Do you prefer passive non cumming bottoms in porn

[Capitolhillguy]

The vast majority of gay porn has tops fucking limp dicked bottoms that don't cum. This is especially true in breeding scenes. Is this just less work for them of does the porn audience really prefer bottoms just be used for the top's pleasure? I wonder if bottoms watching porn have the same reaction as tops viewing such scenes?

 

[ArabicBottom]

It’s not a big issue for me but I think it’s hot because it’s similar to my experience. I don’t stay hard when I get fucked and when I use poppers that’s it for my dick. But I do cum and shoot while soft just from working my prostate. A lot of guys like that a lot but some guys ask if I’m enjoying it because I’m not hard

 

[DeanGreen]

The vast majority of gay porn has tops fucking limp dicked bottoms that don't cum. This is especially true in breeding scenes. Is this just less work for them of does the porn audience really prefer bottoms just be used for the top's pleasure? I wonder if bottoms watching porn have the same reaction as tops viewing such scenes?

I read in another thread or forum where tops didn't want their bottoms to be hard or even cum. Not sure why. I would think if the bottom was really enjoying the top being hard and Cumming would be a compliment for the top. Then again if the bottom is only into an anal orgasm, can you be flaccid and still achieve it?

 

[deleted16192141]

I'm a top and 99% of my partners have been older men, even if just by a couple years. Usually when I cum before them, they just say "do you want to take a shower?" and when I was younger I would just nod and agree but now I reply "let's keep doing it until you cum, ok?" I don't recall anyone saying no but I'm kinda insecure so I would feel like I failed if I don't make them cum

 

[DeanGreen]

I'm a top and 99% of my partners have been older men, even if just by a couple years. Usually when I cum before them, they just say "do you want to take a shower?" and when I was younger I would just nod and agree but now I reply "let's keep doing it until you cum, ok?" I don't recall anyone saying no but I'm kinda insecure so I would feel like I failed if I don't make them cum

Don't you get soft before they cum?

 

[herbho]

When it comes to porn, it just depends on the scene and ,sometimes, the actor. or instance, if the scene is romantic, I would like the bottom to cum, because it is a bond between the participants. If it is a gangbang or rough scene, where the emphasis is totally on the top's satisfaction, then having the bottom not cum is a further example of dominance ( the bottom is simply a tool for the top's pleasure). If the bottom is attractive, then I certainly would hope to see the orgasm. But, if he isn't, then it's not as important. Here is twinky Jack Bailey being gangbanged by daddies. Although Jack is the type I normally would like to see cum, in this case, he is only there to serve the pleasure of the tops, so it's okay if he doesn't orgasm. Of course, it's more exciting knowing that getting banged by daddies was one of his fantasies, as he expressed once in an interview.

https://www.boyfriendtv.com/videos/638439/jack-bailey-gets-gangbanged-by-muscle-daddies/

 

[DeanGreen]

Gosh no. If they get off they should be hard and enjoying it, even cumming.

 

[deleted1159579]

Some bottoms just don't get hard while being fucked or cum every time. It doesn't mean they're not enjoying. I'm like this too and have had to explain it to some tops because they thought I wasn't having fun.

 

[deleted1074483]

I'm with @kamalkhan that i want any bottom guy i'm with to have as much fun as me and quite a few do want to cum as well, so like @kamalkhan if i've cum i keep going until my partner is satisfied and/or cum. And @DeanGreen yes i stay hard after cumming and can stay hard for a long time after cumming and certainly until my partner has cum.

not all tops want a bottom to be passive and just 'lay there' some like me want our bottom partners to be fully engaged in the action and to be as active in the action as me.

as for bottoms being limp or not cumming when being fucked, it depends on the guy and it depends on the position.

When my bf rides me, he's hard af and can cum that way, if i'm fucking him with him laying flat, he's not always hard.

In porn it depends what the scene is as @herbho says - some porn is purely about the top's enjoyment/domination some is more 'romantic' some is even with power bottoms and very active/dom bottom guys. so i've no issue with a bottom guy in porn having a limp dick, or a hard dick or cumming/not cumming after all its make believe ;-)

 

[thongboy]

Some bottoms just don't get hard while being fucked or cum every time. It doesn't mean they're not enjoying. I'm like this too and have had to explain it to some tops because they thought I wasn't having fun.

I stay rock hard when I'm fucked and I always will cum at some point. When I'm topping a dude, I like him on his back so I can see his face and cock when I'm in his ass and work his cock if I think it needs attention. One of my buddies used to go soft when I fucked him, so I suggested he started wearinga cock ring when we were doing it. He did and now he has had some massive orgasms

 

[Brodie888]

This may be news to a lot of tops but bottoms often don't want to cum because they are planning to fuck another guy later that day or night.

I find cumming is kryptonite to my libido. Each time I cum, my libido halves. So this affects performance with later encounters.

Lots of tops do it too. They pretend to cum in a condom and dispose of the evidence before anyone can check.

 

[LOVE_MMFs]

NO! Definitely not. My preference is to see the bottoms in porn fully hard, enjoying themselves, and cumming. I think it’s especially hot when the bottom is on top and riding a guy with his rock hard cock bouncing up and down and slapping the guy on the stomach like a drum!

 

[Infernal]

A lot of bottoms in porn film multiple scenes a day and just can't get hard anymore. As a viewer of porn, there are some times when I want to see the bottom cum, either from getting pounded or by getting himself off. Sometimes if the scene is just about the bottom being used as a hole, then I don't care. It depends on the context. There are some porn studios where it's all about the top and they don't care if the bottom gets off at all. Those get boring really fast.

 

[Hakan1]

NO! Definitely not. My preference is to see the bottoms in porn fully hard, enjoying themselves, and cumming. I think it’s especially hot when the bottom is on top and riding a guy with his rock hard cock bouncing up and down and slapping the guy on the stomach like a drum!

that´s it !