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Stop it, Mary. Having a preference against an entire race is racist. Or only liking white guys. It is. Full stop.

It’s 2024. The gay community has got to stop saying shit like this.
I mean, as long as it only involves physical attraction, being only attracted to certain physical characteristics of a certain group of people isn't inherently racist. Attraction is not something you can control since it's a part of your sexuality.

So long as you don't treat people without those characteristics as any less, and so long as you're open to dating people without those characteristics if you found them attractive anyway, I don't see how it can be considered "racist" to have preferences.

Saying that's racist honestly sounds like saying straight people are "homophobic" for refusing to date people of the same sex.

Not dating person of race xyz due to lack of attraction is not racist. BUT not dating person of race xyz due to hate and/or prejudice towards their race is.
 
Stop it, Mary. Having a preference against an entire race is racist. Or only liking white guys. It is. Full stop.

It’s 2024. The gay community has got to stop saying shit like this.
So according to your logic, if a biological (aka cis) gay man doesn't want to date a trans man then he is transphobic! Seriously!?

People are allowed to have preferences. No one should be forced to date anyone.
If a person doesn't want to date people from certain ethnicity then it's totally fine.
It's only racism if the person thinks that just because he isn't attracted to them, then it means people from that ethnicity aren't hot or dateable and other people have the same mentality & attraction as his.
 
So according to your logic, if a biological (aka cis) gay man doesn't want to date a trans man then he is transphobic! Seriously!?

People are allowed to have preferences. No one should be forced to date anyone.
If a person doesn't want to date people from certain ethnicity then it's totally fine.
It's only racism if the person thinks that just because he isn't attracted to them, then it means people from that ethnicity aren't hot or dateable and other people have the same mentality & attraction as his.
You raised great points but I can confirm this man is indeed a racist.
 
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Because you heard from a friend of a friend? Racist being the word of 2024
I mean, if he tweeted that black people have bad breath that’s pretty racist. It’s not Hitler level racist but it’s not going to get him invited to any NAACP awards dinners either.
 
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So according to your logic, if a biological (aka cis) gay man doesn't want to date a trans man then he is transphobic! Seriously!?

People are allowed to have preferences. No one should be forced to date anyone.
If a person doesn't want to date people from certain ethnicity then it's totally fine.
It's only racism if the person thinks that just because he isn't attracted to them, then it means people from that ethnicity aren't hot or dateable and other people have the same mentality & attraction as his.
No one is forcing anyone to date anyone.

That said if you say “I don’t date this race of person” or “Im only into white guys” you are in fact racist, yes. Your preferences may be racist.
 
No one is forcing anyone to date anyone.

That said if you say “I don’t date this race of person” or “Im only into white guys” you are in fact racist, yes. Your preferences may be racist.
So there's no winning then?

If someone only date according to their preference then people like you will label them as racist, but if they don't want to be labeled racist they have to ignore their preference and force themself to date people they are not necessarily attracted to.

It's 2024 indeed.
 
I mean, if he tweeted that black people have bad breath that’s pretty racist. It’s not Hitler level racist but it’s not going to get him invited to any NAACP awards dinners either.
And also tweets about how “loud and obvious” black ppl are.
So there's no winning then?

If someone only date according to their preference then people like you will label them as racist, but if they don't want to be labeled racist they have to ignore their preference and force themself to date people they are not necessarily attracted to.

It's 2024 indeed.

I don’t think he’s exactly being labeled racist for his dating preference. More so for his racist tweets against blacks. The dating preference was the cherry on top
 
No one is forcing anyone to date anyone.

That said if you say “I don’t date this race of person” or “Im only into white guys” you are in fact racist, yes. Your preferences may be racist.

So people can't have preferences? Or if they have, then they shouldn't tell others because if they do that then they'll be labled as racist by people like you?!

Don't you think it'll be easier for everyone especially in the dating scene, if people didn't have to hide their preferences. People who aren't gonna date certain ethnicity, aren't gonna change their mind either way. So why beating around the bush here? If their profile addressed their preferences then people from certain ethnicity wouldn't have to waste their time.
 
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