So as everyone knows I'm bi, mostly straight, and rather than cheat on my wife and get my M-M sex urges fulfilled on the DL I told my wife I was bi (long story) and joined a local bi organization where I could go and meet bi men and women and enjoy their company in person on a bi-to-bi basis. I don't need to actually hook up with anyone per se, just sharing the bi natures of our souls is more rewarding to me.
So last month our local group had a bi booth at the Pride Parade and I manned the table to hand out bi-themed stickers, flags, and bandanas to guests who came by the booth. There were a lot of women who stopped by, thanked me for the bi-swag and excitedly said, "I'm bi" Their excitement and energy of saying that out loud, in turn, got me excited and more enthusiastic in handing out the goodies and telling them of our bi club.
Hopefully I got some of them to join. The majority of them were drop-dead gorgeous.
I think what was happening in the dynamic was that when I transitioned to bi 30 years ago, there were no men at the time who would admit to me they were bi, so I kept it to myself and would only admit it to a woman after she said she felt bi herself. It was such a relief to find another person who was bi that I could talk to, so I opened up and would get excited about being able to share my own bi feelings. And I'd love the women for being bi, as it was quite common for the time for Penthouse and other male mags to show photo spreads of two women making out as I'd get hot watching the women kissing and fondling each other while my mind imagined they'd want me to join in.
Of course, it never dawned on me at the time that (maybe) there were women who were also bi-mostly-straight who got turned on and hot as they watched their guys make out and screw each other. I'd read about it in my book on 3-way sex that this did happen on occasion or two, then discovered one here at LPSG who's transitioning to accept her own bi side while she's trying to convince her bi BF that she gets totally hot watching or thinking about the two guys making out and shagging each other. I mentioned this to one of the women in my bi club yesterday when we had an event at the beach and she said, "Yep. Gets me hot to watch the guys make out with each other."
So I know there are bi women out there (may be a minority) who actually LIKE watching the guys suck and rub our cocks together, make out and get THEM excited to be bi themselves.
it's almost like I'm paying back all the positive bi energy that came my way and feed it back to the women as a thank-you for accepting me as a bi male.
Does anyone else feel this way? Or, as usual, is it just me?
Thanks!
So last month our local group had a bi booth at the Pride Parade and I manned the table to hand out bi-themed stickers, flags, and bandanas to guests who came by the booth. There were a lot of women who stopped by, thanked me for the bi-swag and excitedly said, "I'm bi" Their excitement and energy of saying that out loud, in turn, got me excited and more enthusiastic in handing out the goodies and telling them of our bi club.
Hopefully I got some of them to join. The majority of them were drop-dead gorgeous.
I think what was happening in the dynamic was that when I transitioned to bi 30 years ago, there were no men at the time who would admit to me they were bi, so I kept it to myself and would only admit it to a woman after she said she felt bi herself. It was such a relief to find another person who was bi that I could talk to, so I opened up and would get excited about being able to share my own bi feelings. And I'd love the women for being bi, as it was quite common for the time for Penthouse and other male mags to show photo spreads of two women making out as I'd get hot watching the women kissing and fondling each other while my mind imagined they'd want me to join in.
Of course, it never dawned on me at the time that (maybe) there were women who were also bi-mostly-straight who got turned on and hot as they watched their guys make out and screw each other. I'd read about it in my book on 3-way sex that this did happen on occasion or two, then discovered one here at LPSG who's transitioning to accept her own bi side while she's trying to convince her bi BF that she gets totally hot watching or thinking about the two guys making out and shagging each other. I mentioned this to one of the women in my bi club yesterday when we had an event at the beach and she said, "Yep. Gets me hot to watch the guys make out with each other."
So I know there are bi women out there (may be a minority) who actually LIKE watching the guys suck and rub our cocks together, make out and get THEM excited to be bi themselves.
it's almost like I'm paying back all the positive bi energy that came my way and feed it back to the women as a thank-you for accepting me as a bi male.
Does anyone else feel this way? Or, as usual, is it just me?
Thanks!
