them lie to themselves.
Do you feel guys are sincere about their attraction to men?
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In any relationship, you have to establish what the boundaries are going to be. Who is going to top and be the bottom. Is this person going to be your boyfriend, FWB, fuck buddy....whatever.
Since I'm paired up with another woman. I tell guys that I want to have a fuck buddy. Nothing more and nothing less. We go and hang out, blow our loads and part ways until next time.
I don't care about who they follow on social media or their attitudes towards other men. I just want you to blow my fucking load and I'll blow yours as well and we all leave satisfied.
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So it becomes a debate of you assuming they are "lying" to themselves. These debates never end well.
If a guy on Sniffies says he's straight but wants his dick sucked... I'm not going to question his belief system. It's his to own.
Yep! I agree with you 100%!
Since I've been experimenting with being a bull in the straight swinger's lifestyle, I am shocked how many men are knee-weak attracted to the sight of a big porno dick. I've learned so much about straight men this past year.
No -- a lot of these dudes are far from 100% gay. But, they have varying degrees of male bisexuality for sure. I can tell by the way they lust after the sight of my Big Boy (even if they don't want to suck it, etc.). No doubt about it.
It's scary as hell, but it does make you feel vulnerable. I encourage all men to experiment. Being with a man can be a mindblowing experience and a game-changer. But it doesn't necessarily mean you're full-blown gay, if you do. You might just discover that you are bisexual, which many men are, but won't admit it.
I'm one of the shy ones, but if I have a relationship with a guy, I don't want it to be just sex. I want to know that guy, what he likes, what his hobbies are, I want to know him, not just his organ. I don't have many friends because of shyness, and those I do have are not the kind that will talk about intimate things like sex or what they like to do when making love or whatever I like in sex. This forum has been wonderful for me here because I am bi and am only now pursuing curiosities I have had most of my life and finding guys that will at least share not just their sexuality but their personalities. I only wish that one of them would be meat so that we could share things not just virtually but really.
Getting guys to talk about how they feel is so hard, understandable but frustrating.
I think though many times it's how we are affected by our environment. Most of the guys I know are very superficial, and those who are reasonably open stunt talk about intimate things.
OP, there is still lots of social pressure on being gay or bi. Of course most men are leaning towards saying that they are more straight because that's the norm. Thats why there are still many in the closet. But I think their actions say it all.
My phone likes to replace things when I type. The following ...
" I only wish that one of them would be meat so that we could share things not just virtually but really."
... should read
" I only wish that one of them would be near so that we could share things not just virtually but really."
What I find even funnier is that some people get really defensive when I bring out this topic, so I'm kinda surprised the ones that disagree with me doesn't seem very bothered by it.
Cause in the past the reaction was mostly like: "I love women, men are just for sex when I'm bored and I'm actually disgusted by them"
"Not gay, I have a cock fetish" "It's ok cause it's bro sex, we take care of each other" and so.
Cause in the past the reaction was mostly like: "I love women, men are just for sex when I'm bored and I'm actually disgusted by them"
"Not gay, I have a cock fetish" "It's ok cause it's bro sex, we take care of each other" and so.
Yes. Maybe that's why I think guys are scared to be friends with me. I want to know a guy not just for his organ. I want to know the guy as well: what moves him, what makes him happy, what he loves to do. I think that reduces the number of guys who would be friends with me because not many are willing to invest trust much into a friendship. I find that knowing a friend whether a man or a woman and what the like makes a foundation on which you can build a stronger friendship and relationship, and that knowledge carries over into the sexual realm as well, things we say things we do with that knowledge can be used to stoke those flames as well.
Only guy I have ever truly liked (also bi) with whom i flirted a lot too (we were very handsy with each other) literally run away the moment I tried to turn our friendship into something more meaningful.
I was actually very sad about it, cried a lot over what I lost, even if we didn't have any romance, I was still mourning the loss of that friendship.
Now I don't care, he can walk into traffic if he wishes to.
I have experienced that kind of pain. It takes years of your life. It's called a broken heart, and that is worse than any physical pain you will go thru! When singing gets me as a friend or lover, they have me until they don't want me anymore. Having experienced that kind of pain, I never want to cause anyone that kind of pain!
