Does working closely with a work colleague intensify attraction when there was none ?

[RyanMars]

It's crazy. I never had any attraction to my bosses in the beginning. They are both married with children. Regular degular guys. But the more I have worked with them, the more I have become attracted to them, and even had a sex dream of one of them fucking me. It's crazy. Its crazy bc I literally spend so much time with them everyday. Maybe that's why ? I dont know what is happening.

The other thing is no flirting has happened. Its all been professional.

Anyone else experience this ?

 

[AusWang85]

It's crazy. I never had any attraction to my bosses in the beginning. They are both married with children. Regular degular guys. But the more I have worked with them, the more I have become attracted to them, and even had a sex dream of one of them fucking me. It's crazy. Its crazy bc I literally spend so much time with them everyday. Maybe that's why ? I dont know what is happening.

The other thing is no flirting has happened. Its all been professional.

Anyone else experience this ?

Hey Ryan

I've kinda been on the receiving end of this with a younger male employee/subordinate (who I thought was straight, lol). It all came out after a few drinks at the pub years later, totally chill and no judgement from me we laughed about it but I could tell he was quite fraught over it at the time.

I don't see how this develops other than if you really look up to these guys and there is some sort of affection in that way starting off professional?. You don't have to flirt with someone to be attracted to them, you can manifest that internally.

Do you find them physically attractive in general?

 

[ronin001]

Nope :

I have had a few female bosses, all married with families. Granted I may have at some point though, hey she looks attractive today ( in a respectful way ) ; but nothing sexual

 

[Sagittarius84]

It sort of happened with how me and my wife met....although, visually we were quite mutually attracted to each other, it wasn't until we stayed after hours for some overtime stuff that we saw how compatible we were.

 

[daRose]

Yup- happens to me all the time- the more time I spend w someone smart, funny, powerful or intelligent the sexier I find them! It happened w.the last male boss I had- I kind of thought he was odd looking at first but 2 years later but I thought he was so so hot.