Well recently I got two roomies. One guy is straight the other is gay. They know each other through work (work together - security). The straight guy is really attractive. I kind of did it fast (as i i met them and right away decided i wanted to room with them) but thinking about it i'm just wondering if this will be an issue for me. Will it be too distracting? etc
In the past, I have consciously decided to NOT live with people I find too attractive.
I gotta say the threads here don't help. The guy is straight..so that should be that and really not much should be made of it..but apparently based on this forum, he may want me to blow him lol
What confused me about your original question was that ideally, people find one another attractive, and then live together for YEARS and YEARS, which is where families come from! :tongue:
It sounds like you prefer so far to stay single, and so you have avoided mixing attraction and practical matters such as daily living. But life being what it is, these two things will not always be easy to separate.
In the case of the 'straight' guy, in many parts of the world the definition of straight is flexible enough that same sex contacts are not frowned upon. And only the person himself can tell you how he feels about it. I would say, keep your cool, keep an open mind, and make friendships with these guys first.